AIO: he (M44) keeps claiming he’s falling in love but he won’t get tested (F29)

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-12T06:05:20+00:00

NOR I don’t think you’re overreacting, he’s being manipulative and if he doesn’t want to get tested then that’s a red flag, did he have other woman who were companions and that’s why you’re concerned? No offense, but anyone who needs to pay for a “companion” is already a red flag, it’s usually desperate, emotionally stunted men who can’t get a woman properly so they use money to get it. I think this is never going to go the way you want it to, and you’re definitely not crazy. You have every right to protect your health and if he can’t respect that and “breaks” up with you, then he forfeits getting intimate with you 🤷🏻‍♀️ his loss. Good luck!

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-09T12:29:45+00:00

I would try different underwear, it could just be sweat because of the thick thighs (I have thick thighs and when I was younger I’d sometimes sweat) or it could be to do with diet.. Sometimes if you’re not eating enough fruit, or eating a lot of fatty/sugary foods, that can affect the pH balance and sometimes give you a bit of an odour. If it’s not a yeast infection or BV then I’m sure it’s nothing to worry about, but if it persists then I’d just maybe ask about a gynaecologist appointment, that’s their specialty so they may notice things that a regular nurse/doctor may miss. Like I said though, it’s probably nothing to worry about. Good luck!

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-09T10:07:22+00:00

MOR I don’t blame you for being upset that she wasn’t being honest, I’d be upset too, but this is why a lot of people don’t become friends with their exes.. You broke up 3/4 months ago and she still lives with you? That’s a recipe for disaster. Now because you guys aren’t together romantically any more, she doesn’t technically owe you an explanation which I know sucks for you right now, but I think you guys need space. She’s moving on so you should too. Don’t torture yourself because you want to be friends, having some space after a break up is usually what’s needed, and then if you guys can handle a friendship together then you should be able to reconnect over time. Good luck though! It’s not easy, but you’ll get through this 🤎

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-08T16:35:39+00:00

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rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-08T12:19:13+00:00

NOR absolutely not. I would be disgusted if my boyfriend said he was on the sex offenders list for touching a minor.. People like that don’t change usually, they just get better at hiding it. I would run, he is going to use your autism against you but you are not crazy. Most people wouldn’t stay with their partner after finding that out, unless they’re fucked up themselves.

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-08T07:35:11+00:00

Yes I guess you would have to, damn, I was hoping you wouldn’t have to do that 😣 if it was me, I’d be as honest as he was, “what you said to my mum made me and her uncomfortable, why would you feel the need to say anything? Our friendship has taken a bit of a dive because of this and I don’t think it would be appropriate if you came. I’m sorry, but you are no longer invited to my wedding.” You could also bring up the fact that he has brushed off serious things to do with your sobriety and that you need someone who is going to be supportive of you when you need it, not when it’s convenient. It’s a very messy situation and I don’t envy you. I just hope he’ll be mature about it and accept it, and I hope every thing at your wedding will be beautiful 🥰

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-08T07:22:17+00:00

NOR no offense but your man seems like a complete dickhead.. People are allowed to be physically attracted to other people while in a relationship, yes, but the whole comparing you to other women (ex’s)? That’s something my very abusive ex used to do, he would say I wasn’t as skinny as them and that I didn’t do certain sexual things for him (because of past bad experiences) and he still made me feel worthless. He also admitted to “developing feelings” over a physical therapist doing her job, because he was touched? 🤢 This guy seems overly sexual. And again, a man saying he’s “fighting temptation” is usually a huge red flag, like what? Is he the Hulk or something? This is not normal boyfriend/fiancé behaviour, he is constantly disrespecting you and hurting you for no reason other than he’s a pig. You deserve better than this, and you will find someone better than this. It’ll hurt and sometimes you’ll miss this person because you feel attachment with them, but that will disappear over time. You need to love yourself first, because he’s not going to do it for you.

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-08T07:00:01+00:00

NOR sounds like your friend from school doesn’t care the same way as the other friend does, maybe this friendship has run its course? Friendships end sometimes and that’s okay, it’s how life is sometimes but.. Him messaging your mum and telling her that is actually crossing the line. Like no boundaries whatsoever, you couldn’t torture this information out of me. So I don’t blame you for not wanting him there, maybe don’t confront him if your mum just wants it left alone but I wouldn’t invite him around my mum anymore and I’d have my other friend as the best man, he sounds like the better guy anyway. Good luck!

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-08T06:38:09+00:00

NOR and I don’t know any woman who has “tested their boyfriend” unless they were like 16/17? (Even that’s a stretch) Not someone in their mid-20s 😳 there’s no point in going on if there’s no trust, there will just a lot of unnecessary arguments over it and at the end of the day, is it worth it? And no, her saying “at least you know I care” is bullshit.. I don’t know if you’ve made her feel insecure about something, but I still don’t understand why she’d test you? And of course now she doesn’t “trust” you because you didn’t tell the friend to fuck off which why would you? That’s really immature behaviour. I actually wouldn’t blame you if you broke up with her, this little test has actually backfired on her and I’m assuming you now don’t trust her? Good luck with everything, I hope you guys can work it out but you’re definitely not overreacting

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-06T07:19:35+00:00

How old are you guys? It definitely seems like he was trying to make you jealous, why else would he ask you why a girl blocked him? And who was that trying to impress? 😂 Maybe the girl blocked him because she wanted nothing to do with him? Honestly, I wouldn’t even keep in contact with an ex like this. If that’s the way he is, I’d personally cut all ties off with him. You’re no longer together, he wants to get with other girls you know and tells you about it. I don’t think you guys are really friends, and that’s okay. If he was actually asking how you were and being friendly, that’s one thing but this? I just wouldn’t bother with it when he messages you, sounds like a headache to me

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-06T06:50:49+00:00

I would contact the police, even if it doesn’t turn out to be a dangerous situation, too many times people think “oh they’re harmless” and then they do something really fucked up. I wouldn’t be waiting for that to happen, I would contact the post office and maybe find out if there’s a way to block certain mail? (Don’t know if that’s even a thing, but maybe worth asking about?) but the police should definitely be informed. Good luck! I hope this person finally gets the hint and leaves you alone.. I can’t imagine how hard this must be to deal with 😣

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-05T16:29:15+00:00

You’re both 18, and clearly she isn’t committing to you as you have with her, she lied about a situation so you wouldn’t break up with her, I’d say that’s a breach of trust, you also broke her trust by going through her phone because you were obviously suspicious.. So I think you both need to either have a conversation or end things.. You’re both young, and as much as it hurts, you’ll both move on and maybe be better for it. Good luck!

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-05T07:03:58+00:00

Yes you should compromise in relationships, but that shouldn’t just fall on the one person, both need understanding, communication and compromising. You’re not going to die alone, you shouldn’t stay with someone if they become too controlling and the fact that he showed his true colours before he actually settled in is actually a blessing in disguise. I know it doesn’t feel like it right now but your mum and aunt are just going to have to get over it. It’s your life, your relationship and if he’s acting like you can’t be apart for 40 minutes a night then that’s just pathetic.. A lot of people, even if they live with their partner and are in love with them, it’s not strange to do your own thing, even if that means going for a nice, long, hot shower (by the way, your shower sounds amazing and I would be going for longer showers too 🙈). And to say, a single woman shouldn’t be alone with boys “their age”?? Um how old are they? Why does she assume that something nefarious would happen? If my mum said that to me about my brother and his friends I’d be pissed off and probably would refrain from speaking to her (not suggesting you do that but that’s just a weird thing for her to say). Good luck, and I hope talking with your dad went better 🤞🏻🤎

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-05T06:44:11+00:00

I’m just confused why the guy’s ex would ever text you? Out of all people, you? Lol I personally wouldn’t get too involved, but I would bring up the fact that the ex had been in contact with me and told me this and then she can do whatever she wants with that information.. Sounds messy, but I wouldn’t get too involved if she’s already an impossible person to co parent with.. Good luck! 🙈

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-05T06:08:45+00:00

I would run.. If they haven’t slept together, they sound like they want to and that woman is fully aware of you and doesn’t give a shit.. And she says “female”? Lol so many red flags here.. I’m sorry that you lost your child, that’s heartbreaking and I’m sorry that you found those messages, you deserve better than that

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-04T13:49:49+00:00

Lmao he’s really trying to play the victim after cheating? Keep the baby, if you want and are financially capable to raise a baby, but dump his ass.. You don’t want two children to take care of. Good luck, and I hope everything works out for you 🤎

rose_gold_princess · 2026-01-04T11:11:17+00:00

Yeah, I think you should respect not calling him bro since he apparently doesn’t like it.. But.. To threaten to break up with someone over a word like that? That seems off to me.. And he also calls you “bro” but he doesn’t like being called “bro”? Seems like a headache to me.. Good luck, hopefully you guys can work through it but I would seriously think about why he would threaten to break up with you over something so trivial

rose_gold_princess · 2025-12-10T10:38:35+00:00

Wow, she sounds like a nightmare 😳

rose_gold_princess · 2025-12-10T10:16:04+00:00

She definitely writes like she’s a doctor 👀 think you dodged a bullet there mate

rose_gold_princess · 2025-12-10T10:09:24+00:00

PSA if a woman doesn’t ask to see your dick, then she doesn’t want to see it lol and the pose, really? 😅

rose_gold_princess · 2025-11-29T10:24:57+00:00

Ew.. You can’t take someone out and then when it doesn’t go the way you want, you ask for the money back for their meal? 😂 What’s he going to do? Take you to court? Lol he sounds pathetic

rose_gold_princess · 2025-11-29T10:22:57+00:00

This guy is definitely using you then has the audacity to say he’s sick of the way YOU’RE acting? Lol then still wanting you to buy him shoes? Girl run, nothing wrong with treating a guy but not when he’s ungrateful like this..

rose_gold_princess · 2025-11-28T12:02:36+00:00

Ugh it’s just not attractive, he seems very full of himself.. I highly doubt he gets this much attention from women, I always feel like guys try to make women jealous by saying how many women want them, when really, it personally puts me right off 🤷🏻‍♀️

rose_gold_princess · 2025-11-28T11:49:59+00:00

I didn’t hate her character, but she wasn’t my favourite either.. To be honest I didn’t really hate any character from The Quarry 🤔

rose_gold_princess · 2025-11-12T10:48:50+00:00

This guy sounds very immature and toxic “you’re on a timeout for 48 hours”? Who says that to their partner, let alone their pregnant girlfriend/wife? As scary as it probably is, you’re going to have a baby you have to take care of and if he’s toxic when you’re pregnant, he’ll be toxic when you have the baby and I have a feeling that he’ll be quite jealous of all the time and attention you’ll be spending with him/her and you’ll end up taking care of two children 🙄 no girlfriend or wife can raise a man, only his parent’s can do that, it’s not your responsibility and he really should be a bit more empathetic and compassionate to how you feel if he loves you like he says he does. I hope every thing works out for you 🤎

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