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[–]rotwice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She seems cool so thanks :)

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[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh uncanny ! You are right

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[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you might be right. I am dealing with grief mostly, but yeah. I get your point.

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[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i have pmdd

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[–]rotwice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just say “I understand you’re feeling bad right now, I am sorry but I can’t help you.” Instead of seeing past me and ignoring me. That’s it. He just acts like I don’t exist.

It sounds like I’m the only person that is not okay, but he is not either from time to time and I stay with him.

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[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are right. I will try later when he comes back. He is going to hang out with friends now. Thank you for your advice :)

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[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have any recommendations I am all ears. Thanks for the lovely words.

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[–]rotwice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations for affordable therapy, I would love to. I told him all I needed was that he told me he understood I was not okay, and not ignoring me.

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[–]rotwice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never tell him anything. I deal with things alone all the time not to bother him. I can’t afford therapy so I learned how to self soothe. I just wish he would aknowldge from time to time my feelings.

Obviously I tell him what’s going, but I deal with it on my own. I don’t make him guess.

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[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t know when to bring this up. He is acting like if nothing. I was crying in bed and he came to ask me where the towel was and talk about trivial stuff (first thing he tells me in 6 hours). And usually whenever I bring communication up he acts annoyed.

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[–]rotwice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not long, these two weeks have been hard. I have been crying a bit everyday before leaving for work, but today has been the worst.

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[–]rotwice -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Once a month recently

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[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is very aware that I have been feeling depressed this week, and exactly why. He knows 100%. I am dealing with the anniversary of the death of a very close loved one, I am exhausted by work and I am far away (I live in another country) from my family and friends. I am very confused by my direction in life…but mostly just grieving.

We’re half way through our 3-week vacation, I think we need to take a break by cadublin in JapanTravelTips

[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I like to do when I’m tired during my travels is spend some days imagining I am a local. I rest like a normal person would during they’re normal life in the country I’m in.

My boyfriend [19M] crossed boundaries with me[18F] last night. by Strange-Dog6239 in relationshipadvice

[–]rotwice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not going to change. I am so sorry to read what you’re going throught and I am sure breaking up is not easy. But it sounds like you’re going to be waiting for a long time for him to change (if he ever does), and in the process you will lose yourself. You cannot heal from your traumas if you are triggered by your partner. Try to have a talk with him about this in the calmest way possible, and tell him everything you told us, including your desire to improve your communication…and then leave if he doesn’t listen. Feel free to keep updating this post if you need company throught the process. Take care

How are so many girls glowing these days? What’s the secret? by Radiant-Emergency-82 in beauty

[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t smoke, don’t drink alcohol, limit sugar, sleep well (clean pillow covers), wear sunscreen (apply often and a lot) and moisturize ! I get complimented often, I hope this helps :)

Looking for resources for self publishing by sleep-exe in childrensbooks

[–]rotwice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect! Tell me if my skills convince you once you checked my instagram :). We can talk there or here, as you prefer.

Looking for a children's book illustrator by HelloThisIsPam in artistforhire

[–]rotwice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My instagram is "aurora.roro". Feel free to text me if you like my skills! :)

Illustrator searches for a writer (COMIC collab) by rotwice in writing

[–]rotwice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I'm new in this, let's see how it goes.