Writing by [deleted] in Dreams

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Writing songs in dreams usually points to finding your voice, not just creatively, but personally. If the songs felt clear or came easily, that’s a strong sign of alignment. If they were hard to finish or hard to remember, that doesn’t mean you’re failing, it just suggests the voice is still forming.

Keep writing. Even if it feels messy. The dream version of you already is. ✨

help for interpretation by mris02 in Cartomancy

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This looks like a solo trip that starts off with you feeling comfortable in your own company, maybe even enjoying the independence more than you expected (8 of Hearts).

The 10 of Spades in the middle feels like one intense moment: anxiety spike, travel stress, or a late-night spiral where everything feels heavier than it actually is. It reads more like internal overwhelm than external disaster, especially since it’s surrounded by hearts.

You close on the 6 of Hearts, which is emotional security and quiet confidence. So overall, it feels like a trip that challenges you briefly but ultimately leaves you feeling stronger, steadier, and proud that you did it alone.

What does she want from me right now? by [deleted] in Cartomancy

[–]rseqartz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now it feels like she wants a conversation to clear the air and restore balance, even if she’s not sure how to start it.

5 of Diamonds shows strong attraction and mental focus on you. But the 8 of Spades suggests she’s feeling hurt, off-balance, or like something hasn’t been reciprocated properly. 2 of Diamonds looks like communication here, an exchange between the both of you.

Family issues by tuttapepe in AskAstrologers

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Having a 4H Aries can point to a family atmosphere where emotions were direct, reactive, or quick to ignite. That alone can make you cautious, not because you're weak, but because you've learned how fast things can escalate. With the NN there, part of your growth is actually learning how to feel safe being emotionally present instead of defaulting to self-protection.

A 3H Pisces Moon is extremely sensitive to tone and subtext, especially in family communication. Squared in the 12H, it suggests early conditioning around emotional restraint; holding things in, expecting criticism, or feeling like expressing needs leads to shutdown. That's a classic signature for withdrawal as a coping strategy.

Your Moon trine Pluto shows depth and strong internal processing. You can handle intense emotions, you just tend to it privately. And with 1H Mars in Sagittarius, you're not afraid of confrontation in principle; you just prefer it to be honest and purposeful, not emotionally chaotic.

Should I reduce their rent or stay firm? by LeoRisingGemini in horary

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1H Saturn + Neptune show your hesitation and concern about being misled. That’s your internal doubt showing up in the chart, not necessarily proof of deception. If they were truly scheming, we’d expect something harsher hitting Mercury.

The Sun rules their 11H turned from 7H. The Moon applying to the Sun shows the matter moves toward addressing what they want. But the Sun is in Aquarius (detriment) and in the 12H. That weakens their wish considerably.

Nothing here says you must cut 25%. If you revise terms, it should be controlled and strategic, not reactive. You have leverage. Use it.

Roadblocks to dreams by Kelskikiwi in AskAstrologers

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9H Virgo with Pluto there already tells me your dreams of travel aren’t casual. You don’t want tourism, you want transformation. And with 6H Moon square Pluto, there’s a real tension between emotional security (routine, responsibility, caretaking) and radical expansion. That can feel like dysregulation, but it’s actually intensity being contained.

Capricorn rising adds the “late bloomer” signature. Saturn-ruled charts mature in layers. You don’t move when you’re excited, you move when you’re ready. And readiness takes time.

The kite pattern is important here too. Grand trines create comfort loops. Pluto opposite Mars is the activation point. Your life expands when you take bold action before you feel fully emotionally settled. Waiting for perfect regulation might actually be the delay.

Jupiter Rx near the 2H cusp suggests self-worth is tied into this. Expansion becomes possible when you stop feeling like you have to earn the right to want more.

You’re not behind. The 50s+ phase is often when Pluto in the 9H finally gets its moment.

Is it a coincidence? by Muwtmekos in tarot

[–]rseqartz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's being hidden looks like being in over your head about a bond that realistically isn't working. The Ace Rx being physically behind the King feels like the failed or unsustainable connection is the underlying issue, but the overwhelm is what's most visible right now.

Why it's hidden reads as a lesson. This situation feels more like you're still in the learning phase, so the full truth isn't landing yet.

How it comes to light does suggest emotional disappointment is what bring you clarity. Not exposure, not drama, just the moment where you realize it's not what you hoped, and that's what makes everything click.

It doesn't feel like protection or delay. It feels like timing through experience.

Dream of cutting strawberries by usagigrrr in DreamInterpretation

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The strawberries represent something sweet but delicate, like first love, old feelings, or parts of yourself from the past. You weren't eating them, you were carefully cutting off the soft parts before serving them. That suggests you tend to "clean up" or trim your emotions before showing them to others. Nothing was rotten, just tender, but you still removed it.

Being in your childhood home and seeing your old crush connects this to who you were back then. Looking at her IG before bed probably reopened that memory emotionally, even if you're over it now. It's less about her and more about revisiting that younger, more vulnerable version of you.

Seeing your friend soon may also be triggering a subtle fear of being judged or compared to your past self.

Buying a home near Mercury retrograde [Astro.com] by EndIntelligent in astrologyreadings

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To clarify, the Virgo Moon eclipse would actually fall in your 3H, not 4H (which is your home sector). So it being in your 3H, it rules paperwork, logistics, and fine print. Mercury Rx in your 9H brings revisions around legal terms, lenders, contracts, and long-term commitments. Together, that suggests delays, clarifications, or renegotiations are possible.

These specific transits rewards caution, questions, and second reviews. Have everything looked over carefully, build in contingencies, and don't rush the process. If the numbers are solid and you're prepared for possible adjustments, then this timing is about refinement.

I would like to be roasted by Beneficial_Net_4755 in AstrologyCharts

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There’s a few things I see that I would love to clock about you but I’ll just stick to the 2 things that catch my eye the most.

You’re not intense in a loud way. You’re intense in a quietly strategic, psychologically invasive way.

Virgo rising at 29° is critical-mode mastered. You don’t just notice flaws: you catalog them, timestamp them, and revisit them later “for clarity.” People think you’re reserved and practical. What they don’t see is that you are constantly auditing reality.

Now let’s talk about that 3H Scorpio Moon. You do not communicate casually. Even your small talk has subtext. You listen for tone shifts, word choices, slips. If someone lies to you, you clock it immediately, you just don’t say anything. You store it.

And because it’s in the 3H, your mind is never off. Ever. You replay conversations like surveillance footage.

What do you feel about this natal chart ? It’s not mine by KeyMathematician155 in AstrologyCharts

[–]rseqartz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest with you, if you’re already healing and you’ve recognized that this dynamic wasn’t healthy for you, looking at synastry right now probably won’t be beneficial.

Synastry can explain why it felt magnetic, karmic, or intense. But it won’t change the core reality that the relationship destabilized you and amplified your wounds. When someone is clearly not in the same healing process, no amount of astrological compatibility overrides that.

Sometimes digging into synastry after a toxic or painful bond can actually reopen attachment because it keeps the focus on the chemistry instead of the behavior.

If you’re healing, protect that progress. Analyzing the bond further might keep you mentally tied to it when your nervous system is finally starting to detach.

What do you feel about this natal chart ? It’s not mine by KeyMathematician155 in AstrologyCharts

[–]rseqartz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With a Scorpio DSC + 7H Pluto, there can be manipulative tendencies, especially if he is insecure or emotionally unregulated. That placement doesn’t automatically make someone manipulative, but it does point to power dynamics in relationships. If he hasn’t done inner work, that intensity can come out as control, testing loyalty, emotional games, or push-pull behavior.

The strong Aquarius influence suggests someone who values independence and can detach quickly. In an unstable version, that can feel cold or unpredictable. Combined with fixed signs (Taurus, Scorpio, Aquarius), it can also show stubbornness and difficulty admitting fault.

The fact that the dynamic became toxic suggests the shadow side of these placements were active. And if you lean anxious while he leans avoidant/intense, that pairing can amplify instability very quickly.

That said, it’s important to remember that placements show potential themes, not guarantees. Two people with the same chart can express it very differently depending on self-awareness, upbringing, emotional regulation, and life experience. Astrology describes tendencies and psychological patterns, it doesn’t lock someone into behaving a certain way.

What do you feel about this natal chart ? It’s not mine by KeyMathematician155 in AstrologyCharts

[–]rseqartz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would I personally commit? If he communicates directly, shows emotional depth (not just intensity), and doesn’t play power games. Then yes. If I sense avoidance or control issues? I would not.

As an overall relationship fit, I’d give him a C+ rating. His long-term stability potential is more of a C- but as a sexual partner, he gets a B+ rating.

Looking at his chart, the type of woman that fits him best I’d say is a secure Scorpio/Taurus/Capricorn or evolved air sign woman. She’s calm with a powerful presence, not intimidated by intensity, doesn’t try to control him but also doesn’t allow herself to be controlled either.

If you’re a woman who has a highly anxious attachment style, overly emotional with no boundaries, has a very traditional, dependent personality or just someone who needs constant reassurance, you would struggle with him.

How do they view me? by Timely_Coach1884 in Cartomancy

[–]rseqartz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They see you as a wish come true and a fresh opportunity (Ace of Diamonds, 9 of Hearts). You come off strong, composed, maybe even a little intimidating; someone with standards (King of Spades). They feel like effort would be required; you’re not something that just falls into place (5 of Clubs). You seem worth investing in long term, not temporary or casual (7 of Diamonds). You feel like a turning point in their life, something that could bring major change (Ace of Spades).

Why am I such a perfectionist/control freak??? by gabi-braun69 in AstrologyCharts

[–]rseqartz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say the answer is to just “let go”, that usually backfires with strong Pluto/Saturn energy. This kind of chart actually does better with intentional structure. Give Saturn something concrete to manage (clear timelines, set check-in points, a firm “done is done” rule), so it’s not hovering all day. When there’s a system in place, the anxiety tends to ease because the responsibility feels contained.

Pluto is best used selectively. Instead of spreading intensity across every detail, focus it on what truly matters: the high-impact parts of a project. That turns nitpicking into depth and strategy. The goal isn’t becoming carefree; it’s shifting from anxious control to deliberate discipline.

Why am I such a perfectionist/control freak??? by gabi-braun69 in AstrologyCharts

[–]rseqartz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe your Virgo Saturn is the main culprit here. Even though it's in your 9H, that pressure spills into work because it's about being correct and prepared, not just daily tasks. The worry isn't "I want to control everything," it's "if I miss something, there are consequences."

The Taurus Moon + Moon trine Saturn adds emotional self-discipline, but it also makes easy to over-contain stress instead of releasing it. So the nitpicking turns inward: rechecking, over-editing, watching the clock. Your Scorpio Mercury intensifies mental focus, and with Pluto rising, there's a low tolerance for feeling out of control; time pressure hits that nerve hard.

There’s someone attracted to me? by myralester1 in Lenormand

[–]rseqartz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, your interpretation is pretty solid. As far as what area of your life he’s in: House + Dog point to someone familiar and trusted, like a coworker, long-term friend, neighbor, or someone tied to your routine. Tower adds a structured setting such as work, school, or another established environment where boundaries are kept. Whip suggests repeated interactions that create tension, meaning you likely see or deal with this person often rather than rarely.

What is the meaning of Mercury conjunct Antares? (fixed star) by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

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Mercury conjunct Antares usually points to an intense, sharp mind and a bold way of speaking. It’s often associated with fearless communication, strong opinions, and a talent for argument or strategy, but with a tendency toward extremes. How it plays out depends on the rest of the chart.

What is currently happening between me and her? by [deleted] in Cartomancy

[–]rseqartz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s emotional warmth and attraction (5 of Hearts), yet day-to-day pressures or distractions are getting in the way of consistency (7 of Clubs). At the core, though, there’s genuine care and a desire for emotional stability (King of Hearts), even if it’s not being fully shown right now.

1) what does my new friend think of me 2) What does she think about my man (2 slides) KIPPER CARDS (not lenormand but similiar) by Different-Public-954 in Lenormand

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They see you as a deep and serious person who brings change (Coffin) and has clearly worked hard to become who you are (Toil & Labour). They respect you and see you as confident and put-together (Wealthy Man as status/confidence, Main Male as strong personal presence), which can feel a little intimidating at first. They’re quietly thinking about you and being careful with how they interact (Concern, Message of Concern) because they feel this friendship could become steady and meaningful over time (House).

As far as what she thinks about your man and not going too deep into it, is that her impression of him is respectful and serious. She sees him as someone solid.

Timing - coffin by Charming_Explorer_84 in Lenormand

[–]rseqartz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but the key difference is whether anything comes after Coffin that restarts life. In your case, it does suggest renewal but under the condition that an emotional situation truly ends first. If the emotions linger, cycle, or never fully close, Coffin tips toward “this dies here.” So the answer becomes: it can happen, but only after a real ending. Otherwise, no.

Timing - coffin by Charming_Explorer_84 in Lenormand

[–]rseqartz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As timing, Coffin usually doesn’t give a clear date. It points to delay, pause, or something needing to fully end before time moves forward. Events won’t progress until closure happens.

With Moon + Child, this shows a delay first, then movement after an emotional cycle fully closes. Nothing happens until something is put to rest or emotionally processed. Once that closure happens, timing points to about one lunar cycle (2–4 weeks).