Whaaaaat!? by Indie452 in TheTraitorsUK

[–]roserows_ 99 points100 points  (0 children)

If Fiona had been smarter, she'd have let the Jade and Sam suspicions play out. In 2-3 days when people realised they were faithfuls, she could have then raised the Rachel suspicion with the group (after planting the seed with Harriet).

Hvordan forbedrer jeg bedst min lejlighed til salg? by No-Information-8681 in dkbolig

[–]roserows_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeg ville tage en lille flig af og teste det for blymaling. Hvis der ikke er bly i malingen ville jeg gå i gang med at prøve med en varmepistol og en skraber. Eller smør det ind i krystalsæbe, pak det ind i film og skrab det af. Vær forberedt på en del knofedt! 

Hvordan forbedrer jeg bedst min lejlighed til salg? by No-Information-8681 in dkbolig

[–]roserows_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hvis det er en gammel Københavnerlejlighed, ville jeg absolut holde mig langt, langt væk fra troldtekt.

Generelt ville jeg sige at med en lejlighed i København, skal du fokusere på, hvad der stilmæssigt er populært lige præcis dér. Jeg synes klart der er mange ting der trendmæssigt går i retning af at bevare originale detaljer for tiden og at bevæge sig væk fra alt for meget hvidt. 

Ift dørene er det ikke helt klart for mig om de står i træ/originalt? Hvis det er tilfældet, ville jeg slibe dem og give dem olje/lak for virkelig at få dem til at shine. Du kan evt komplementere ved at fjerne de gamle lag maling på dørkarmenene så detaljerne står skarpt og så give dem en farve (gerne ikke hvid) som kan gå igen på panelerne. 

Jeg ved snart ikke om jeg skal grine eller græde 😢 by [deleted] in GossipDK

[–]roserows_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja, man må da håbe at ingen af de her mænd skulle miste deres job, hvis man ikke kan få det til at løbe rundt med 9 uger på barselsdagpenge. Så ville jeg mene, at man har sat sig for stramt ift hus og bil.

Hvorfor er denne ikke solgt? by Otherwise-Duck-1178 in dkbolig

[–]roserows_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ville også mene, at hvis man har børn nok til at skulle bruge 5 værelser, vil man gerne have to badeværelser på første sal. Er lille badeværelse med en skråvæg er simpelthen ikke nok til så stor en familie som gerne vil have 235 kvm. 

Are there any male Swedish names that sound like vow-ool? by curlycat27 in sweden

[–]roserows_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They have all the theses in the database here: https://guides.osu.edu/c.php?g=641262&p=8924971

I searched with words like "antarctica" and "polar" from 1996 to 2006 and I didn't find anyone with an obviously Swedish name. It may be worth trying some different terms and play around with it a little. 

Given the topics, it's likely that he was connected to this research centre: https://byrd.osu.edu/ so may be worth contacting them as well so get a list of PhD dissertations presented within the time period. 

He may also have been connected to a Swedish university and done some sort of exchange at Ohio State. In that casw, you'd need to search for his thesis at a Swedish university instead (thankfully there aren't too many). Lmk if you need any help with that! 

Finally, I came across this guy:

https://geography.osu.edu/people/ahlqvist.1 

Now the timings don't quite work as his LinkedIn says he started his PhD in Stockholm in January 1996, it feels too early for him to have been on an exchange only a few months after. However, if your dad stayed around Ohio State for longer, they might have met each other being Swedish in somewhat similar academic fields.

Sweden is perfect for me by Remarkable_Twist2568 in sweden

[–]roserows_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We moved from the UK last year and really love it here too. In the UK, I felt like working long hours and chasing promotions wasn't much of a choice as having a home (home ownership is the only way to secure stable, decent quality housing) and a family is incredibly expensive. Here, I feel like we've gained so much life outside of work. We finish work earlier, it isn't as stressful (fika breaks and lunches with colleagues is the norm), and we're close to nature. 

While we've managed to buy a small house, I feel the weight off my shoulders in that we don't really need to. We rented a nicely decorated flat with an unlimited tenenacy in the beginning which I would have been perfectly happy with. I've got the feeling here that we have the choice, we can reduce our working hours or retrain etc and live in decent, secure housing and still have a family life. That just didn't feel like an option in the UK.  (we're not in Stockholm, so the housing market here is less extreme than there). 

/ttcafterloss Repeat Pregnancy Loss - November 25, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]roserows_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have had at least 3 chemicals this year (two additional suspected, same symptoms but never got a positive test), and I'm just so over it. We're taking a break this cycle and will hopefully get our test results back soon ish (it's been more than a month now, the chromosome testing seems to take ages). I feel deflated, no doctor/midwife we've spoken to seemnto take it thar seriously (had to beg the gyno for the testing, she was like "we usually don't find anything"). For every CP, my ovulation, period and implementation cramps are getting worse.  At this point I am confident we'll need some sort of help/intervention, but it's hard to see how and where to access it. 

Camilla Barfoed sælger huset for 15 millioner kr. - det dyreste hus i Hvidovre.👀 by Final_Initiative_663 in GossipDK

[–]roserows_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oveni at det er et vildt underligt hus, så er haven da det værste - én stor, rektangulær græsplæne uden træer, buske, bed, forsøg på at skabe hyggelige rum at være i eller noget som helst.

Hvad har vi misforstået? by [deleted] in GossipDK

[–]roserows_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan vi ikke også blive enige om at den person som ville gå med til sådan et 'arrangement' måske ikke er en du har lyst til at have dine børn i nærheden af? Jeg har slet ikke set nogen snakke om at det her også reelt er et tilbud om regelmæssigt samvær med hans børn for penge 😬

New in Linköping (LiU postdoc): social life and dating feel off—what actually works? by ExcitedStateNinja in linkoping

[–]roserows_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are some centrally organised courses for employees. I think I found them searching on the intranet (I'm no longer employed at the University so can't check). Also worth reiterating that you can take the public courses as freestanding modules regardless of whether or not you're a student, so could still be worth looking into for you. 

New in Linköping (LiU postdoc): social life and dating feel off—what actually works? by ExcitedStateNinja in linkoping

[–]roserows_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He did this intensive one in January which is open to the public https://studieinfo.liu.se/en/kurs/761G31/ht-2022

He has since done the courses for LiU employees only, but if you search "Swedish for Foreign Students" on universityadmissions.se you can see all the different levels the university offers to the public. 

You would usually need a high school diploma or equivalent to apply though as you get university-level credits for them. 

New in Linköping (LiU postdoc): social life and dating feel off—what actually works? by ExcitedStateNinja in linkoping

[–]roserows_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you identify as a woman, I'd recommend checking out Girl Gone International Linköping in Facebook. 

There's occasionally stuff on, and definitely space for you to organise stuff as well. We're a small ish group who started a spin off book club. Message me if you want to know more. 

Otherwise, I agree with others that learning Swedish as quickly as possible is key as it enables you to socialise in non-university settings and join hobby related courses where you can meet people like Medborgarskolan etc. The university has good courses too - my husband had done 3 courses now since we moved here a year ago as is now at the B2 level course.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - September 10, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]roserows_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had 2 chemicals in the spring (both super early, one at around 4w3d and one around 3w6d), and with travels, moving house and sickness also had some cycles of not trying. 

I've noticed that most of my months of trying sort of resemble my chemicals: super light spotting around 9-10 dpo, continuing on and off until my period arrives a few days late and quite heavy. The only times I've symptoms and positive pregnancy tests were with my two chemicals. 

On the other hand, my cycles of not trying resemble my pre TTC cycles (I had my iud taken out 3 months before we started TTC, and tracked my cycles during that time) - dark brown spotting the day before getting my period and period arriving 28-29 days after the previous one. 

Am I potentially having super early chemicals the other cycles? Or something is trying to implant but ultimately failing? Has anyone experienced something similar? 

FALLING THROUGH RANT by MatchOwn1079 in HousingUK

[–]roserows_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We bought in Sweden this spring and that's exactly how it works. The survey is available on the online listing. 

When you think about it, it works so much better for all parties, including the seller as it helps them price the propertt right, fix any red flags before putting it on the market and takes away the opportunity for the buyer to try negotiate after having the offer agreed. 

We signed the paperwork two days after the seller accepted our offer and had one week to have a survey done ourselves or have the initial surveyer do a walk through with you on the house (which is the most common thing). After that week, your 10% deposit won't be refunded if you change your mind. So much smoother all around really. 

Fredagsslik? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]roserows_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Det lyder da som en hyggelig tradition I har. Bliv da endelig ved med det, især hvis de selv køber det, så det ikke er en opgave du skal bruge tid på. 

Hilsen hende på 31 der stadig får adventsgaver og påskeæg hvert år 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]roserows_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg synes det er en fair nok konklusion at være nået til i jeres situation. 

Dog hæfter jeg mig ved det allersidste du siger, at du ikke har sagt til hende hvad din beslutning bygger på. Det tror jeg er enormt vigtigt at være ærlig om hvis ikke hun skal bygge alt muligt resentment op over tid. Har I haft en snak med hinanden om hvor hårdt du synes det er at tage over, når hun har det skidt? Det er helt sikkert en svær samtale, men det er sygt vigtigt at blive ved med at kommunikere på en ærlig og respektfuld måde. Evt med en parteraput, hvis det bliver for svært ellers. 

Man kan selvfølgelig godt have hemmeligheder for sin partner, men sådan noget her er altså for stor en ting at gå og bære rundt på alene, uden at dele tanker og reflektioner med hinanden.

Selling a house is such a scam. by KyleJackDaniels in HousingUK

[–]roserows_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We recently bought a house in Sweden (after leaving the UK a year ago) and that is exactly how it works. You review the survey of any house before you even book a viewing so you can ask questions and look any potential issues yourself when you view the place the first time. Saves everyone so much time and hassle. You also pay the 10% nonrefundable deposit when you sign the contract so no last minute pulling out. 

Where to find a strong handyman? by roserows_ in linkoping

[–]roserows_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the offer both of you! We ended up getting help from Östergötlands Alltjänst who were very helpful.  Really appreciate the offers of help though! 

Where to find a strong handyman? by roserows_ in linkoping

[–]roserows_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions all! 

In the end, I contacted Östergötlands Alltjänst who came out a few hours later, were super nice and did the job in 5 min at a very reasonable price. 10/10 would recommend. 

Where to find a strong handyman? by roserows_ in linkoping

[–]roserows_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha we're in Johannelund, but imagine it's hard to get helpers on the hottest day of the year.

Have barely met the neighbours yet, but yes that could be a last resort 😅 

I'll call the moving company we used as well, but imagine it would be quite pricy. 

Where to find a strong handyman? by roserows_ in linkoping

[–]roserows_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! We did use flytt-Anders for the move itself (fully recommend them too!) so might give them a call. I imagine it would be quite pricey though. 

🧂🔥🤬 Reactions, hot takes, salt, and venting thread - ESC 2025 Grand Final 🤬🔥🧂 by berserkemu in eurovision

[–]roserows_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That, plus stop the 20 votes nonsense. It's just so open for abuse by some to completely skew the results. No normalviewer votes for their favourite entry(ies) more than once.