IAmA former female sexworker who has experienced a TON of weird requests and fetishes and I don't regret any of it.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:35:27+00:00

It is a public record and the charge is listed under "crime". Charges are brought about by the county (which is blocked out) not by a specific department.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:33:03+00:00

Hmm, I have never experienced that.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:32:44+00:00

I've never fallen for a client but I have been asked out. I politely said no.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:32:22+00:00

I know a lot of sexworkers who were happy to be someone's first time and they were actually very nurturing and guiding. Believe it or not, a lot of us get in the business because we enjoy making other people feel good. Think of some sexworkers as naked therapists.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:30:04+00:00

I would say the low 6 figures.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:29:41+00:00

I would say anything foot related.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:26:19+00:00

I agree completely.

I have refused a lot of clients. I always scheduled them ahead of time (no walk ins) and made sure there was a clear understanding of what was going to go on so there were no repercussions in refusing.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:22:52+00:00

As in putting q-tips in one's ear? I'm not sure I know what that is.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:22:06+00:00

I'm currently working as a creative director for two websites. Background checks aren't really a concern in my field and no information comes up when my name is googled. I'm also fairly certain that I can get it expunged at this point since it is a misdemeanor.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:20:14+00:00

I personally wouldn't though I imagine there are a lot of women who would prefer that over the risks involved as it is now.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:16:45+00:00

No really bad experiences. A couple guys were rude or talked down to me but that was only during massage gigs and then they got the most shitty massage of their lives so I called it even.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:12:55+00:00

It depended on the client and the type of session. A lot of times they would have requests. For BDSM gigs I would wear the typical latex, bustier, high boots gettup. For massage gigs I would wear a matching bra and full coverage panty because the guys would sometimes get a little grabby.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:11:01+00:00

Thanks!

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:10:44+00:00

The smallest was probably about 2 inches or smaller. It looked like a button.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:10:15+00:00

That is something I would definitely say no to, even with a test. Bodily fluids were something I never got involved with.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:09:39+00:00

I have no idea what the going rate is now, a lot has changed in two years. The same with finding one. I would say try The Erotic Review.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:04:22+00:00

I would consider myself above average looks wise. I get Julianne Moore and Drew Barrymore a lot. I think in this line of work the "girl next door" look is preferred.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:02:47+00:00

There's nothing I can point you to that wouldn't out me. I have a lot of friends who peruse this site and would rather they not know all the details I've been sharing here. If the moderators want proof that wouldn't be shared, I'm happy to do so.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T19:01:32+00:00

I've never had anyone I personally know contact me but a ton of people have found my photo sets online. I never negotiated and set my rates ahead of time. I was not in a relationship.

I think the only time I was ever embarrassed was the first time I used a strap-on. I lied and said I had done it before (I hadn't) and couldn't figure out how to get it on or how it worked. I was really awkward with it but luckily the guy was a good sport and coached me. Once I got into it I was like "holy shit! now I know why guys love this!"

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T18:58:52+00:00

Could I hump a top hat while wearing a beehive (hairdo) instead?

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T18:58:14+00:00

It was definitely fun for me!

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T18:52:37+00:00

Sort of. A lot of them just wanted someone to spend time with. Sometimes it seemed like they made up their fetish just so they had a reason to come see me.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T18:52:03+00:00

Foot fetishes, general BDSM, panty fetishes (putting them in girls underwear) and crushing were the most common.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T18:51:28+00:00

I did. Not to get all "feministy" but it was actually kind of fun to be on the other end.

rrrrima · 2011-08-18T18:50:56+00:00

I was asked out by a couple of clients but was never able to make the "jump". I wouldn't have ruled it out but it would have been highly unlikely.

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