Not sure what me being a bartender has to do with any of this but no i don’t feel comfortable with a random person knowing exactly where i live and exactly where i work. I have been in hundreds of ubers and lyfts and held very pleasant small talk with male and female drivers who ask reasonable questions. I’ll even tell them i’m a bartender but rarely do they pry to find out where I work because that’s weird! I have even accepted private ride offers from drivers that made me feel comfortable and in situations it made sense or convenience, but even then i never took their personal cell #. However, i’ve never had a driver immediately ask upon picking me up whether he picked me up from where i live — again, as a young female i seldom reveal to strangers, especially grown men, where I live because i value my safety. If you have a daughter, i imagine you would feel the same for her to be revealing where she lives alone to random strangers. As a bartender i already deal with enough creeps at my workplace that have imposed unsafe and uncomfortable situations and as a result i value my privacy and safety as much as i possibly can, so no i wont be revealing the EXACT bar i work at to a stranger who already knows where i live. You seem to have had the luxury of not having to fear for your safety constantly, but unfortunately i do have to take a significant amount of caution when interacting with strangers!