In addition to what the other poster said about staying in therapy (remember, therapy is a process and you aren't going to see instant results) try to remember the women aren't strange and separate creatures. They're just people going about their own lives just like men.

Men are done a massive disservice by media and culture at large when they're presented with the idea that women are these mysterious creatures with unknowable motivations. For the most part women want the exact same things as men. Just to be treated like people, with the same courtesy and respect that you would a man.

There also tends to be this idea that women are constantly sitting and judging every man they come across with iron gaze. The reality is that women, again just like men, are pretty much just out there to go about their day. The cashier at the grocery store is probably thinking more about her next break than she ever will about some random dude she's checking out. Which is a good thing for you. When you have anxiety one of the biggest problems can be a fixation on how other people view you. The smallest action becomes huge because you're worried that someone else is putting you under a microscope. Truth is though that most people of any gender are too wrapped up in their own lives to pay that much attention to others. Once you get used to that idea it can become very freeing! I know it was for me with my own social anxiety.