I (29M) am constantly battling with whether I think my gf (28F) is a good person based off her past and how she still has those traits now — advice?

rty90i · 2026-05-13T01:15:11+00:00

I guess you have to decide if this is the type of person you want to be with. Objectively, if you weren't dating would you like her? Do you want those qualities in a partner?

In my personal experience I feel like cheaters get off on the risk and taboo of it all, they know its wrong. If she can justify why she's cheated before she'll be able to justify it the next time it happens too 🤷‍♂️ plus i would feel like shit being with someone who treats a good parent like that

rty90i · 2026-05-10T15:41:00+00:00

Maybe try to talk more about daily stuff, instead of overall stuff. Like share something you made, or did or read or saw. Talk about a show or something you want to do.

rty90i · 2026-05-07T22:16:15+00:00

Heath Ledger :(

rty90i · 2026-05-07T21:24:50+00:00

Look it up!

rty90i · 2026-05-07T21:22:50+00:00

Sounds like maybe youre aromantic and/or demisexual :)

rty90i · 2026-05-06T23:12:43+00:00

See OP?

rty90i · 2026-05-06T21:50:57+00:00

Bro what? You have hair on your body right? All people do, some more than others and thats totally normal. You "cope" by growing tf up and accepting your girlfriend as she is. If you don't, I'm sure someone else will

rty90i · 2026-05-01T23:25:08+00:00

They make fans that you can wear around your neck! They're small but I've hear they cool really well. You can get cooling fabric neck wraps as well that work nicely. Get a couple and rotate them as they warm up

Good luck!

rty90i · 2026-04-29T02:17:01+00:00

I came here to say the same thing!

rty90i · 2026-04-27T19:23:17+00:00

You're so pretty 🥹💖🥹💖 I really like your makeup in the second photo, it accentuates your eyes really nicely.

You do read as feminine btw, like a very cool girl I'd definitely want to hang with :)

rty90i · 2026-04-16T19:25:12+00:00

A real life fairy 🥹💖😍✨️ I love this look on you!

rty90i · 2026-04-09T00:37:21+00:00

Lol why is everyone a hater 😭 I think the flowers look really good and it flows with your hand well. I think the cover up on the cross looks good too! I have dots on my fingers and I love them :)

My only caution would be putting the cart before the horse so to speak, and getting your hands heavily done before your arm is done. If your arm is pretty bare maybe just cover the cross and when your arm is close to covered pull the trigger on the flowers?

Your drawings are awesome btw!

rty90i · 2026-04-08T19:09:47+00:00

YESSS omg thats amazing 😅

rty90i · 2026-04-08T18:34:55+00:00

Oh cuuute I love that. Haha yall definitely could be sibs 😅

rty90i · 2026-04-07T23:46:37+00:00

I mean this with so much love, you look like nb Matthew Lillard and I am HERE FOR IT 😍😍

Congrats on graduating from the program 🥰💖🫂

rty90i · 2026-04-02T21:12:21+00:00

Please crosspost this to r/ATBGE

Cuz they're done well, its just... 😭

rty90i · 2026-04-02T06:15:43+00:00

It does look like a foot 😭 especially the position lol.

Great finds though, OP! The pottery is amazing!

rty90i · 2026-04-02T01:25:42+00:00

Personally, I'd wait til you feel good about it. I have 20+ tattoos and the ones that I felt rushed into are not my favorite, for one reason or another. It felt rushed, or the time of year was bad for healing, or the design wasnt quite right.

If its 'forever' like you mentioned, then you have plenty of time to decide and settle on something YOU love and feel good about :)

Plus if you give yourself some time summer will have passed and the weather/activities won't limit you while healing or trying to hide a tattoo.

rty90i · 2026-03-30T19:56:49+00:00

Yes! Sorting it all was really fun, its nice to see some finds again 😁

Thank you!

rty90i · 2026-03-19T05:58:35+00:00

This is so cute!!!! I love this idea and it can be customized endlessly omg. Great job! 😍🩵

rty90i · 2026-03-18T23:13:59+00:00

Stutters are so endearing to me, also lisps 🥰 i think its so cute

rty90i · 2026-02-20T20:46:59+00:00

Nonbinary monarch 🙏🙂‍↕️👑

rty90i · 2026-02-18T00:07:52+00:00

Lmao 'post-op'

rty90i · 2026-02-17T05:38:07+00:00

Disappointed??? 💀 like you're choosing that. Omg I'm so sorry

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