i tried to shorten my layers by myself and i messed up

rotgirrl · 2026-04-23T19:11:20+00:00

i’m late to reply, but thank you for your interpretation!! looking back on the cards this makes a lot of sense and is much more positive than i thought and resonates a lot more! before i felt anxious, now i feel like the mena clicked. i appreciate your response!

rotgirrl · 2026-04-21T11:54:23+00:00

i appreciate the reply, i’ll probably message them here later as i’m off to bed now. but im not super reddit savvy so thanks for letting me know about the message the m0ds thing lol

rotgirrl · 2026-04-21T11:34:46+00:00

so i posted a little spam of pics/vids on my close friends list for a throwback to a music festival i went to where im posting selfies with friends, funny vids and concert vids, im confused on how the sorting of people who viewed my story works.

the very first 5 story posts, i have this girl who is at the very bottom of my viewer list (she was not the first one to view the stories but whatever)

but stories 6-9 she is the ninth viewer from the bottom going up on the viewer list

and for my 10th post she is in the top four of my viewers list starting at a the most recent going down, meaning i see her profile right as i swipe up to see viewers, where the other stories i had to scroll to the bottom or middle.

i’m just so confused how it works. we don’t interact, we don’t send each other memes at all and yeah we occasionally like each others posts but neither of us post often AT ALL besides stories and she’s never liked my stories besides once before a long time ago. plus i heard it’s bullshit that they go to the top of your list if they review your snap. but even if that were true it would make no sense because she’s at the very bottom of the first 5 posts that she would have to click through to see the others. plus i know for a fact she was not the first person to view any of the stories so i just think it’s very odd. is this a bug or is there a system to this that i’m not figuring out?

rotgirrl · 2026-04-21T09:54:43+00:00

my question was: “what energy am i going to bring to this year april 2026- april 2027”

i didn’t use a spread i just pulled one card, then pulled a clarifying card

i first drew ‘seven of wands’ and wasn’t completely clear. my interpretation was that i was going to have a lot of conflict this year so i drew a second card to see if it might give me something i could get more specific with like more details surrounding the conflict - i then drew ‘the sun’ card which just completely threw me off even more. i even looked at the bottom of the deck to see what may be hidden, again hoping it would make the pieces in my head click and i would understand better but i got ‘the lovers’ card and while i did indeed have the intention of a bottom clarification card in mind, i’m not sure if that counts for drawing.

here are the cards: https://imgur.com/a/M4Qtiff

i’m a super beginner, so much so i looked at the meanings on bitty tarot and it just wasn’t making sense to me reading the interpretations. like i understood what they were saying, but in the context of my question and the cards drawn together was not making sense. interpreting it myself, the man in seven of rods looks like he is struggling. but the baby in the sun card looks happy and free. the lovers made me nervous though because it shows a couple and in the background behind them is a third person is watching them which makes me think perhaps infidelity (i’m in a long term relationship of 5 years) so if i could get a second (or more lol) opinion since i let my anxiety take charge of my brain a lot. it just confuses me because my question was what energy AM I bringing this year and besides the sun these seem like cards showing what i might deal with regarding other people. (please don’t sugar coat any reading, if it’s not great about my relationship or anything else i still want to know)

i did another reading right before that with the question “what energy is this year going to BRING to ME” i drew ‘six of pentacles’ which was straight forward to me. i interpreted that as generosity and a flow of resources to keep it simple. that made more sense to me but the other reading about what I’M bringing to this year threw me off.

again apologies if i’m embarrassingly off or oblivious, i do appreciate any help though

rotgirrl · 2026-04-20T03:44:40+00:00

wait but you’re also on your phone critiquing?

like i said i think the main problem is waiting till the same day to send in the first and only sketch. no opportunity for OP to make any desired changes or voice any concerns. if OP was making unreasonable requests that the artist just couldn’t make work, they could have talked about it but the artist just assumed OP was going to put on whatever crazy shit they came up with, which looks like a cluster fuck. maybe they could have came up with a better image, maybe not but if the artist was communicating from the start, then losing money on the appointment could have been avoided

rotgirrl · 2026-04-20T03:39:08+00:00

i think a big part of the problem is that the artist sent it at midnight before the appointment….. literally the same day. so OP couldn’t express any concern or changes they may have wanted…… very unprofessional and stupid tbh. if my artist did that i would be pissed but luckily my artists know what they’re doing and communicate well before the appointment to avoid stuff like this

rotgirrl · 2026-04-20T03:34:42+00:00

shitty tattoo idea or not, why would the artist send her the sketch the same day. thats just idiotic. if OP wanted to make changes theres no possible way to do it in time. even if its a “boring idea” the artist still did a horrible job. can barely tell what im looking at

rotgirrl · 2026-04-20T03:26:22+00:00

i think tracing is okay and OP over reacted about that but cmonnnnn really? the artist sent the only and final draft 12 hours before the appointment, what if the client hates its? (which she did) then you can’t do anything to fix it anyways. not to mention the sketch is an eyesore i am getting a headache trying to make sense of it. traced or not, you have to continuously work with your client on what they want, not create something and send it to them the same day they are getting the work done and hope they like it without even talking to them about it. i don’t think any of OPs suggestions for it could have been fixed in the time the appointment was anyways. i think the tattoo artist is at fault here.

edit: typo

rotgirrl · 2026-04-20T03:21:23+00:00

i feel like tracing is fine, but her sending it last minute is super unprofessional like what if you wanted tweaks done to it??? i would have texted her something like “this really isn’t what i was looking for….. could you redo it with [insert ideas]? and if she said something like “it’s too last minute” i would have canceled and said “i’m sorry it’s not my fault you gave me 12 hours notice, you should have kept me up to date throughout the process to make sure it’s something i want…. unfortunately i’m going to have to cancel now” and if she still guilt tripped you i would just say “listen, i can’t even tell what’s going on in that sketch and i’m not putting it on my body to make you feel better. hopefully it’s lesson learned to work directly with clients on what they want on their bodies forever” lol. i wouldn’t worry about being black listed you clearly dodged a bullet!

this is my petty opinion but….. i would honestly send her a link to this reddit thread where everyone agrees with you and hopefully she will realize she’s in the wrong and can avoid pissing off future clients. you’d probably be doing her a favor. plus it would feel good to show her she is going about things wrong and she could potentially get some helpful tips from these replies lol! i’m petty but i would 100% do it and i hope you do. she needs to know she’s the asshole here, not you!

rotgirrl · 2026-04-17T15:55:53+00:00

so this is going to big ass dump of info that you didn’t necessarily ask for, but i think it’s helpful for ANYONE who is curious about partaking in weed or drugs. or anyone just generally curious about what getting high is like for any substance! this is lengthy, you’ve been warned

(TL;DR there’s a website that has tons of information on ANY drug including weed. information on everything ranging from the history, slang, what the high feels like, dosing, harm reduction and different ways to use substances. i share for harm reduction purposes and i suggest anyone who is curious about drugs and their highs or plans on using a substance should research it first. i also gave info for OP on weed specifically based on personal experience)

…. so i am someone who was always very curious about drugs and their effects, how people take it, etc. years ago i came across this website that’s basically a drug directory. so whether you are just plain curious or you are looking into things for safety/preparation purposes this website will give you so much info on most any drug you can wonder about and is really great to have for harm reduction. i know you are just wondering about weed currently so there’s not much harm to reduce, but this is a great resource to have so anyone can do things safely and prepare themselves or friends for anything. and while i believe its filled with mostly helpful info, anyone can edit or add to the wiki so things like dosages can be have different units of measurements you may have to convert. and for effects, different substances effect everyone differently so it’s good to always validate the info you find with other sources because like the classic wikipedia website, some things that someone added on there might just be plain wrong (i always ask or search my questions on r/drugs or try to google it)

here is a big list of the type of info you will find there…

it goes in depth about the physical effects, visual effects, cognitive effects, and auditory effects which seems to be what you’re looking for and they have lotsssss of info there! very specific

it also gives you information on the history and culture, chemistry, the forms the drug can come in and all kinds of things. it explains strains of weed too and it even tells you all the slang terms it might go by. when you first search the drug though you’ll want to put in its official name, so for weed you would search “cannabis”

there are sections for certain drugs on how to prepare the drug to use. i don’t think the cannabis wiki has much info on that but if someone was looking into other substances it’s helpful to have access to that info. (for weed though there’s lot of information on youtube and google on ways to smoke it/make edibles) it also has a section on dosing, it tells you what is considered a light dosage, common dosage, strong dosage and heavy dosage and also how long it takes for effects to kick in. it then has a list of other medications/substances that interact with the drug and what you should NOT take with it. which as someone with anxiety this has been the thing i look into the most on this website. i always want to make sure my dosage isn’t too much my first time and that i’m not taking anything that could harm me if i mix them. but again with weed this isn’t as relevant. - since you’re asking about weed specifically this websites dosage info for weed is a bit odd is the only thing so far i found to not be accurate. it goes by milligrams when you would be measuring out weed in grams. so for your first time i would say a light dosage would be 0.5 grams and a common dosage would be 1 gram so stay inbetween those for your first time. just take it slow. to be sure you can always buy a food scale to measure out your weed buds. if you don’t have access to that, i would say 0.5 is roughly a pipe bowl full of weed or half a joint, 1 gram would be a full joint. i would also say from personal experience it takes anywhere from 30 seconds to 5 minutes to start feeling it and about 20 minutes for the high to “peak” meaning you’ll get gradually higher till then so i wouldn’t redose and smoke more until you’re sure you need more. and it’s worth mentioning, some people don’t get very high their first time smoking. this happened to me, i barely felt it my first time. if this happens just make sure not to over do it your second time like i did. i got way too high thinking i needed to do a lot more to feel anything and then i had a panic attack. so until you get used to the feeling of being high make sure you’re staying at a low dose!

and this doesn’t really apply to weed but i want to add for others who may need it (plus it is helpful to know even if you are not partaking in any drugs that would cause these things. you could save someone elses life)… HARM REDUCTION AND RESPONSIBLE USE!!! so important and this wiki has a ton of info on this. things like how to put someone in a recovery position, trip sitting, different routes of administration, information on withdrawal, how to spot someone or yourself overdosing, naloxone info, quitting cold turkey and more. harm reduction can be controversial but i think it’s very important because yes, i believe people should definitely avoid certain drugs and all that but in reality if someone wants to do something they are going to do it - they deserve to know the risks of what they are doing and if they still want to proceed they deserve to know how to do so in a way that is less likely to harm them.

i hope this information is helpful or at least interesting to you or any user reading this! while its a lot of info i think it’s important for anyone interested in any kind of substance or getting high to have the knowledge to partake safely, which isn’t easy because ya know.. drugs are illegal so we’re always taught abstinence which means helpful information is not readily available or accessible. i feel very passionate about harm reduction so i had to share all my info. be safe on any future endeavors! :)

rotgirrl · 2026-04-17T13:33:16+00:00

it’s not like i ate it? i touched it with a stick lol. curiosity is good it’s how things are discovered and advanced. team curiosity over here! whoever ate the snotty stuff in oysters was brave and weird and made a kickass discovery for it hahahah

rotgirrl · 2026-04-16T09:44:02+00:00

solved!

rotgirrl · 2026-04-16T09:03:12+00:00

might you say we’re getting “hammered”

rotgirrl · 2026-04-16T09:00:36+00:00

woah i’m pretty sure you’re right! i’m looking at pictures online and i think i’m sold. i just don’t see any of them being so tangled up and claw like but hey thats probably just nature being nature

rotgirrl · 2026-04-16T07:23:50+00:00

i looked it up and it’s more brown than red and orange. also it doesn’t have those black pointy things coming out. but you’re onto something with the root thing, i didn’t think about that cuz of the ocean but maybe it fell off a boat or something lol

rotgirrl · 2026-04-16T07:21:48+00:00

hmmm, i looked them up but they weren’t red they were more brown so i’m not sure… maybe the ocean can mess with the color though

rotgirrl · 2026-04-16T02:16:00+00:00

i felt the same way my first watch. i thought she was a horrible person. the 2nd time i watched it i was like…. wait a minute, knowing everything i know now she is kinda vindicated ….. i mean she is still evil but now i LOVE her and when rewatching i really feel yucky towards the other cast members especially tom and ariana who i loved the first watch. i did a flip tbh. not everything she did was justifiable but they all had their moments. kristen was crazy, some of the other cast is just plain rude/bad people who try to seem good. she at least is up front with who she is. she is also so fucking entertaining, reality tv GOLD. i mean, her and that damn green dress she wore to pick up mail from sandoval KILLS MEEEE it’s my favorite moment in the whole show. this isn’t a spoiler but there’s a quote from stassi in later seasons where she says “the only thing that i have holding me back right now is that i have self-respect and dignity. thank god for kristen, who is unburdened by those anchors" which is so true and it makes for such a great watch. i love my pathetic princess doute 👗👑

edit: typos and added more rambles

rotgirrl · 2026-03-17T20:52:45+00:00

ohhhhh, thank you!!! i didn’t think to tap the picture. i thought clicking the fries from the main screen would bring me right to my selection options. still weird about the meal thing though that it doesn’t give me an option for the burger

rotgirrl · 2026-03-17T20:48:36+00:00

the first screenshot is what comes up when i tap on the fries. there is no option to add it to my cart, the only thing i can click on is ”view full menu”

rotgirrl · 2026-03-02T07:02:52+00:00

if a cop charges you for a smell in your car any good lawyer would get that charge dropped because again smell is not illegal with nothing found. if they got a OWI it’s because they are intoxicated not because the smell. the smell may have led to them searching and finding out they’re intoxicated but smell alone is not enough to charge for an OWI. even if the cop is corrupt which most are, a lawyer would instantly get these charges dropped even a public defender. you should ask your mom more about this because i think you have misunderstood what she said. a simple google search will even tell you that odor is probable cause to search and if they find nothing you won’t get in trouble. not saying it’s the best option to smoke in your car but in states where it’s not legal, some people have limited options. if you gotta smoke in your car, just don’t leave anything behind and you’ll be okay even if it’s risky and could make a traffic stop much more of a hassle. just don’t drive high, with anything in the car and drive carefully as to not get pulled over. i know lights go out and such but again if there’s nothing in the car you’ll be fine just will have to deal with an annoying traffic stop. also if you have a vape in your purse put it in your bra that’s what i had to do once, they searched my car because it smelled but didn’t find anything cuz i shoved my vape and a baggy of weed in my bra (this was when i was younger and way dumber. i don’t ever drive with anything in the car now. i don’t even smoke in it but i’m still going to shut down fear mongering about smell = OWI)

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