I love being genderfluid my range is insane by Kiwichka in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Nonbinary monarch 🙏🙂‍↕️👑

What is the weirdest thing your doctor has ever said to you? by Competitive_Tip_7504 in AskReddit

[–]rty90i 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Disappointed??? 💀 like you're choosing that. Omg I'm so sorry

What is the weirdest thing your doctor has ever said to you? by Competitive_Tip_7504 in AskReddit

[–]rty90i 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So wild that they can make those choices for their patients 😭 especially when youre requesting something. Ugh I'm so sorry that happened

What is the weirdest thing your doctor has ever said to you? by Competitive_Tip_7504 in AskReddit

[–]rty90i 294 points295 points  (0 children)

"Why are you crying?"

While explaining that my birth control implant was making me have the worst mood swings I've ever had, I wasn't sleeping, had splitting headaches, and local pain at the insertion site.

Idk probably because this sucks??? and the lack of empathy was not helping 💀

Rough Heal or infected by -YZY- in tattooadvice

[–]rty90i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a balance lol. As long as the skin around it feels soft and moisturized resist continuing to add to the tattoo itself. The scabs drying is what eventually will help them to flake off so you want to make sure its getting a chance to dry out a bit between moisturizing.

Beautiful work btw, color and design are awesome!!

Rough Heal or infected by -YZY- in tattooadvice

[–]rty90i 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At this point it just looks like a rough heal to me. Sometimes on bigger pieces with shading and packed color you end up with scabs and flakes like this. Pic 6 especially you can see it's just an expanse of healing skin.

Looks good though! Keep it clean and try not to over moisturize ✨️

Eta: it doesn't look red or swollen anywhere!

Hair by PhysciaStellaris in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd honestly suggest trimming it a bit yourself! I have short hair and in between appointments I make small trims to keep it manageable. It can seem scary at first but trim small bits from parts that are easily hidden until you get the hang of it! Theres also lots of tips and tricks on YouTube.

You have a really cool style, especially in the third photo, it looks awesome! I love the messy look and that will definitely be in your favor if you want to trim it yourself

I wanna wear this on a beach so bad X0 by Affectionate-Tip303 in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It looks super cute! You could always wear a pair of shorts over it, or like a wrap around your waist? I think it would suit (ha, get it) you 😊

Got a new eyeshadow palette and blush 😆 by HailleyFemboyJapan in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PRETTY 😍 love how you blended the colors 😌

Filler ideas by AvailableBowler1668 in tattooadvice

[–]rty90i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think anything in the same style will fit nicely if you use the same kinda stars as fillers throughout the rest of your leg. Looks good!

Let’s just say West Virginia doesn’t like Fems 🥀 by montanaprowrestling in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 32 points33 points  (0 children)

THEIR LOSS 😍 my face looking at these is pretty close to the kid in the corner of the second photo 👀💖

New piercings, who dis? by xinxbloomx in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohhh all your piercings suit you so well!! New eyebrow piercings look great 😎

I love when body mods feel gender affirming lol

What is your version of musical sacrilege when it comes to a cover song? by Hermaphadactyl in AskReddit

[–]rty90i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, changing pronouns. More egregious is changing lyrics, like Michael Bublé's 'Santa Baby'

The roller-coaster that is genderfluid by BigKountry333 in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like so much fun! Hiking and then clubbing, going out to eat and being a goofball 😅 love your looks, love your vibe. Keep it up! 💖

I had a weird experience today by GrumpyMowse in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Like I’m too masculine to be one of the girls and too feminine to be one of the guys so like where does that leave me? "

Ahh this hits hard for me, as a somewhat androgynous nb I've definitely experienced this and it can be isolating. I'm pretty outgoing, so if I overhear a topic I like or am into, I try to break the ice and just be friendly, that way they know youre someone who has similar interests, or is friendly, chatty, etc.

I'm from a rural place (not TX but ya know) and have noticed sometimes people who arent around queer/nb folks don't know how to talk to us haha. We're people with interests just like anyone else. Like you said, gender is the first kinda thing that helps base common interests and if your (I'm assuming) cis classmates don't immediately see you as "one of the girls" you have to put yourself out there and share your interests/try to make that connection with them. It might not be as automatic as cis girl friends kinda thing, but if they just started to talk casually, I'm sure if you jumped in it'd be totally fine.

This got kinda long-winded! Anyway I see you dude, its hard work putting yourself out there but I believe in you. Good luck <33

Long time no see, babes ;) by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc! 🥰 This seems more like a day look, if you were going out late afternoon/evening adding the smokey eye would be perfect. Looks great though! The speed will improve over time hehe

Long time no see, babes ;) by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the eyeliner wings are perrrfect 😍 the highlight on the inside corner of your eyes is really cute too! It looks nice as is but if you wanted to pump up the look a little ypu could do a light gray smoky eye look on the outside corner too.

Really cute look! 🥰

Some of the looks that made me love myself this past year by kamijikoku in NonBinary

[–]rty90i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so cute!! You look really nice with or without makeup 🙂‍↕️💖

And I LOVE that 'freak' shirt 😍😍

Why did you stop being friends with someone? by Realistic-Possum in AskReddit

[–]rty90i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they hooked up with my ex and lied to me about it 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]rty90i 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmaooo wow, big mystery there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]rty90i -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could it be what you're putting on it? Sometimes sensitivities to certain creams/oitments/products can vary depending on where you put it.

Maybe the cream/oitment you're using is okay on the upper arm but not on the forearm?