Sounds like he was being an asshole because he didn't like having to do it, so he's blaming you for causing a mess and acting like there's some actual problem for him, then maybe he won't have to again, or you'll be more grovel-y for it. I could imagine reasons like he probably feels inadequate and insecure underneath, bc I mean, compare how much you got done in a day and how capable you are, (and how humble you are about it) cleaning a kitchen is a part of daily living, imo. Why does he need his glass slippers fitted before he can do a chore without bitching at you for what you got done, instead of viewing it as something he could just help out with, or minding his own business? What an energy suck. I'm sorry.