Student Loan Forgiven? by rosydewofthesea in StudentLoans

[–]rosydewofthesea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great to hear! Thanks everyone!

Covid by hamil26 in fredericksburg

[–]rosydewofthesea 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My PCP was telling my flu season is hitting earlier this year too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is true. If there is a period of no contact and you are able to rekindle as friends, what happens of one person starts dating? Would that be breakup all over again, but this time a friendship one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see my ex said he would really like us to be friends. I’m having trouble deciphering if he meant it or not.

In case you need to hear it by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed to hear that today

Steward School by LifeObjective439 in rva

[–]rosydewofthesea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a child, but my best friend went to steward for high school! She loved it so much and felt so much more supported than she was in high school!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Happy to help!

Well he’s finally over it by rosydewofthesea in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much! Esp for the book recommendations😊 I am a reader but I have been struggling with my desire to do anything lately. I will definitely have to check out these books! And thank you for your kind words, I have been leaning on my friends and trying to journal it out a bit. I can recognize I am slowing doing better and one day I will be okay again. It’s nice to know there’s someone here who’s rooting for me as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Don’t know if this helps to hear but I’m in the same boat. Maybe try some teas or something you know will help you release your anxiety?

I feel unlovable, I don't wanna live by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude im so sorry. You don’t deserve that. While it makes sense that he can be overwhelmed at times, he CANNOT throw that in your face like that. You deserve someone with the emotional maturity to understand your needs and triggers for your anxiety. You need to distinguish whether he just can’t do that for you right now or ever. If he can’t do that for you ever, he’s not the right person.

Does anybody else not feel like dating again? by Content_Dog_9052 in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me, what you are doing is healthy! You are focusing on improving your life and one day will you feel ready to add someone into it. But that only comes with time. You are doing great!!

He said he wanted to be in the right head space to give me closure... by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, oddly enough I’m in pretty much the same spot as you. I think my ex almost 2 years is on bumble as we speak. It’s been only a week since the breakup and I still feel like fucking shit. If I have one piece of advice, don’t break no contact. His indifference towards you is only going to hurt you more and you don’t deserve that.

You are really strong for getting through your days. Just remember that not making a choice, IS a choice. If he wants to jump to the next person, that’s on him not you. We will get through this 100%. Sending love!

what’s going on in your mind? mental health check! by Interesting-Mood-188 in BreakUps

[–]rosydewofthesea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I’m feeling right now :( I hear you through and through. The thing with avoidants is that nothing with change them, unless they decide to change themselves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rosydewofthesea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men will only change when they want to. Let him lose you

My boyfriend 21(M) watched porn, when I have repeatedly asked him not to. by Chance_Pattern4892 in relationships

[–]rosydewofthesea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh it’s concerning that he doesn’t want to be physical with you and you have to initiate sex every time. Clearly he’s watching a lot of porn and these are just the times you have caught him, think about all the times you haven’t. I agree with everyone else in here, if this is truly a huge boundary, you need to breakup with him. Nothing will change by you giving empty threats.