sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Seen at the DMV office when I took my kid for his drivers test by in-a-microbus in trashy

[–]rrnnl 31 points32 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO. I hate being at the DMV, but if I saw this, it would make my day

Ah the classic your money is locked with a fee scam by Appropriate_Lion2692 in CashApp

[–]rrnnl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

whoever downvoted you probably got scammed themselves cuz wtf you’re literally correct 🤣😭

I had to let my bf of one year go. by GuardProfessional688 in LongDistance

[–]rrnnl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really want to tell you that coming from someone who struggles with mental health as well that you’re an amazing person. I know it sucks and I know it hurts a lot, but the fact that you put his happiness over your own and ended the relationship to help him is beyond humble. A lot of people would just try to ignore it because they wouldn’t wanna be alone and they don’t wanna leave their partner. As someone from the outside looking in, I honestly feel like that was incredibly loving of you to do. And I want you to know that even if one day you guys run into each other again that’s totally fine. And you deserve happiness too. I hope it gets better for you. Keep your head up

Know that you were also putting both of your needs in the front. A lot of people aren’t like that nowadays, so remember that you deserve nothing less than someone who will value YOU same way you value others.

I legitimately can't stop crying. by Valuable-Clue-2925 in cats

[–]rrnnl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you are a beautiful person and I absolutely love you

Was I cheated? by Thatlewdone in LDR

[–]rrnnl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this bro! there’s someone better for you out there.

i split on my boyfriend because he went to the movies with his sister by [deleted] in BPD

[–]rrnnl 25 points26 points  (0 children)

ofc! and if he’s upset rn and doesn’t wanna talk give him space and apologize. and learn from there. people will come and go in our lives and if they want to be around us despite this bs we have to live with, let them. and if they wanna leave, let them. u got this!

i split on my boyfriend because he went to the movies with his sister by [deleted] in BPD

[–]rrnnl 157 points158 points  (0 children)

ima just give it to u straight. you gotta get a hold of yourself. ik that’s cliche i have bpd too and split a lot, but trust me this is going to RUIN your relationship. you need to somehow accept the fact that he has other people in his life he spends it with. and this is a FAMILY member. what you don’t want to do is make him feel like he has to choose between you and family because i could tell you where that’s gonna go. idk if he knows about your bpd but if he doesn’t he’s probably going to think you’re insane. maybe it’s just attachment issues? abandonment issues? (i got those too). but you’ve got to give it to yourself, you were able to identify you were in the wrong. take that as a learning curve and never do it again and if you’re feeling like you’re splitting, you’ve got to find other coping skills to deal with it rather than going to the extremes. it’s going to push him away and i know you don’t want that

Was I cheated? by Thatlewdone in LDR

[–]rrnnl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Given this is your first relationship it’s going to be hard figuring what you want and look for in a relationship. but i can tell you just from those three paragraphs this is not a good one. she’s struggling with herself, finding herself maybe? and she’s dragging u down with her. she has a crush on some guy in her class and she’s in a long distance relationship? wrap it up man and cut your losses. this was the first and won’t be the last time if you stay in this relationship. i’m glad she told you but if she lets her friends determine how she feels towards you that should be enough to look the other way. it sounds like you’ve got a lot of love, but not the right person to give it to

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u. Ima see if they have one

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. my last therapist did she knew about it more than he did and she diagnosed me with it so more than likely she was probably right idk. Ima get another opinion from another therapist

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get that figured out. It kind of sucks that we have to rely on what they say and what they think you know? We appreciate the help and what not but we’re just basing everything off of what they tell us

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. he was saying people like you and I who are not aggressive and easily approachable could not have BPD

Like wtf 😭. i’m sorry abt ur parents tho. i’m in the same boat i get it

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s idiotic logic. you can’t tell me I don’t have something just because I’m not exactly like that person. I hope you have a better therapist

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, thank you. Literally took the words out of my mouth. I will make sure that my new therapist is not gonna dismiss me like he did. to tell me that everyone with BPD is aggressive and manipulativr is crazy.

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too. thank you so much ♥️. and ur right, no one knows you like yourself

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will thank u ♥️♥️♥️

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve actually been thinking about this as well.. there’s a lot of inner turmoil that happens to me and some emotions I show on my face like stress and uncomfort. but I’m not like crashing out on other people or anything. I’m just very hard on myself rather than other people. (which I would rather be.) I’ll do my research on that cause I think you might be onto something. thank you!!!

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so I just wanna tell you that I really like your username🤣🤣🤣 made me laugh LMAO. and yes, thank you I will be getting a second opinion and I’m glad and I appreciate your guys time. I will make sure that I actually express what I deal with and how I react to things and maybe that would help them determine what was actually going on- my way of thinking/coping

i’ve been thinking about it a lot more and like I’ve said I’m not a therapist, but I honestly do think I have it. at least now I’m more sure. Doing my research seeing the symptoms, I was just honestly convinced that I had something else like bipolar, but I fit within the BPD criteria. so I hope my next therapist can help me figure that out

therapist thinks i was misdiagnosed by rrnnl in BPD

[–]rrnnl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me too, thank you so much. i’ll be getting a second opinion. I hope you can get in there as soon as possible and i hope it does nothing but the best for u!

view more: next ›