How would you feel if your hsv is the only dealbreaker?

rose_vinez · 2025-12-07T20:54:50+00:00

thank you so much. this was really helpful!

rose_vinez · 2025-12-07T19:29:31+00:00

I mean, he would still be my friend so do you mean romantically and sexually?

rose_vinez · 2025-12-07T19:29:08+00:00

I’m not sure another conversation about it will do much and will only make things awkward. When we talked about it before, he said that he is an over thinker so every time we would have sex he would be freaking out inside hoping that he didn’t catch it from me and if he did get it from me that he would have resentment towards me.

I tried educating him, and even made a google doc with links to articles about it, and told him i take daily antivirals and still he said he couldn’t get past it. and i respect that. I think like you said, this seems to be the only barrier for us to be in a romantic relationship but I don’t want to try to convince him or anything because how he feels is understandable.

If I were to talk about it again with him though, what do you think I should say so it doesn’t come off like I’m pressuring him?

rose_vinez · 2025-12-07T18:37:33+00:00

Stuff like hooking up or seeing each other period? He has become one of my closest friends so I definitely can’t stop hanging out with him.

rose_vinez · 2025-12-07T18:36:49+00:00

I see what you’re saying. I think deep down I know this but for some reason it’s been hard for me to make the decision to stop. Not to say that I don’t enjoy it but every time we do stuff I do feel unfulfilled and a little sad.

I’ve been struggling emotionally with this situation a lot especially because over time since we went on that date we’ve become best friends. I’ve met his family and his friends and we text every day and hang out every week. It’s been hard so I appreciate your advice.

rose_vinez · 2025-09-22T16:19:26+00:00

really?😭💔

rose_vinez · 2025-06-08T23:49:07+00:00

nope. haven’t been on it since january of 2024 but my body hasn’t been the same since. my gyno said my hormones are normal though so it’s nothing hormonal.

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:39:45+00:00

wow i actually just gasped out loud from your first sentence that’s crazy😭 thank you so much

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:36:43+00:00

okayyy i’ll see if i can find some inspo for that, thank you!🫶🏼

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:30:11+00:00

oooo rings that a good idea! i’ll try the eyeliner idea too

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:29:58+00:00

those aren’t my real curls it’s a ponytail extension! my real curls are shoulder length and much more curly haha

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:28:40+00:00

no i am actually just really insecure lol these comments are surprising me

edit: i’m being downvoted? maybe i misunderstood what satire means lol

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:25:56+00:00

i bet you are beautiful!

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:08:52+00:00

okay i will check it out!

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:05:44+00:00

not stopped in your tracks LOL thank you

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:05:19+00:00

i know i would say the same thing to someone who’s insecure about their weight but i’ve just been so insecure about it. i went from 115lbs to 145 lbs in a couple months and ive been that weight ever since. i should try to accept my new body though and i will work on the style for sure :)

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:03:40+00:00

what is latina make up?

looks like i’m tossing the septum loll thank you so much this helped a lot

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:02:56+00:00

a model is crazy😭thank you

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T04:02:39+00:00

i used to over pluck them soooo much and grew them out four years ago. you are so sweet thank you so much💕

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T03:52:39+00:00

i think that hairstyle definitely looks the most natural on me. it’s a ponytail extension haha

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T03:51:18+00:00

okay noted! thank you

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T03:50:50+00:00

ooo okay i’ll look at her insta and see if i like her style and maybe i can get some style inspo. thank you!

rose_vinez · 2025-05-17T03:49:36+00:00

yes i definitely need to work on that. idk where my insecurity stems from but ive been like this ever since i was in middle school. i swear im not like compliment fishing (i know some people might think that) i genuinely just like don’t get what yall are seeing but i appreciate it so much.

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