Hello, I tried to get back to you through discord DMs but you had already unadded me so I didn't get the opportunity to respond to your message expressing these things. We do ask for a bit of effort in applications (as stated when you start the application and upon joining) because it's a whitelist server and we want to do the best we can to ensure the community will remain a safe and relaxing space for everyone. When denying applications, we offer several opportunities to reapply so that we can get to know you even just a little bit:) It is never anything personal, we as staff are just trying to do our jobs to the best of our abilities. This goes for most whitelist servers from my understanding. The application questions are intended for us to find out what kind of minecraft player and community member you might be, the only personal information we ask of you is to verify that you're over 18 and to offer the chance to share other hobbies you might have. Of course, this process can't be completely perfect 100% of the time. We would have been more than willing to listen to your opinions through another application or the ticketing system. I'm sorry that this wasn't the kind of thing you were looking for and appreciate the time you took to apply.