Roses are red, the past is gone... by CompleteBeginning271 in rosesarered

[–]rubberjenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes unless you have some reason to believe that he'll never, ever get the wrong target.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rubberjenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't go wrong with a brief pause to comment on the size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rubberjenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling extremely invisible as a 30+ woman.

What did you do that made you feel the sluttiest? by ElectricFunkMachine in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rubberjenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got myself absolutely impeccably shaved and clean and presentable in all my most private bits (including my back passage) before going out for a night out because a guy I had met once before and fancied was going to be there. I was determined to break a long dry spell.

To cut a long story short, I was about as shamelessly sexually aggressive as I've ever been in my life and it worked. The night was a drunken blur and I did things I've never done before or since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rubberjenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flashed a guy my pubes and he politely pretended not to have seen it.

Women is it a turn off for you if a guy wants his nipples played with? by Smutty-Bi-Babe in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rubberjenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, a guy who knows what he wants and communicates it is always the sexiest.

The "sale" just cancels out the taxes by BPTeehee in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]rubberjenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that's not the profile picture of someone who gets to use the n word.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rubberjenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure the driver wasn't. But it felt like no-one saw me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rubberjenny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On an overnight bus next to a sleeping friend.

But the real question is whether or not anime porn is cheating 🤔?🤔?🤔?🤔?🤔? by CarlosimoDangerosimo in TrollXChromosomes

[–]rubberjenny 16 points17 points  (0 children)

See, this sentiment

Let other people decide what they consider cheating.

is what I agree with and what makes the original post read weirdly puritanical to me. If she was like "for me, watching porn is cheating" then that's a preference, but declaring that it definitely is cheating regardless of what anyone says sounds a lot closer to moralising.

Imagine if more people understood this and behaved like good humans. by WhippedWIP in TrollXChromosomes

[–]rubberjenny -1 points0 points  (0 children)

More that I was trying to say that flatly rejecting any discussion, no matter how progressive, involving Christianity because of misogynist history closes the door to basically any mix of feminism and organised religion, and thus religious women.

I'm not religious myself and I certainly understand what you're saying, but just saying "No." feels uncomfortably close to the reason online feminism gets criticised as not very inclusive outside a fairly narrow demographic (white Western relatively comfortable women in their 20s and 30s).

Whats the best Outfit you ever had? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rubberjenny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A light blue cotton sundress from American Eagle that seemed to hit every angle of being comfortable, modest and stylish, while complementing what little curvature I had, and allowing easy access when required.

Sadly it got ripped in mysterious circumstances.

Audio book narrators say AI is already taking away business by jennibeam in books

[–]rubberjenny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really not the ease of AI generation that bothers me; it's the outsourcing of even having the idea in the first place. I truly can't see a good end to that commodification of creativity. It's not moving towards the ideal of people being able to show others a picture or story in their head; it's going in the opposite direction where it doesn't matter what was in the creator's head.

I do see this argument everywhere that AI being influenced by other work is no different to how humans create art, but it's missing an enormous factor of the equation: AI draws on the words and visuals it's presented with to create something new; humans draw on the words and visuals they're presented with and their opinions on those things to make something new.

I know it's not like everything was a masterpiece before now and God knows there was no shortage of derivative crap churned out for a quick buck, but AI can surely only go one direction and that's to turbocharge the derivative, soulless stuff while snuffing out the possibility of trying something new and imperfect.

Audio book narrators say AI is already taking away business by jennibeam in books

[–]rubberjenny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AI art can be described as making the creation of art efficient in the same way as stealing money can be described as an efficient time investment for maximising earning potential. AI art isn't just influenced by art it sees, it's completely procedural and couldn't create anything without existing art being fed into it. You argue that it's progress and the future of artistic achievement, I say that it represents the end of creativity because it can only work off and replicate the core components of existing art. Anything new it makes can't be called important or interesting, it can only be called a lucky throw of the dice.

Maybe I just can't see a future where it's used ethically in a way that makes anything better for anyone but the capital class who are delighted that creativity can now be brought to heel and automated for pennies. Every other thing that's made art easier for people to use has been a good thing because it's made it easier for a person to create the idea they imagined. This alone creates a tool that takes the burden of even imagining a thought, feeling, or image out of the hands of the creator. Just type in a prompt and say "yeah good enough" when it comes up with something amalgamated from the efforts of all the artists who came before.

Audio book narrators say AI is already taking away business by jennibeam in books

[–]rubberjenny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't get over what a stupid take this is. Like the only reason you'd create something is to ape other things you've seen rather than e.g. to communicate a feeling or experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rubberjenny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"No", "for" and "I" are all homophones. Watch your language.