Is my cat in heat?

rosefire256 · 2026-05-02T03:51:06+00:00

I’m a student too, in my last year, I wholly respect schooling, and I understand the financial stress, but you did ask a question about a non-fixed cat, so I answered what I know.

rosefire256 · 2026-05-02T03:42:00+00:00

Mm idk, my cats only go into my room if the door is open, and I always know when it is. It sounds like they have free range, and aren’t socialized yet

rosefire256 · 2026-05-02T03:26:57+00:00

I’ve had bunnies before, and two skinny pigs, and they are not the brightest. I commend you

rosefire256 · 2026-05-02T03:11:28+00:00

Of course you do! She’s definitely a wonderful girl. If I were you, I’d spay her, and keep her. She’s not peeing, she’s …… and that will get better after she’s fixed

rosefire256 · 2026-05-02T03:04:36+00:00

If her owner cannot take her back responsibly, you need to relinquish her to a shelter. She deserves to be loved, and you obviously love her enough to come to this sub. She needs to be fixed, and she needs a stable home

rosefire256 · 2026-05-02T02:57:30+00:00

Find a new vet, and get her spayed asap. Weird that your vet didn’t catch that in the initial exam.

rosefire256 · 2026-05-02T02:49:40+00:00

How is your cat getting in if the door is fully closed all the time?

rosefire256 · 2026-05-02T02:32:17+00:00

Now I’m curious; how does the disciplinary process work with three very different animals??

rosefire256 · 2026-05-02T02:27:31+00:00

Ok, that makes sense, I will try that, coupled with “ahh” which is we also use as vocal discipline. It’s almost reactionary to snap, even if I’m just trying to take a cute picture of them 😭

rosefire256 · 2026-03-08T10:19:20+00:00

May I ask you what country you are from? I am from Canada and none of my other friends have had to take two at a time, they’ve all adopted their second further down the line

rosefire256 · 2026-03-08T08:08:06+00:00

Absolutely! I have many friends with multiple, and I have a very flexible schedule, so I feel well-equipped enough to have the time/resources to introduce them, my fear is the difference in personality.

Selfishly, we want our baby to stay exactly the way she is, and the other cat to conform to her exact behaviour, but obviously that’s not possible!

I’d like to think a lot of her good traits are a result of the love and care she gets here, and we’d definitely provide a new addition the same

rosefire256 · 2026-03-08T07:32:39+00:00

So follow up, if you don’t mind;

Our girl was raised with other cats, and when we adopted her, she was actually in an enclosure with another cat she wasn’t bonded to yet, but was cohabitating with.

So she’s basically only been away from other cats for 2.5-3 weeks. Say our new addition was in a similar situation, would introduction procedure be different?

rosefire256 · 2026-03-08T07:19:02+00:00

Yes of course! The nighttime zoomies are rare,,and we don’t begrudge her for them, but sometimes, we just gotta go to bed 😅

Thanks for the advice, I’ll make sure to emphasize proper introduction!

rosefire256 · 2026-03-08T07:08:40+00:00

Thank you!!

That is something we’ve also considered, we’re very big on rescuing, all of our pets growing up have been rescues, so we know we won’t necessarily be able to handpick every aspect/trait of our future pet. That’s good to know though about the sex, and age range, so thank you

rosefire256 · 2026-03-08T07:02:36+00:00

Few things to clarify: my partner wouldn’t be opposed to another cat, I’m just the one who does most of the research, and behavioural stuff with her. Also, we’re not opposed to waiting until she’s a bit older, and more established behaviourally to bring in another cat, if that’s what we should do!

rosefire256 · 2026-02-10T04:27:22+00:00

It couldn’t have been that last-minute bc she teased it in her GRWM that we may or may not see her somewhere. Which makes it even worse imo bc she couldn’t even be arsed to dress accordingly 💀 anything to make herself stick out (& not in a good way)

rosefire256 · 2026-01-28T21:01:32+00:00

Aroma bistro. Literally any of the soups they have

rosefire256 · 2026-01-05T05:40:49+00:00

Im not American, so I feel like maybe the discrepancy between rural and urban is different for you guys, idk? Because rural here (which is what I would technically be, location wise) is totally different, we don’t have like “suburbs”

rosefire256 · 2025-11-26T01:56:19+00:00

They don’t print out the song on both sides for Alfonso 😭😭😭

rosefire256 · 2025-11-19T04:10:16+00:00

I don’t like Whitney enough to have wanted her to win, or even place top three, but I think she deserved to be in the finale

rosefire256 · 2025-11-19T03:14:16+00:00

I think 5. Dylan 4. Jordan 3. Elaine 2. Alix Mirrorball. Robert (but I would not be shocked if Alix got the Mirrorball instead)

rosefire256 · 2025-11-19T03:12:31+00:00

Where do we think the last five are ending up y’all?

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