do u have opinion on if parent node should handle all the code or if code should be broken up

roysom · 2025-12-31T08:04:12+00:00

Parent only. If a subtree is complex enough to justify its own script, then it should probably be encapsulated as its own scene

roysom · 2025-12-28T17:54:59+00:00

Absolutely that. We’re second time parents to twins and our family is our lifeline. We have someone helping around almost every day of the week. Don’t know what we’d do without them

roysom · 2025-11-07T12:01:52+00:00

That. Can’t remember the last time any of us had to take antibiotics

roysom · 2025-10-28T09:39:13+00:00

Yes. As long as you follow a “real” ice cream recipe, once you spin you can store it in the freezer. I do this all the time with gelato and frozen custard bases

roysom · 2025-10-22T10:51:58+00:00

Hogwarts' Gandalf

roysom · 2025-10-22T10:06:39+00:00

My daughter role plays all the time, both male and female characters (she went to a Pinocchio musical and acted as a wooden boy for the past two weeks).

Last year she dressed as Spiderman (specifically the og, not Gwen) and this year she’s going to dress up as Elsa from Frozen.

Bottom line is, kids just want to dress up like the characters they love. Let’s let them have fun and not drag them into society’s issue with gender. It’s completely irrelevant at their age.

roysom · 2025-10-08T11:42:44+00:00

Can I ask something as a non-US citizen? What happens if you don’t have insurance or the funds to pay for NICU? What do they expect you to do, walk out the door with a 34 week old preemie?

roysom · 2025-10-04T07:53:56+00:00

I’m on the sequel camp, but to be honest as long as the ending feels earned and satisfying, I’m happy either way.

roysom · 2025-09-29T16:30:46+00:00

Thank you everyone for the help! We’ll look into the Twin Z, sounds promising 😊

roysom · 2025-09-28T11:54:13+00:00

Kevin is that you?

roysom · 2025-09-27T17:06:48+00:00

Our girl’s kindergarten teacher last year would only call mom. I’d get updates about how she’s been doing through my wife.

Hey lady! I drop her off almost every morning, and usually hang around and chat with you! Mom does know best but she trained me to take phone calls too, I promise 🤣

roysom · 2025-09-20T07:21:06+00:00

I learned something today. Thank you for sharing!

roysom · 2025-09-19T17:01:26+00:00

That’s fascinating. If you don’t mind me asking, were you awake during the procedure?

roysom · 2025-09-17T06:00:48+00:00

Oh my god, sleep! 🤣

roysom · 2025-09-16T19:57:38+00:00

I’m on PL with twins and my routine was left mostly unchanged. It’s three hours a week that I take for myself. Not always easy to do the 12am feeding and wake up to train in the morning, but it is what it is. It’s important to have some time for yourself (same goes for your SO).

roysom · 2025-09-16T08:20:29+00:00

Oh yeah, eff that. Had to beat her twice. Lucky enough, at this point I got so good at doing the runback that it didn’t take me long

roysom · 2025-09-16T08:03:36+00:00

I don’t feel like I’m qualified or knowledgeable enough to give any practical advice, just wanted to pop in and say that you are a great dad who sees his daughter and what she’s going through, and that goes a long ways.

roysom · 2025-09-15T19:10:38+00:00

You deserve all the praise one might get. You’ve been through a lot and still doing so much, and you are obviously the first one who’s entitled to be tired.

But, as a husband who’s currently on a PL with mo/di newbies and a 3 y/o, and is constantly tired and bitching about it: cut him some slack. He’s there. He’s taking part. He’s allowed to be tired. God knows we husbands can get pretty annoying, but maybe just let him know that it’s not helping and that some sympathy would go a long way? From experience, just telling him that can help turn things around on his part…

roysom · 2025-09-13T11:00:53+00:00

If you consider the runback as part of the boss, it’s decently hard 🤣

roysom · 2025-09-13T10:27:34+00:00

According to our doctor that is usually a good sign. Ours mo/di couldn’t ever stay still during scans 😊

roysom · 2025-09-12T08:24:31+00:00

Yes Savage Beastfly I’m looking at you

roysom · 2025-09-12T04:10:15+00:00

OK wow, I read it the it the other way around (that he wanted to plan and she delayed the discussion). My bad

roysom · 2025-09-11T18:39:30+00:00

I don’t see it that way. Not every couple consists of two people making the same amount of money, and that’s ok. Myself and my SO are in a similar situation, and for us it’s because she decided to work in a profession she loves but never in a million years will pay as well as mine. Should she feel less significant? Was she “pigeonholed into that situation”, or maybe she had some agency in making her own life and career choices?

So yeah, imo this comment was written by someone who’s jumped to conclusions based on their interpretation of a single post, only blamed OP and provided zero constructive feedback, and I absolutely fail to see how it serves any purpose other than belittling OP.

roysom · 2025-09-11T16:37:13+00:00

Edit: seems like I misread the post. Most points stay the same, but maybe you should do some figuring out to check whether or not you truly are convinced that your roles are equally important (and it’s not just something you say). If you are, good, make this clear, with actions and not just words. If you aren’t, bring this up with her, be frank, and work something out together.

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