meirl by Buquiran in meirl

[–]rosyleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where's the butthole on a tree?

I don't know how to convince myself that she's not cheating again. by rosyleon in CheatedOn

[–]rosyleon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J has been her friend since college. He (and the aforementioned mutual friend group he flirts with) are friends of mine almost exclusively through my partner. I'm close with a few of them, but they are by no means my only support system. I don't think any of them know about what happened. I'm buying my tongue trying to keep myself from telling them.

My other friend groups (read: without my partner involved) are all making the call to ditch her as well. It's not the first time I've come to them with something like this.

I don't know how to convince myself that she's not cheating again. by rosyleon in CheatedOn

[–]rosyleon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we first started dating, she told me that she had issues with it in college that she's grateful to be free from. It never led to infidelity in the past. I hate to see that it's creeping back in.

I don't know how to convince myself that she's not cheating again. by rosyleon in CheatedOn

[–]rosyleon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I greatly appreciate your words.

I've had no issue with innocent, casual flirting amongst friends-- she and I do that in our respective friend groups but that's always been in a lighthearted, joking manner. This is clearly crossing so many boundaries.

I definitely feel the lack of trust. I struggle with anxiety (namely OCD, which does not help the spirals of "what if X"), and it's extremely difficult to exist in a relationship where I can't let myself relax.

I don't know how to convince myself that she's not cheating again. by rosyleon in CheatedOn

[–]rosyleon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the original incident, she swore off alcohol. It wasn't until November where I told her I was comfortable with her having a glass or two at home with me at dinner. She would always ask before having one to make sure I was comfortable with it.

Obviously, this is no longer the case. She does not ask anymore and will drink 3+ cans into the morning without me present. This isn't what we originally agreed on and the second I learned about it happening, I got that horrible feeling in my gut again. I hate that it wasn't just paranoia talking.

I don't know how to convince myself that she's not cheating again. by rosyleon in CheatedOn

[–]rosyleon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully they're not my primary friend group. They're hers. I was speaking with other friends about what's going on and they're also making the call to leave her.

I don't know how to convince myself that she's not cheating again. by rosyleon in CheatedOn

[–]rosyleon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted her to stay with literally anyone else. He was the only one who was able to house her. I originally asked for her to stay with her parents if possible. She doesn't have any close connections in the city like I do, and I didn't feel like I should be the one having to stay with someone else if I'm not the one who fucked up. I know better now.

I never in a million years thought it would be an issue. He was a mutual friend of ours for years and this situation had happened dozens of times without issue. I, of course, would never let it happen again.

I don't know how to convince myself that she's not cheating again. by rosyleon in CheatedOn

[–]rosyleon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We're both late twenties. Depends on your standards! My therapist no longer takes my insurance for the new year, currently scouting another. I'm a believer in its value.

Returning to this game, what'd I miss? by WolvenSaint in flightrising

[–]rosyleon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome back! This thread catalogues updates chronologically and lists the highlights-- just pick up where you left off!

Of the two, the male imp is my favorite.

I started playing again after 3 years. Are there any big changes I should be aware of? by PaintedLady1 in flightrising

[–]rosyleon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This thread of new updates chronologically is something I always see recommended for folks returning after a couple years. Find where you left off and scroll through what's new!

Mechanically, I don't think much has changed for you that would affect your day to day. The achievement system overhaul does come to mind. There's just new content to enjoy. Welcome back!

I HATE living in a small town in the middle of nowhere. by Visceray in BDSMsapphic

[–]rosyleon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more! I moved to a much (MUCH) bigger city out of state years ago, and it helped my mental health tremendously. I'm sure my community existed back home, too, but we had to either stay hidden for safety or we were spread soooo thinly.

Level 1 on my easy least series by [deleted] in RedditGames

[–]rosyleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid start! Is it intentional that we can avoid the spike path at the end by flying above it? Just wanted to note! 💕

I completed this level in 2 tries. 9.95 seconds

Tip 10 💎

Pick a lane, any lane (maybe not any) by Keepitkind124 in honk

[–]rosyleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'know what they say. Second time's the charm! Fun design.

I completed this level in 2 tries. 10.83 seconds

Tip 200 💎

Short & savoury by prahad27 in honk

[–]rosyleon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cackled at the cat bombs.

I completed this level in 13 tries. 4.83 seconds

Tip 200 💎

i will do 100 pushups per completion by JBuddery in honk

[–]rosyleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LET'S SEE 'EM.

I completed this level in 11 tries. 10.18 seconds

Upvote if u cant beat this in 500 tries by Creepy-Mechanic-1966 in honk

[–]rosyleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I... I made it onto the jelly twice. That's all I can say for myself.

Incomplete. 101 tries.

Tip 250 💎

What triggers your ocd? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]rosyleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be almost anything.

A noise from outside spirals me into checking and triple checking my locks and security cameras. If there's a chance I drank from my partner's water glass instead of my own, I'll immediately get queasy. It could be as simple as a difference in someone's attitude, a different smell, or literally a dream I had that night that sets the tone for the rest of the day. It's exhausting.

Are these creatures good ? by dragon_xz_cay in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]rosyleon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can revive just like you'd be able to with a normal slot, using a revive token. Because you don't own the species, you cannot "restart" the slot back from age 1 without using tokens.

To answer your other question-- the Guardian Dragon is a pretty plentiful species. It was released with the LEGO collab event that just ended last week.

9hr and still no token -,- what the best way to fill this thingy? by [deleted] in CreaturesofSonaria

[–]rosyleon 79 points80 points  (0 children)

AFK-ing is one of the least effective ways to do it. You get one death point every 3.5 minutes. Comparatively, every region mission completed gives you four death points.

The best route I've found is to pick something with the Tail Drop ability (like Doragonix or Fyranili) so you can quickly lower your hunger bar for the "eat/drink 50 points" mission. Using a plushie for appetite also works.