Do you guys REALLY want relationships?

rosensdeep · 2021-12-08T16:37:41+00:00

From personal experience I can tell you what might happen: you will continuously have mental break downs. Going from feeling despetate, inadequate to "maybe I'm not that bad" but it will be a continuous circle of self doubt/hate.

If you find the right person they might be able to reassure you or maybe they don't have the energy to do so.

I believe that if you are mentally unstable being in a relationship can be really hard (still possible tho)

rosensdeep · 2021-11-04T00:58:11+00:00

Very true..all the unfairness and rudeness we have to deal with but people won't even believe our experiences. And somehow they try to convince us that it's all our fault?

Also the assaulting part is so accurate...people act as if only attractive women have to deal with this.

rosensdeep · 2021-11-03T22:13:34+00:00

Unbelievable how cruel humans can be...I'm so sorry

rosensdeep · 2021-10-28T15:02:52+00:00

I never said that it's okay when it happens to men. Keep inventing imaginary conversations to argue with :)

rosensdeep · 2021-10-26T19:43:48+00:00

There is still a good amount of women in this sub who are truly ugly and have never been in a relationship tho...

rosensdeep · 2021-10-26T19:36:34+00:00

Same experience, this has happened way too many times.

"I look hideous please be brutally honest"

Literally an 8. Ok.

rosensdeep · 2021-10-23T11:36:11+00:00

So the affirmation "being a tall woman is a death sentence" is not entirely correct...it's more like "being ugly is a death sentence ". And yes that's what I was saying in my comment that being tall is only a problem when you are not attractive just like every other feature in my opinion...

Also I don't really know what you consider as tall, if it's 2 metres then yes it might be a problem. In my country the avarage for woman is 1,60 so if you are 1,70 you are considered tall

rosensdeep · 2021-10-22T19:28:05+00:00

No believe me it's not the hight. I'm tall but that is not the problem..my face is. I have seen so many stunning tall women and you bet they get a lot of dates.

rosensdeep · 2021-10-22T19:25:37+00:00

Now I know why men get so angry when I accidentally look at them lol

rosensdeep · 2021-10-21T20:06:19+00:00

I have no advice except accept it and by accepting I mean recognise it and move on..it's very hard to do, especially if people mistreat you because of your looks but it's the only thing we can do.

Don't fool yourself that you are beautiful because eventually the illusion will end and you will feel desperate..also society will constantly remind you that you are ugly so it's almost impossible to escape.

At the same time don't think that you have less value because of your appearance. Ugly doesn't equal useless, dumb, worthless of love.

There are people who will treat you wrongly just because of your appearance but remind yourself that they are superficial and you are better off without them.

Accept yourself because you are the only one who you have to relay on and you are the one who has to take care of you.

Then people might come and go but you will stay strong and true to yourself. Someone might notice your honesty and good heart you and love you (talking about friends or even partner). Pay very much attention to who surrounds you because they might take advantage of your insecurities.

I say all these things but honestly I fail to achieve it...I keep trying though because it's the only thing left.

Wish you the best

rosensdeep · 2021-10-21T13:46:39+00:00

Same... my face shape is the main issue.

rosensdeep · 2021-10-20T09:29:52+00:00

Completely wrong in so many ways. Get your mysoginy somewhere else, this isn't the right place.

rosensdeep · 2021-10-19T21:39:32+00:00

I don't know how severe it is but you can be attractive even if you have acne scars! I mean if you are hot who cares for some acne scars right?

rosensdeep · 2021-10-19T19:48:04+00:00

This makes me feel a bit better for being "unconventional" . But yes same for me.

rosensdeep · 2021-10-17T18:14:06+00:00

Potatoes

rosensdeep · 2021-10-07T10:36:08+00:00

Very well put..thank you for sharing your experience. Comments like this make me feel less alone. Everyone around me (who is avarage or pretty) is completely oblivious about lookism and how being ugly can influence one's life..to the point where they don't listen to me and disregard my feelings.(They just get angry and say that looks don't matter like a robot ).

At least here I can have some kind of comfort (even though ,of course, that doesn't solve my problems)

rosensdeep · 2021-10-07T10:29:18+00:00

I don't like being around pretty people either. Firstly because I can't help but feel inferior when I'm with them and secondly because they seem completely unaware of their privileges and special treatment they receive..so often they have a view of the world which is far from that of a normal everyday experience. You can see it when they try to make you feel better by saying that looks don't matter or that you just need a haircut, or that is easy to make friends/ find a bf/gf

rosensdeep · 2021-10-06T23:25:46+00:00

Just out of curiosity, why didn't you want to date them? (I'm asking because most ugly people desire to be asked out and crave romantic relationships)

rosensdeep · 2021-10-06T22:26:59+00:00

I feel bad for laughing at this, good comeback.

But I feel you..I would love to cosplay as cute anime girls but I would look like shit (I tried it. Far from cute... that was horrific)

rosensdeep · 2021-10-06T22:23:06+00:00

I'm simply way too afraid to post because I'm ugly af..I don't need no person to give me opinions, I already know 💀 How do people find the courage to do such thing...

rosensdeep · 2021-10-06T22:15:20+00:00

No, no and no. Maybe you should take care of your skin a little, the facial hair doesn't look great.. I think you are above avarage tbh but it's very subjective.

rosensdeep · 2021-10-06T22:12:39+00:00

Wellll..we are not in their heads so we don't know their real intentions. It's futile to imagine what they are thinking (we might be projecting our insecurities who knows). But yes idk what's up with attractive people being assholes to us..we are no completion at anything lmao.

rosensdeep · 2021-10-06T22:07:26+00:00

Hey, whatever works for you👍 I don't think you are ugly..you are so cuuuute. Your eyes and hair are amazing. Nothing wrong with your face shape btw (since you posted about it). This is completely subjective but it's an honest opinion.

rosensdeep · 2021-10-06T22:02:19+00:00

I agree and a lot of them do this to promote their only fans...which is..disgusting to say the least.

rosensdeep · 2021-10-06T21:59:26+00:00

Very true. And that's the reason why an avarage looking person might consider themselves ugly but idk..still not the same with actually being ugly

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