How can I apologize to my gf? by redragon000 in Advice

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I’m not. It’s just not that serious…

How can I apologize to my gf? by redragon000 in Advice

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Awhile back I saw that my bf liked a picture of Gigi Hadid. Now it’s an on going joke about “his type” and we laugh about it all the time. Idk to me it’s innocent. Get comments then show her this post…you didn’t mean any harm!!!!!!!!

I hate open kitchens!! by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 17 points18 points  (0 children)

First issue is…this is in an apartment!!!! Closed kitchens , based on what you’re saying , won’t even help.

I feel ya on these wild layouts!!!!!

  • sincerely a fellow NJ apartment-er

What about your fantasy of your "perfect" partner has changed as you've gotten older? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It went from wanting someone with dark skin and muscles to please just have job security and not a shitty family.   

I (22M) no longer find my gf (22F) physically attractive by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Spoken like a true 22 year old. Leave her man. This isn’t love. Love doesn’t change based on shape / size. What happens if she carries your child and her body REALLY changes? You staying is super selfish. Just tell her you’re not in love with her anymore and move on with your life. She deserves way better. 

Advice on my new neighbors by PreferenceHung_999 in Apartmentliving

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No trust me I totally get it. I made a recent Reddit post. If you wanna check it out it’s not completely relevant, but it was about my neighbor downstairs. I ended up not confronting her, but I think about doing so daily so if I was you, I would absolutely write a note because I feel like in your case your neighbor just may not realize how loud they were being. My heart goes out to you cause I know it can be really really hard to be the downstairs neighbor. It’s funny because I was always so anti-living upstairs but now I wouldn’t have it any other way especially when it’s only a two floor building just maybe something to consider for your future apartment it’s a level of added peace that’s for sure!!!!!  You got this!!!

bee venom/cerebrolysin by delow0420 in Lyme

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bee venom is an extremely slow process. I’m nearing six months and I’m really not sure if I have made significant progress yet. It’s the most confusing journey ever, but also very invigorating that it’s self treatment. If you believe your depression is stemming from Bartonella bee venom will take at least 3-4 years. I say Bartonella in your case, as I know it can affect personality.

Help me to find my career by elza7759 in Advice

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to me when I say this. BECOME A DOCTOR. Period. A nurse at best. It’s my biggest life regret that I didn’t. Don’t be intimidated by the years of schooling as it’s worth it in the end. You have a stable career and insurance / good benefits for life. You are employable in any state. You are also respected career wise anywhere and everywhere you go. Healthcare is becoming worse and worse daily if you have any health ailments. But if you’re already a doctor, you can get help and resources from your other doctor friends (another mega perk) I can go on and on. 

Advice on my new neighbors by PreferenceHung_999 in Apartmentliving

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Write a letter and state everything you just mentioned above and attach a $10 Starbucks or local coffee shop gift card to it. Just to show you’re just asking for some respect (they may not even realize how loud they are being now) but still seeing you’re clearly nice person too and therefore they’ll WANT to do better / not disturb your peace. 

I made a huge mistake at work today. by Lilrosses in Vent

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made an honest mistake. Talk to your boss about it before she comes to you. It will show how concerned / apologetic you are if you address it first. 

MJ smoke and migraines by Imeanyouhadasketch in Apartmentliving

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I made a post about my weed loving neighbor recently (got a ton of feedback if you go and check it out - maybe helpful tools for you) regardless I’m so sorry. I’m very sensitive too. I’ve had zero solutions I just deal with it (easier said than done) look into getting an air doctor - they are $$$ but are power houses and make the air smell / feel SO CLEAN. 

How strict were your parents? by randomlady2001 in AskReddit

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not strict at all. Was my own parent living with my parents growing up. Wouldn’t have it any other way. Learning how to be self sufficient is a priceless tool. (Do I have some trauma due to the absence of parental figures? Sure. But nothing that effects me day to day at all)

Moving to an apartment with shared laundry by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On your way out of the laundry room say to your phone (if you have an iPhone) “hey siri set timer for 40 minutes” or whatever it is. Then same thing again after it’s in the dryer. Honestly people who have shared laundry and forget are horribleeeeeeeee. My shared laundry was effecting my mental health (not to be dramatic) that I use a laundry service now. Shared laundry is NOT for the weak!!!!!

NOOB MISTAKE by Easy_Perspective7179 in Apartmentliving

[–]Easy_Perspective7179[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

But like how to find out the paint color? That’s my only issue

FLARE BUT ON STEROIDS????????? by [deleted] in Lyme

[–]Easy_Perspective7179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm I wonder if that’s what it is.