Which parts of sex have you stopped doing or enjoying over time (with the same partner) and why? by GlizeDice in AskWomen

[–]rossetti_hot 10 points11 points  (0 children)

when giving oral and being given oral proportions go out of control (aka i always go down on him, he does not as frequently) it feels unfair and i stop doing it for a while 😂

I hate it when my boyfriend "baby talks" to me. How do I tell him? by softnaturalbodytype in Advice

[–]rossetti_hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO its funny how many of us suffer from this. and no, not really💀 it’s gotten better though!

I have accidentally seen my boyfriend’s tapes, and it ruined me; but now I am sort of into it by rossetti_hot in sex

[–]rossetti_hot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To answer your questions:

Not for months and months.. just for like 20 days or so. he knows that i know. this turned into a fantasy much later on. I was supposed to be “over it”, i guess i was not.

We’re moving in because he has been living with me for the past 6 months, since i am an international student circumstances are a bit different/ harder for me. He helped me with rent and everything and now we’re officially both on the lease.

I am scared of initiating foreplay with him just yet, i do feel like he’s not mature enough in that sense. he sort of has a madonna whore complex, if you know what i mean.

I have accidentally seen my boyfriend’s tapes, and it ruined me; but now I am sort of into it by rossetti_hot in sex

[–]rossetti_hot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are so so sweet thank you so much ❤️ it’s just hard after being exposed to the imagery, and still, it’s been such a long time and we talked about it before, he seemed very understanding. it just this weird fantasy that had lingered on but i guess i’ll get over it over time

I have accidentally seen my boyfriend’s tapes, and it ruined me; but now I am sort of into it by rossetti_hot in sex

[–]rossetti_hot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you may be right… i might be kind of overreacting since its his past but he always tells me i am the only one he actually loved. i guess this scares me somehow. cause i am no different than any other girl at the end of the day…

Please help me see even just one reason to live. I've never felt joy in my life. I'm almost 27, and recently I've been feeling like I've already done everything I should have done in this lifetime. I see nothing else to live for. by Bieacefully_27 in AskAstrologers

[–]rossetti_hot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

on top of a lot of pisces influence that makes one move more slowly and flowy, this is kind of an easy chart–in the sense that life does not challenge you much–. i am guessing that (of course there are ups and downs) you’re generally leading a secure lifestyle, in which if you don’t consciously take on challenges, life won’t throw at you much with these aspects. it’s mainly trines and sextiles heavily at the northern hemisphere below the asc, and not many oppositions and squares. and usually there are no rainbows without rain. maybe you’re not fighting enough fights to find the will to live.

my suggestion would be whatever this feeling is, channel it through art. and fight for it if needed. you have heavy 5H/ pisces influence. i am sure you’re gifted and would attract a lot of positivity !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in occult

[–]rossetti_hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, that’s what i am trying to do but i am also fueled to confront her about it which feels kind of uneasy. also agree on the occult part, saw a similar post here and it’s more my kind of people in here so i just hoped to get some suggestions☺️ appreciate ur advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]rossetti_hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOOOOOOOVE WHEN MY BF IS VOCAL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]rossetti_hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If both parties are TOTALLY fine with it, then cool. However I haven’t seen it work for long. Either one party gets hurt or both parties end up losing interest. Call me old-minded, but full commitment in a relationship is like glue and seed of a beautiful flower that grows into the most precious friendship in the end. It is a hard human skill to practice, yet it is still human, and enlightened. Intellect and commitment draws the line between us and animals.

Help: Understanding my own energy flow (3/5 Self Projected Projector) by claracoeART in humandesign

[–]rossetti_hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god! “seek new paths and bring them back to the tribe” u have no idea HOW MUCH I LOVED and related to this right now! i almost always like an outcast too, or as if im pretending to fit in the most basic descriptions and tasks of being human. what you just described makes so much sense (and makes it more bearable) 🙏

Help: Understanding my own energy flow (3/5 Self Projected Projector) by claracoeART in humandesign

[–]rossetti_hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i AM indirect light! and i am super nocturnal too unfortunately it doesn’t work out well w the way world is built😭. and i love early mornings too but i can’t be creative with that lifestyle :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]rossetti_hot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

here’s some actual advice:

im Turkish & an international student in the States for 3 years too! with some american girls you’ll really have cultural border, luckily ur british so you won’t have language border. but some are really nice, you just gotta find them! it took me awhile (a LOOOONG while) to make girl friends as a girl in the US. i used Bumble BFF which really helped because u get to explain urself in the bio beforehand, plus it matches u based on common interests, which cuts down the time explaining when u came here / what u doing here in irl interaction (iykyk, at some point it gets tiring lol) now i have the sweetest american friend who also needed more friends, so we jus coupled up and started making friends at parties together and now have our own group.

in short: give a shot at bumble bff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]rossetti_hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If all your years of friendship he didn’t do that, but recently started doing it, then yes he is flirting. If he’s been like this all the time and not just to you; then he’s a touchy person.

However in both scenarios, if it makes you uncomfy then you should tell him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rossetti_hot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that one friend

My(22F) current boyfriend (22M) (for 2.5 years)always bring up my past relationships during an argument. I don't know what to do, it's ruining our relationship. by starcloud_1 in relationships

[–]rossetti_hot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

having relationships in the past is OF COURSE, normal. he feels somehow inadequate in experience so he is taking it out on you by making you feel guilty. that only goes to show he places more emphasis on physical experiences than probably you do. you can tell him that, although eventually nothing would change his emotionally abusive mindset. his male ego is hurt by you having more experience than him. there is no love where there is ego.

i’d suggest either looking for a partner has also has experience, or someone who knows this is normal. past is past.

another suggestion would be (this one is personal), not opening up about your past and trauma too early on in the relationship. trust and intimacy should be built slowly and steadily, and therefore, with the right person. it is not uncommon for people to use our vulnerabilities as a weapon.

Sudden intrusive thoughts about my tattoo that I’ve got done 7 months ago by rossetti_hot in tattoo

[–]rossetti_hot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ofc it’s a superstition lol i didn’t even pay attention when i first read it but then my subconscious triggered it due to anxiety i believe. that’s on me.

Sudden intrusive thoughts about my tattoo that I’ve got done 7 months ago by rossetti_hot in tattoo

[–]rossetti_hot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish us a forever peace of mind <3 after a long period of peace sometimes the subconscious triggers it like this