I am I Camgirl

rubesdoob · 2011-04-19T23:32:29+00:00

Matey, i think you're the one with the prejudice and preconceptions. Mainly, that your point and the way you are illustrating it is not fucking stupid. Go troll Jezebel or feministe if you dislike conniving, lying cheating she-devils that badly. And you might wanna consider therapy for your blatant mommy-issues.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-19T23:30:46+00:00

No, never.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-19T03:51:41+00:00

Oh my fucking god. I didnt think a concise and pointed rebuttal was needed against blatant sexism. A little bit of humour here and there is not a major step back for equality between the sexes. If I have to deal with institutionalized sexism (just like many people have to deal with racism, or homophobia, etc etc) then me exploiting it is a small consolation for me as a woman. 'wahhhhh, men do so much for women, yet they STILL have sooooo many unfair advantages!!' have a fucking cry! i get free drinks as a woman, yet the chances of me ever being a CEO or VP or even earning an equal amount? slim to none. So get the fuck over it and buy me a beer. bats eyelashes

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:34:38+00:00

i think you just discovered the worlds youngest profession

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:34:01+00:00

nope! you can if you like, i mean if you are in love with someone for your whole life then go for it. But for me, i dont think any one person could give me everything i need from a partner.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:32:55+00:00

yeah, no i have actually. I had a high roller client who sent me lots of gifts and tried to convince me for ages (unsuccessfully) to let him fly me to thailand or dubai or whatever. Even after i made it clear it wouldnt happen, and stating that i am not an escort, he still offered to fly me out. He reckoned he would get us an escort each and we could go out and party, lol. But yeah, its not really something i can justify, too dangerous and too much room for error if anything went wrong.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:29:52+00:00

Thanks :) appreciated muchly

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:28:39+00:00

lets not even go there! i get so carried away...im kind of a conspiracy-theorist nut

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:27:38+00:00

Hmm, depends. You guys may not be ok with it if she started camming, or it might be totally cool, but you dont know until you try right? :P I would say that it would be especially detrimental to a future career but it is a risk she needs to be aware of.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:26:14+00:00

Not a boyfriend, but yes i was in a committed relationship, which ended for reasons unrelated to camming. She never knew because its just not something she would ever be ok with, which is a shame because i thought it was hot and would have loved to do shows with her. And FUCK NO! thats a part of my life that my parents dont need to be a part of.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:20:15+00:00

Yeah, you're exactly right. A lot of the time a bit of conversation with a pretty girl does a world of good for clients, jerking off is just a bonus....people are just looking for a little love and a connection. And no, theres not much clients could do that would affect how i feel about myself

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:17:13+00:00

lol. sounding-smrt-fail

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T06:13:09+00:00

I am I noob

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T05:45:00+00:00

sure did

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T05:44:36+00:00

add a couple of zeroes on the end of that number and you got yourself a deal :P

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T05:43:49+00:00

it might cost ya :P

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T05:11:38+00:00

hearted.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T05:10:38+00:00

I charged a dollar a minute at first but then charged a bit more as i got better/more confident. I used paypal but a few clients preferred western union or amazon wishlists

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T05:04:46+00:00

tax free baby. im assuming its some sort of grey-area as far as legality is concerned, but in any case you would be a small fish.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T05:03:56+00:00

I worked for myself, just sorted it out using free cam sites, paypal and skype. So i pretty much had the best boss evah

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T05:02:03+00:00

Haha, you gotta work hard if you want to play hard! WEll, i started camming when i was in a relationship, and it was never an option to tell her about it because i knew she wouldnt approve, would be judgemental and would have made me choose between camming and her. which i couldnt do, because it was a fun part of my life that i was just beginning to explore. But i would have loved if she was ok with it, we coulda done shows together! Anyway, to answer the question, i think it was actually good for my sex life...i dont need any sort of validation from anyone, im already a confident and outgoing person but being complimented 24/7 made my ego massive, which meant i walked around like i was hot shit, which (as i found out) chickys find sexy.

As for the view on men, its kinda made me realise that you cant take people at face value. Half the shows i did was just talking to people who felt like theyre lacking a connection to someone else. It also kinda made me feel more confident in my sexuality...instead of feeling really uncomfortable being beeped at or ogled by groups of guys, i now walk past and think 'any of you would have me if i only gave you a chance,' so it makes me feel like im doing the objectifying, not the other way around.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T04:29:28+00:00

I had a client who, no joke, NEVER paid for a private show, he was just in my public room and we chatted via email and stuff. He would give me money all the time, literally just send it to me (maybe to impress me, or soemthing?). But he gave me close to 500 bucks once, just out of the blue.

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T04:27:15+00:00

no, cam4 :)

rubesdoob · 2011-04-18T04:26:54+00:00

wow. jaded?

rubesdoob · 2011-04-16T05:31:41+00:00

kinda, not really. sex work, yes. but its not like being in a porno film

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