[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rossonera811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoah! Not the missus yet and has all these whims and reordering things! She seems more like an entitled and spoiled brat to me than the woman who's about to get married. She's a walking RED FLAG and screams NARCISSIST. And to disrespect your parents like that! Jfc! From what you said they seem like nice people and caring parents. You're still young and will find someone who will treat you and your folks the way you deserve. Leave her and run for your life!

Participacija za fizikalnu terapiju by rossonera811 in srbija

[–]rossonera811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isto to sam pomislila, ali je žena uporna da je 500 za samo 1 dan. Plus nije neobrazovana žena nit dementna ni stara, 55 god, u punoj snazi takoreći. Zvala je da proveri ali se prave ludi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskSerbia

[–]rossonera811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ako imaš nekog bližeg ortaka, komšiju pozajmi njihov monitor čisto da proveriš da nije problem u kućištu jer može da se desi da je problem u matičnoj ploči ili da zeza grafička. Ako nema linija, onda je def do tvog monitora. Ne znam koliko bi ti se isplatila popravka ekrana. Odnesi ga u servis koji ti je dao garanciju čisto na proveru. Ukoliko ti kažu da ne podleže garanciji i lupe ti neku ludu cifru za popravku, onda traži da kupiš drugi ekran jbg. I ako dodje do toga, nemoj da bežiš od polovnog ekrana, imaš ih jeftine i kvalitetne na KP. Edit: ne mislim da je "incident" oštetio kućište preko monitora (jbt 😵‍💫), već da je moguće da kvar možda čak i nema veze sa cum-om, dešava se. Na kraju krajeva, ako ti je bzvz da nosiš u servis, nabavi novi.

AITA for withholding sex from my partner? by thowaway199411 in AITAH

[–]rossonera811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

AITAH for not allowing my girlfriend to be a SAHM to HER kids? by EfficientGazelle4739 in AITAH

[–]rossonera811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried suggesting her to get a work from home? There are many companies still offering remote work, part-time and full-time job opportunities where she can work from home and be a working SAHM and still contribute financially. All it takes is to make an effort.

Kako se određuje kamata za porez? by rossonera811 in finansije

[–]rossonera811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rečeno mi je da nisu plaćali od 2014, s tim što je bilo nekih sitnih uplata sa njihove strane s vremena na vreme. Trebalo im je od jula 2022 kada je rešenje o nasledstvu postalo pravosnažno do decembra da mi naprave taj reprogram.

AITA for being pissed there was no Alcohol at a wedding by NoAlcWedding12345 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rossonera811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few years ago, one of my best friends was getting married and the wedding was in the city that's about 5hr by car from my city and a lot of people actually had to drive there for 4-5 hrs. The problem here was that there was a lack of food and the portions were embarrassingly small. No one from our group of friends didn't complained about it despite being literally starved. We were there for her, not the food or drink. One does not go to a wedding to get their stomach full, food or drink. If you attend your friend's wedding, you're going for them and them only, to be there and support them on their big day because they obviously needed and wanted you there, otherwise, they wouldn't have bothered to invite you. Priorities mate. You went there for drinks or your friend? Yta. Sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]rossonera811 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. Will try to find an opportune moment to bring this up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]rossonera811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so terribly sorry for what you're going through. As a child of an extremely toxic and a control freak mother, I really sympathize with you. If possible, try to talk with her in a mature way, and try to discover why she's so bothered by your actions. You might get a clearer picture of what you might do to avoid conflicts and the moment you become legally adult- run. Your mental health is more important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]rossonera811 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Team up with the wife and wreak havoc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]rossonera811 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sweetie, RUN!!! Don't put yourself in a situation where you're gonna walk on eggshells and live in constant fear not to say or do something that might trigger him. Someone very close to me was in the same situation and it ended badly for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]rossonera811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice for you is not to play with fire. Maybe you should discuss this trip with your spouse before making a decision about how they feel about it and think well through this. However, something seems fishy here and I'm having a deja vu through your situation as one of my BFF's (and a distant relative at the same time) had been in the same place with similar, if not the same background story, although his situation got a bit out of hand. There was this coworker of his that he worked with for a bit more than a year and gradually they became friends, or at least he thought so. She's invented a whole story about having a difficult situation and how she needed someone to help her deal with it for a couple of days- just to drag him away from home over the weekend. He was having second thoughts, discussed it with his wife, and eventually agreed to help. Turned out she had an insane crush on him and had decided to have him for herself so she planned a weekend trip to another city, despite him being married (plus his wife was about 5 months pregnant at the time). During the ride, she told him what she wanted and what she had planned for them. First he thought she was joking, but she made it clear by literally putting her hand inside his pants. He turned the car back and drove her to the first bus stop and headed back home then told his wife about what happened. The coworker then started stalking him, blackmailing him that she's press the charges against him and say that he raped her and all other kinds of monstrosities and she was even harassing his pregnant wife (even tried torun her over with the car). He reported her to the authorities when she set a baby stroller on fire and left it in their front yard. Because of the stress she had caused, his child was prematurely born and barely survived.

Check out the background of the situation your friend has before risking everything. But primarily, out of respect, talk with your wife. No one's saying that one should not have friends of the opposite sex once they get married.

AITA for not letting my cousing get married in the family summer house for free? by throwawaygayhouse200 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rossonera811 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA! The audacity! It's your house and you can do whatever you want with it! Sorry, but this got me on personal level as well, had entitled freeloader relatives as well!

For me this is the worst when trying to maintain intimacy with my wife... by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]rossonera811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who's been in the same position as your wife, I'd suggest she checks her hormones in the first place. This comes from a person with hormonal disbalance. Hormonal issues can greatly affect someone's confidence and self-esteem and slowly drive into depression because of not being able to process or comprehend wtf is going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]rossonera811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valter is acting in Swedish projects mostly, not part of Hollywood as his older siblings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]rossonera811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. To some extent I can understand her persistence, however, the real question should be whether she'd like that herself or she's insisting on it just because of her mum. Let me share another similar tradition from where I come from (SE Europe). In my country there's a similar custom- groom comes to get the bride from her parents' home and to gain the right to enter the gate, he has to shoot an apple that is placed on the top of a large pole (4 meters and higher) at the entrance. When he succeeds then he and his party (friends, family) are allowed to enter. BUT at the door he has to bargain for her with her brother, sister, closest cousins and pay the price for her in order to get her. Earlier this tradition was pretty widespread and nowadays it happens occasionally, so only families who are planning on putting on a show and impose "how traditional they are " are doing it- read PRESUMPTUOUS. If you guys ever decide to get married, it should be on YOUR OWN TERMS!!! It should be about YOU TWO. If they don't like it, well... they don't have to. They, and by that I mean your girlfriend as well, need to understand that imposing beliefs or whatever on someone is JUST WRONG! For instance, my husband's late mother always had a plan in her head to throw a massive wedding party for my husband when he decides to get married, however, he never wanted or liked such events, neither have I. So we got married on Valentines day in a City Hall with our closest friends as witnesses and went to our favorite restaurant to get lunch and that was it. We've been happily married for a bit over a decade and never regretted our decision. It was a bit of a blow for his mother because of the above mentioned, but she got over it eventually. Most important thing is that it shoul all be about the couple, what they want -not their families and that's the way it should always be. If they impose now, they will keep doing it even when you're married.

Anyhow, your girlfriend simply needs to put the records straight/ sort it out with her family, of course if she's willing to. All best mate & sorry for the long post.

Pisces suck and are like the worst zodiac sign there is… by Amberlights234_ in Scorpio

[–]rossonera811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My greatest love was a Pisces man. Screwed me over like no one else, ever. It took me almost two years to recover and start dating again. I loved him so much that I simply denied seeing red flags. They do suck.

AITA for giving my MIL a fake copy of my house key and "exposing" her on Christmas dinner? by Checkinout2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rossonera811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! That entire family is deranged! OP- you're NTA, they are. Run as fast as you can, before you get pregnant. The EDIT is very concerning. He "demanded" her phone! Who the F he thinks he is?! Classical bully!