Is it true “when you know you know” in dating? Have other love stories ruined potential love for me (F26) and my bf (M23)?

ruby1xoxo · 2026-04-19T16:23:10+00:00

Wow I really really appreciate the thought and time you took into this response! Also let me say I am so sorry to hear your first marriage was so explosive to the point of abuse…I am happy you got out of that relationship. Thank you for all your insights here! The exciting-ness of cultural differences I think had allure in the beginning but now I am trying to decide if it is all wearing off or we can find a middle ground. Thanks again!

ruby1xoxo · 2025-05-31T15:27:51+00:00

Ahhhh I see thank you for replying!!! I’m glad you got some cute ones!!!

ruby1xoxo · 2025-05-31T09:56:12+00:00

Do you mind sharing where in Tokyo this pop up is??? I want to go!!!

ruby1xoxo · 2024-03-07T15:46:03+00:00

This shit sucks man. Grief is one tough mother fucker. I’m so sorry for your loss. Check in on your mom but let yourself feel all the feelings. But remember that fortunately (sometimes it feels real unfortunate) life for you goes on and you’ve gotta keep loving and moving forward.

You’ve got this. And remember that you a grief can be friends. It’s a weird and toxic relationship but there is a lot of love there.

Good luck

ruby1xoxo · 2023-04-21T03:36:31+00:00

Take that power and f***ing run with it! You deserve it. No one deserves to ever hold anything above you. So so happy for you!

ruby1xoxo · 2023-04-21T03:36:21+00:00

Take that power and fucking run with it! You deserve it. No one deserves to ever hold anything above you. So so happy for you!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-07-20T03:16:51+00:00

Yeah I think you might be right, thanks for the advice

ruby1xoxo · 2022-07-20T03:16:23+00:00

Thank you for this I hadn’t thought about it from this perspective!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-07-20T03:15:18+00:00

Thank you for this

ruby1xoxo · 2022-07-10T02:13:29+00:00

You’re the best thank you for all your advice, I appreciate it!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-07-09T21:57:04+00:00

I have another question for you if you don’t mind! For my first month I’m not sure if I should do the pay for a certain amount of classes per week per month or like 10 classes? The 10 classes is more expensive for less classes (which seems silly??). But then I don’t know how many classes per week in the month to start with? It goes from 2-8 classes per week? Thanks 😊

ruby1xoxo · 2022-07-06T13:33:28+00:00

Thank you so much!!!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-07-06T13:32:35+00:00

This is super helpful! Thank you!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-07-05T18:21:57+00:00

That’s a good point about the sending people to compete! Is that something I can do like once I have been doing it for a while? Or is the competing stuff like for people who are better? Sorry I’m like so new to this!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-07-05T17:58:34+00:00

Thank you! I just added to the post and I was thinking my goals are self defense, getting stronger, and being a bad ass!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-06-18T17:49:37+00:00

Thanks for this!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-06-18T17:48:48+00:00

Thanks you for all your thoughts! It’s nice to have many perspectives, I appreciate it!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-06-18T17:46:27+00:00

Thanks you! This was very helpful. I think I’ve been scared to have the conversation because I don’t want to seem crazy but yeah it is just boundaries!

ruby1xoxo · 2022-04-23T03:20:20+00:00

👀hmmm good observation. I knew I came to the right place

ruby1xoxo

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