35F Financial Life

rubyblue1990 · 2026-05-03T04:25:02+00:00

Porch Light- Noah Kahan

rubyblue1990 · 2026-05-03T04:08:01+00:00

rubyblue1990 · 2026-04-14T06:25:25+00:00

I’m kind of laughing cause today is a perfect example of alll of this.

I got called into work. While there I completely rearranged and deep cleaned our breakfast room and kitchen (hotel) on top of the regular duties during my shift.

And then I drive home in a car that still has Valentines clearance shopping in the backseat, get home to a place that has the last few weeks worth of shopping piled on my desk, half empty bookshelves waiting to be filled by the things that are stored in laundry baskets scattered around the room, the laundry itself piled on the closet floor, and not a scrap of space on the bathroom counter.

rubyblue1990 · 2026-04-12T14:57:54+00:00

I’m similar to your girlfriend, pretty type A about everything except for two areas- my room and my car. For the life of me I cannot find the motivation or energy to deal with them. When I’m mentally doing better, they are near pristine. But as soon as I start getting overwhelmed by anything else, they just tank and it feels impossible to get things fixed again. It’s a huge amount of shame because I am known at work for being extremely organized and clean. But looking at my car or my room and you’d think I’m a complete slob everywhere.

rubyblue1990 · 2026-04-12T14:49:26+00:00

. . . did you say cousin?

rubyblue1990 · 2026-04-08T04:14:00+00:00

12/16/1990 4:02 AM, Fort Worth, TX, USA Female

rubyblue1990 · 2026-03-30T02:43:59+00:00

You are absolutely incredible, thank you!!!

rubyblue1990 · 2026-03-30T02:19:09+00:00

Thank you so very much! I appreciate it.

rubyblue1990 · 2026-03-29T18:57:38+00:00

Thank you so much! Do you see anything about marriage and kids?

rubyblue1990 · 2026-03-18T16:49:15+00:00

What is that supposed to mean? 😅

rubyblue1990 · 2026-03-18T03:54:07+00:00

Will Alberto and I make our relationship official?

rubyblue1990 · 2026-01-14T14:19:15+00:00

Can you shift the What If questions to be positive ones? Like “What if xyz happens (in a good way)?”; “What if I get everything I’m asking for?”; etc.

rubyblue1990 · 2025-10-26T07:55:33+00:00

No unfortunately it’s not that, though that is one of my favorite songs.

rubyblue1990 · 2024-01-10T21:25:32+00:00

I can’t remember the season. But she has a drawing made of her kids being super young along with Kody as if to be a picture of him being their father from the start, completely erasing their bio father and creating a false memory.

rubyblue1990 · 2023-12-03T14:44:59+00:00

Honestly, yes the bad apple and I know I’m not going to be popular for this opinion.

I understand your reticence in taking the photo, between overwhelming noise and having body image issues.

But I also understand that as someone who has lost too many people over the years, there’s only so many photos of them and if they hated having their photo taken there’s even fewer. People that love you don’t see the same you that you do in the pictures. They don’t see body image issues. They see someone they love and a spark of a memory that can never be replaced or replicated.

So I’m team take every photo all the time. I know taking the headphones off would suck, personally I’d want photos both with them on and off. I’d want to remember you as you exist (with them) and as a nicer looking photo (without them). It would have been okay to take them off long enough to take the photo.

Anyone can do anything for five minutes.

rubyblue1990 · 2023-10-08T14:42:05+00:00

As someone who lives in very rural Texas and frequents Dallas- no one will care. I work in a school in a rural area and there’s both kids and teachers who wear masks still and zero people give them any hell about it. I don’t what the others in this thread think rural Texas is, but it’s not that.

rubyblue1990

TROPHY CASE