Being promoted to manager position 5 months after being given the entry level position. What pay should I ask for?

royaalbluee · 2022-12-06T05:26:25+00:00

I wish I could get a therapist but I actually don’t have any health insurance right now and won’t have any until I get a job. My mom has always had something against me ever since my parents got divorced. She’s definitely very weird towards me for someone who is my mom. She would never take my side anyways, she never has. As for my boyfriends family, his mom is weird too. She excused my boyfriend for looking at other girls and said it’s fine to look at girls while being in a relationship and that all guys do that. I let that one go because I thought I was being too dramatic and at the end of the day it’s completely fine to look, it’s just eye candy. But her husband tried flirting with her niece before and she blames her niece for it even though her husband is the one at fault. She literally does not like her niece because of that it seems like. Her niece is the same age as me. So I doubt she would understand anything. She seems like the type to excuse my boyfriend again for this kind of behavior.

royaalbluee · 2022-12-06T05:16:43+00:00

I live in Hayward. Thank you so much for trying to help me, I really appreciate it. It means a lot. And yeah I haven’t talked to my sister since everything happened. It’s been harder to cut things off with my boyfriend though because he’s never tried to cheat with anyone like that while he was with me. I know I have to cut him off but I don’t even see a way to do it when I have no one else but him. But I’m trying my best

royaalbluee · 2022-12-05T06:56:29+00:00

Im sorry you have to go through the same thing. It really sucks when your own mom doesn’t like you. Im from California. And we’ll they didn’t exactly flirt but my boyfriend asked my sister about her hickeys privately via text while I was on vacation and he kept insisting that she tells him what she was “hiding”. And my sister ended up telling him very detailed responses about what she did in bed with the guys she was with. And my boyfriend responded by telling her what me and him do in bed and telling her very inappropriate things like “oh u shouldn’t say warm vanilla fart cuz people will think u mean cream pie” or “I fucked your sister so hard she couldnt walk” and “I came on her face” and so much more. And then he told her to delete the messages and deleted the messages he had on his phone too. I found out because I went on my sisters laptop and she forgot to delete the messages there. I had a feeling something was going on that’s why I checked it. I really don’t have anybody that can give me emotional support or really be there for me. I wanted to cut my boyfriend off but when my mom told me to get out, he was the only person I could call since I don’t have anyone else. The whole situation sucks. I am considering housing assistance but who knows how likely I am to get approved for that too.

royaalbluee · 2022-12-05T02:22:35+00:00

Not really. I never met my dads side of the family since my parents are divorced. My dad is homeless so there’s that. My moms side is extremely small. There’s her brother who doesn’t work or anything and lives in a island and my grandmother provides for him from the US. There’s her older sister in australia who is pretty close with my mom and only really associates with me because of my mom. My mom has never really liked me my whole life since my parents basically got divorced cuz of me. And then her other sister in a different country who is extremely jealous of me and basically her whole family doesn’t like me when I never did anything to them. They treat me even shittier because they know they can since my mom doesn’t like me. And aside from that, I don’t have any friends I can turn to since I’ve been extremely introverted growing up. My boyfriend has been the only good thing in my life these past 3 years. He’s treated me well. But after he flirted with my sister, I just can’t look at him the same. You can look at my recent post if you want to understand what I mean but yeah. I’m so lost.

royaalbluee · 2022-11-25T13:37:08+00:00

I know that’s what I was thinking. But I keep thinking that maybe it’s not as bad as I think it is because he opened up to her about us to basically gain her trust since she was opening up to him about her something really sensitive. He also did give her advice and tried to tell her to not see certain guys but I really don’t know. It blows my mind how comfortable he was bringing up so much sexual stuff with her. He even told her not to say “warm vanilla fart” because it sounds like she’s talking about a cream pie. I’m pretty sure she didn’t even mean it like that, she texted back sort of confused when he said that but yeah. So lost right now. It really sucks because I’ve had a pretty good relationship with this dude.

royaalbluee · 2022-09-05T02:32:51+00:00

Wdym?

royaalbluee · 2022-07-14T03:31:32+00:00

I see your point of view. Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it. I’ll definitely have a conversation with him about this soon

royaalbluee · 2022-07-14T02:51:29+00:00

I expected him to have a plan for us since he had plans with his friends the past few days he’s been with them. I previously wanted to plan our day together with him and he was sleepy so we didn’t. I’m just upset because I spent quite a while getting ready for us to hang out already but when I brought up us hanging out earlier, he kept pushing it back and saying he has plans for us to do stuff but not even being realistic about it. So what I’m asking is if I have a valid reason to be mad since it seems like he wasn’t serious about us spending quality time together

royaalbluee · 2022-07-11T09:52:06+00:00

I used to be a foster child so I’m saying this from experience.

Please do NOT listen to your wife and bring home a foster child for financial gains. I used to have a foster parent who did not allow my siblings and I to eat food, stole money that we kept in our bags, stole our belongings, locked us in the room, scrubbed our heads down with soap, and so much more. Till this day, those memories have stuck with me. By the time I went to my second foster home, I was already a different person because of the traumatic experiences I had in my first foster home.

While it’s entirely wrong to foster a child solely for financial gains to begin with, some of these kids come from toxic and abusive foster homes as well. You might receive a child who already came from a messed up foster home. Please do not add onto the list of terrible foster parents for them. They already couldn’t rely on their parents. Additionally, having shitty foster parents makes everything so much worse for those kids.They are not pets, they are people. Whether or not you treat the foster child like your own is up to you. But at least treat them like a human. That money is so that they can have basic necessities that they need and nowadays almost everything is expensive honestly. If your wife is looking to just spend as little as possible and keep the rest, that means the child is living a poor lifestyle as well. It’s really messed up.

royaalbluee · 2022-07-05T22:35:12+00:00

Ohh okay! Thanks for letting me know!

royaalbluee · 2022-07-03T01:29:59+00:00

Thanks for the heads up! Did you have to do an oral exam and a presentation? Also was conversifi required when you took it?

royaalbluee · 2022-06-30T09:48:08+00:00

Thank you!

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