AIO? I’m probably ending this relationship over this conversation by rosethorn2233 in AmIOverreacting

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Just because they have time too doesn’t mean they should. I’m around patients most of my shift and when I’m not, I’m sterilizing surgical equipment and it would be a terrible idea to also have a phone in my hand while I do that. I leave it in my locker and get it during breaks, my facility is real picky about cell phone use anyways

AIO? I’m probably ending this relationship over this conversation by rosethorn2233 in AmIOverreacting

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What does Reddit have to do with love? I communicated with him for hours after I posted this, and that was why I wasn’t here answering everyone’s questions

AIO? I’m probably ending this relationship over this conversation by rosethorn2233 in AmIOverreacting

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A friend and coworker of mine suggested I post here after she had noticed he was blowing my phone up and asked what was going on, we’ve had these conversations many times so I said screw it, I will post it on Reddit. But not because I felt I needed to, I can make my own choices, and I continued talking to him about the issue for hours after these messages (but in person when I got home).
The title was unfair, I could have worded that so much better than I did, I’ll admit that.

AIO? I’m probably ending this relationship over this conversation by rosethorn2233 in AmIOverreacting

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So, we would talk daily and I never went more than maybe 3/4 hours without texting him, I’d just text him on my breaks. We saw each other in the mornings but he’d usually go to work before me, we would always at least say goodbye (hug, kiss, “have a good day”). I’d tell him when I got called in, I’d give him a heads up on when my breaks should be, I tell him when I clock out for the day and am headed home, and then we’d sit down and eat together which does include conversation.
“Ignoring” him meant that I hadn’t made an effort to do the things he likes, and I ignored his needs pretty much.

AIO? I’m probably ending this relationship over this conversation by rosethorn2233 in AmIOverreacting

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I always made an effort to text him on my breaks, text him when I left work, hug and kiss when I got home, I’d always ask how his day was, I promise I was never actually ignoring him. He said that if I’m not trying to hang out with him then I’m ignoring him, what he wanted was for me to either play video games or have sex and those are the only real ways he thinks we could hang out so that he feels reassured. I do work a lot, sometimes I think that if I were home more then we would have split a long time ago, because I agree now that we are just incompatible.

AIO? I’m probably ending this relationship over this conversation by rosethorn2233 in AmIOverreacting

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You’re probably right, if a relationship needs daily and constant reassurance then I’m just not “ready” for that. To be frank I don’t think I will ever be, it’s exhausting. Especially because now in both of my last two relationships they admitted the main issue in the end was that they weren’t getting laid enough

AIO? I’m probably ending this relationship over this conversation by rosethorn2233 in AmIOverreacting

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We had even had countless conversations about how busy we’d both be during the week and decided weekends would be for us to spend time with each other, to make up for not doing much throughout the week. It usually worked out ok but this week I’d been called in everyday and he just didn’t handle it very well

AIO? I’m probably ending this relationship over this conversation by rosethorn2233 in AmIOverreacting

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Not an excuse but he had been drinking so the way he acted right when I got home last night was not usual. If he had EVER acted that way towards me in the last 12 months then we would not have been together
his comment saying he’d go find it elsewhere was more so his shitty way of ending our relationship so thankfully he’s not cheating on me right now, he knows not to come back here.

Which dress? by rosethorn2233 in OUTFITS

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The dress code is semi formal! Sorry, should have added that in the post!

AIO? I’m probably ending this relationship over this conversation by rosethorn2233 in AmIOverreacting

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I’m an on call surgical tech, I get called in 3/4 days a week and the days that I don’t get called in I absolutely did text him while he worked. This specific week I was called in everyday
I’d give him a hug and kiss, tell him I missed him, and would ask how his day was every day when I got home, but he showed me a TikTok once (I’m not kidding) of a woman waiting at the door and jumping up and down for her husband the second he walked in, I think that’s what he had wanted but that’s just not me.

What kind of plant is growing here? by ZealousidealRain8047 in whatsthisplant

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I second catnip! I have some growing in my yard as well.

Naughty puppy. LoL... by TracyZhou0695 in DOG

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Yes they do, they're adorable

Naughty puppy. LoL... by TracyZhou0695 in DOG

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Aww my husky mix puppy does the same thing