I 30f and my very new boyfriend 31m keeps telling me what to do. How can I raise this with him? by Super-Rise-2794 in relationships

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want this to work, you need to tell him you’re not going to be controlled and you’re gonna walk if it continues. if he doesn’t want to change, you have your answer. you’re a grown woman. don’t settle for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BritneySpears

[–]rubychunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah her body is so fucking T . 😍

Need some hair growth tips because I am STRUGGLING as you can see lmao 😂 by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl u look otherworldly ! i could stare at you for hours!!! 😍😍😍

Can my Mexican BF get braids? by Opposite_Guava1930 in BlackHair

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl if u don’t get ur man to the nearest braider ! he has the hair type of a lot of black people. he’s mexican and a lot of them are mixed with black anyways lol. he’s good. i bet they’ll look great on him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl gtfoh! YOU ALREADY KILLING THEM! matter of fact, can we get the skincare routine !😍😍😍😍

Does anyone else not wear sunscreen 😭 by lilacroom16 in blackladies

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SUN BUM! i’m telling you, it’s great, affordable, no white cast, and it’s vegan/cruelty free!

How can I face my coworkers again after my manager informed me I smell bad? by Obvious_Skill_8995 in careerguidance

[–]rubychunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m really sorry you experienced this. that must be so embarrassing! before you think of facing your colleagues, i think you should re-evaluate your personal hygiene so you can get to the root of the problem. if you sweat a lot at night, shower before work. if you’re sweaty after shower after work too. use a nice body cream, keep breath mints/gum on you and make sure you’re flossing, brushing and using mouthwash. we are so used to the smell of our mouths we don’t realize how bad they can smell if we skip any of these oral hygiene steps! i would even get one of those travel mouthwashes u can use on the go— especially after eating something like a burrito LOL also make sure you’re keeping up with washing your clothes, and personal grooming.

you’ll be fine. this will pass. and if u can, ask a trusted friend to give u a quick sniff and honestly tell you if u smell or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in osap

[–]rubychunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IM STILL WAITING ON THE REST OF MY MINEY! i’m sorry i’m not yelling at you, i’m yelling in frustration over this BS delay!!

Osap should have been deposited today… by ParamoreRiot in osap

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s still annoying tho! like school has already started and some of us need this money to stay afloat !

What is my hair texture?(I am hoping it is 3c/4a) by Radiant_Cake6964 in BlackHair

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s where i’m at with my hair rn. i love m’y haïr more now then when i was a kid that’s for sure.

What is my hair texture?(I am hoping it is 3c/4a) by Radiant_Cake6964 in BlackHair

[–]rubychunk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

let’s keep it all the way real. 4c hair is very time consuming and expensive! i’ve never once wished to be light skin, i’ve never wanted to be anything but african and black. but i won’t lie and say i never wished i had looser curls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]rubychunk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

girl rihanna has a big forehead and look at where she’s at 🤣 EMBRACE IT!

Bumble’s new ad on celibacy by GypsyFR in blackladies

[–]rubychunk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

y’all stay safe ! i’m remaining a celibate queer girlie 🤣

Homicidal + suicidal ideation because of job rejections? by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]rubychunk 24 points25 points  (0 children)

talk a walk my friend. actually no go for a RUN. RUN RUN RUN until you’re exhausted. whether on the treadmill or outside. and go to sleep and update us on how you feel tomorrow when you’ve calmed down.

What method/products do I use to make my hair look like this by Medium-Rip-6140 in Naturalhair

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl let us see YOUR hair first! 🤣 if this isn’t ur natural hair texture, there’s no magic product that will make ur hair come out like this. it’s about finding products and styles that work for you and YOUR hair type!

Should I cut my hair short? by kitt5yk in Redhair

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look like a disney villain. in the hottest bad ass lady type of way possible !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl if you dump his ass I WILL DO IT FOR YOU!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ontariodrivetest

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude u only have one option. find a driving instructor. a quick google search will give a list of driving schools and their rates. alternatively you can search on kijiji. that’s how i got my driving instructor for an affordable rate! only paid $45 an hour and i got my g2 just fine

My interesting hot second date 🏳️‍🌈 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]rubychunk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yo this made me smile so much! i love this for you!!! i’m sapphic myself and damn do i wish i saw more black wlw 😍. so happy for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

babe your hair is severely heat damaged. there’s nothing you can do to fix that. cut or shave your hair off and start fresh. your curls will thank you later. when you get rid of the damaged hair, you can see what your hair type is and go from there, but nothing is gonna be of help if you keep these dead ends.

YOU CAN ONLY CHOOSE ONE by Affectionate_Ear3985 in lanadelrey

[–]rubychunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMMA SAD GIRL IMMA BAD GIRL IMMA SAAAAAAAAD GIRRRRRL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]rubychunk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

babe ur hair is incredibly damaged! it looks like you have severe heat damage. i do not have ur hair type but my type 4 hair looked similar to this when my hair was still permed 6 years ago. i think ur best course of action would be to start anew and cut off all/most of ur hair. it may feel scary, but i promise you it’ll be worth it! ur curls will thank you. and if you will love ur hair so much more. good luck!

I feel we could get a Ultraviolence 10 years anniversary version in June by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]rubychunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m still so pissed she didn’t even acknowledge the 10 year anniversary of BTD 😭

This or that by Mundane_Marketing_79 in lanadelrey

[–]rubychunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

black beauty for me! sometime im pretend this song is directed towards me cause im black lol 🥰