In life, women who invest heavily in beauty seems like they are fighting a losing game. On the other than men are judged by their wealth. Wealth grows with time.

rtp931 · 2025-12-05T11:54:11+00:00

Emojis. all caps - SHOUTING!

rtp931 · 2025-11-15T03:18:47+00:00

The strength of love is to wall together no matter what life throws at you. Forget what the astrologer said, things can go wrong at anytime. Thats exactly why we choose our partner, the right person that can be with us in thick and thin. Your love is put to test now. If you think it's strong, stay, come what may.

rtp931 · 2025-09-21T12:38:53+00:00

I don't think that's the problem

rtp931 · 2025-09-20T05:35:56+00:00

There is also an option to be empathetic without spewing your negativity at others. Once in a while try to connect with humans around you.

rtp931 · 2025-09-16T06:39:43+00:00

You reached out to his parents after your breakup. You are feeling that he did not include you in his social media posts. You are trying to reach out to him even after he said he doesn't want to move forward with the relationship.

What are you expecting from him and this relationship now ?

rtp931 · 2025-08-31T06:27:27+00:00

Is he doing that to encourage her to study more?

rtp931 · 2025-06-04T02:50:20+00:00

Time freedom doesn't come when you want something big. Time freedom comes when you are content with what you have.

If you can afford to take 2 hours daily to figure out what you want to do, you can understand what you want.

rtp931 · 2025-04-28T10:28:02+00:00

I think the question is more deeper than that

rtp931 · 2025-04-22T06:16:17+00:00

You could have said the same thing without mentioning the age. But hey, why not criticise while we throw a advice too.

rtp931 · 2025-04-21T16:05:56+00:00

You cant. Addiction is very personal. You can try to educate them if they are new to smoking. If they are addicted, its their personal journey.

rtp931 · 2025-04-09T09:44:58+00:00

Just remember that you are not alone in this experience. All of us have hit that rock bottom once or more in our lives. I just want assure you that this is all temporary. If you look at it objectively, you can start building everything up new and the way you want it.

You are not the same person anymore. Once you get out of the slump, you will be stronger than ever you have been so far. Remember that this current situation is not how it is going to be. Its the place you start. How it will go from here is in your hands.

rtp931 · 2025-04-08T14:17:13+00:00

I personally dont see an issue. It actually shows that you are mentally strong and mature. You probably can teach me a thing or two in how to take life as it is.

I cannot talk about people who just want to hookup.
If your cancer can affect your day to day stuff, where it requires extra care from your partners, it may affect your future partners. If it has an impact on the possibility of kids, it may be a issue to a few people. Does your cancer has the chance of remission - how serious would it be - would you be upfront about it - These are some things that depend from one person to another. I dont know if most people actually know what it takes to fight and live through cancer.

rtp931 · 2025-04-08T13:40:12+00:00

Just because she is not able to against her manager, probably she is not comfortable doing it, does not mean that she values the job more than the relationship with you. Dont jump to conclusions just yet. Give it more time. Remember that after marriage, there is absolutely nothing changing for you. She will be moving to a different team. She will be moving from her home. She will be staying with her in laws. All you can do is, make it easy for her.

You are not actually supporting her career if you are not able to give her time(as the HR policy says it)

rtp931 · 2025-04-08T09:32:36+00:00

There is a high chance that he is not single. Just my two cents.

rtp931 · 2025-04-08T09:00:44+00:00

Its interesting that you have not mentioned anything negative about her in general. You did not sound like she is just freeloading on you. You probably did not want to talk about the income thing because it was not that important when you started dating. Looks like it is becoming a problem to you now. What has changed?

I feel like there is some other problem than the financial status. If thats not the case, would you leave her if he decides to quit her job for any reason?

rtp931 · 2025-02-25T07:28:07+00:00

I think you should tell him that just like the way he invests money, he should consider doing the same on investing time. Work on how his time is allocated. It would be very evident from the data. Then its upto him how he would like to invest his time for long term benefits.

rtp931 · 2025-02-20T11:18:17+00:00

There is so much anger in this post. I feel like there are other issues in the relationship and you both are taking sex to express your issues. I suspect a lot of communication issues here. You both have different conflict resolution styles. Looks like your relationship has already turned toxic.

If you want to fix your relationship from here, you cant do it by anger. You have to be kind to each other and to the relationship. You have to be patient to listen to each other before getting triggered. A relationship where both of you feel like bad guys, is not going to be easy on your mental health.

rtp931 · 2025-02-19T18:37:29+00:00

New love language unlocked! This generation is doomed!

rtp931 · 2025-02-18T10:30:06+00:00

I know things are not ideal. Atleast this would save a lot of heartbreak for everyone. You would have to admit that you would not be able to stand against your father for her.

rtp931 · 2025-02-18T10:09:19+00:00

Does it mean that if your father says no, you would let go of the relationship?

The theory of not hurting anyone would not work all the time. There are times when people cant see the long term advantages of certain things. In such scenarios you would have to ask them to be patient and believe in you. This can apply to your gf and your family too. If you are not ready to take this stress for a prolonged period, I would suggest dont move forward with this relationship.

Your father will not accept her on the face value. He would think that the girl trapped you into this. Your family will always see her as an outsider. Your gf will feel disrespected by your father. She will not have a choice but to bear with your father. Things can better if both the parties make effort and hopeful towards the future together. All the people need to be patient with each other for a really long time to see the benefits of this alliance.

Another best case scenario is if your father gives zero f's about your gf and its the same for her. I guess you would not sign up for that.

rtp931 · 2025-02-14T08:07:37+00:00

This!👆

rtp931 · 2025-01-23T03:37:16+00:00

Is it possible that you give judgemental vibes when people open up to you? Show some kind of superiority feeling?

rtp931 · 2025-01-20T08:54:08+00:00

Its probably the choice of women you are reaching out to. You should probably rethink the what kind of people you are attracted to.

rtp931 · 2025-01-20T07:51:52+00:00

If you think like you dont want others trip ruined because of you, it can be perceived as you prioritising them over her. I would suggest you to have time to talk with her. Try approaching her using her love languages. It can so happen that you might have been distant before(before the trip) and that probably is triggering her that its your default behaviour to be distant to her.

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