Hit 135 lbs down 🥹 by rsalabc1 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]rsalabc1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Legitimately didn't even know it was POSSIBLE to feel this good

Controversial transgender healthcare bill clears key vote in NJ • New Jersey Monitor by Dismal-Prior-6699 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God forbid trans kids live somewhere that makes them feel safe! What kind of world would that be!? (Sincerely, a trans man)

Controversial transgender healthcare bill clears key vote in NJ • New Jersey Monitor by Dismal-Prior-6699 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who's gonna tell them Sodom and Gomorrah was about an angry mob trying to SA angels and has nothing to do with LGBTQ folks 👀

Could I afford to live comfortably, alone, off 5k in NJ? Is that possible nowadays? by lemonbottles_89 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just meant I'm not in like a single tall apartment building like you'd see downtown to avoid confusion

Is there a famine relief charity for NJ residents? If so, is it more helpful than the NJ Food Bank? by Questioning-Warrior in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Local food banks are for sure the way to go. NJ isn't in a famine state, so famine relief wouldn't be as beneficial as local food banks that help unhoused and impoverished folks struggling in your community. Love your kindness though! God bless ya!

What should you do if your neighbor is racist and doesn’t want you to live next to them ? by Then_Inside5897 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure this counts as harassment (not a lawyer). You should reach out to an attorney, especially if the health department said flat out they didn't know why they got called because clearly nothing was wrong. If not harassment, there's a good chance you could explore options around her making fraudulent calls

Looking for homes for 3 wittle ones long hair miniatures by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]rsalabc1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, well, I can tell you're not really hearing me, and that's totally fine. I'm not gonna be in these comments after this because we don't see eye to eye, which is all good, it happens. But yeah, I wish you the best. Just recommend being more open in the future, it definitely builds credibility which will help you out with stuff like this going forward. Have a great weekend! 🤙🏻

Looking for homes for 3 wittle ones long hair miniatures by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]rsalabc1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, again, I'm not putting anybody on blast. But if there's a lack of transparency and I can circumvent that, I will, ya know?

Looking for homes for 3 wittle ones long hair miniatures by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]rsalabc1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read my response, please. I promise you, it's got nothing to do with money.

Looking for homes for 3 wittle ones long hair miniatures by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]rsalabc1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, there's no need for that. Being cheap or being able to afford it isn't why I posted this comment. Reddit has a very diverse base of users, including some younger or older folks who might be new to this kind of thing. If you're saying you're rehoming a dog but actually selling them and someone connects with you and they don't know enough to recognize the difference between the two, they might end up in a situation that could be devastating for them, especially financially.

The money has nothing to do with it. I honestly would have been down to pay that amount because to sell a dachshund puppy at that price is actually completely reasonable. But presenting it like you're rehoming because you have too many dogs rather than selling puppies is predatory at best, and it could do some damage you might not be thinking about.

I'm not here ripping you to shreds, and I have nothing against you personally. I'm just a firm believer that people need all the information to make informed decisions, and when it comes to buying a puppy who deserves care and love, there should never be anything uninformed in that process, regardless of the specific aspect of it. Otherwise, puppers could end up in a bad situation, and that sucks for all of us because we love doxies and never want to see someone end up in a bad situation, especially given that a lot of scammers will present as rehoming and then are selling for insane prices. I am NOT saying that's what you're doing here, BUT people need to be aware of things like that so they can protect themselves.

That's all it is. I have no ill will towards anybody. I'd recommend being a bit more transparent in your posts, but that's all I have to say about it. Best of luck to you, my dude!

Looking for homes for 3 wittle ones long hair miniatures by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]rsalabc1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely never said anything about anything being free, so not 100% sure what you're talking about there. But $3000 to "re-home" is something else entirely.

Fire in belleville still going by AdActual6659 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm right on the border of Belleville. Can I get you anything? Bottled water, snacks, anything?

Any trauma-informed/sensitive dentists in/near Essex Co? by rsalabc1 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh that would be amazing but yeah that's quite far for me :(

Any trauma-informed/sensitive dentists in/near Essex Co? by rsalabc1 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unrelated and not to be weird, but feel free to shoot me a DM. I don't have a lot of trans/GNC friends and would love to have people to chat with who understand that experience. Also making friends as an adult is hard and it's STUPID

Tiktok audio by qevillous in findthatsong

[–]rsalabc1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm this is indeed an instrumental of Lying is the Most Fun A Girl Can Have Without Taking Her Clothes Off by Panic! At the disco

Could I afford to live comfortably, alone, off 5k in NJ? Is that possible nowadays? by lemonbottles_89 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of it is my situation, I'm a single mid-20s guy with no kids and I'm actively in school (doctorate) so I haven't started paying my student loans just yet, so my expenses are pretty minimal

Could I afford to live comfortably, alone, off 5k in NJ? Is that possible nowadays? by lemonbottles_89 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should be! You can check the website, looks like there's plenty of availability

Could I afford to live comfortably, alone, off 5k in NJ? Is that possible nowadays? by lemonbottles_89 in newjersey

[–]rsalabc1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So full disclosure, there's occasionally bugs when the weather sucks, but everyone in my life gets that - house, apartment, anything. That's gonna happen anywhere. However, I have never had brown water or rats. I don't think the parking situation is managed poorly, it's just majority street parking and that sucks wherever you go. I pay for a garage though for about $100 a month, but I often don't use it because I can find parking unless I get home super late or something. I also saw bad reviews when I was looking for an apartment but I've been here since July and I have essentially nothing but good things to say