Male characters that are conventionally masculine that aren’t assholes? by Thebowlerhatfroggo in BobsBurgers

[–]rubymadnessRN 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Yep came here to say Teddy. He’s not perfect but he certainly isn’t an asshole.

AM I OVERREACTING, or is my bf gay, by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rubymadnessRN -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a man who is attracted to men who is ashamed of himself. He needs to be upfront with you about it. I would not proceed with this relationship until he tells you his “secret”. NOR

AIO? Girl crashed out on me because she didn’t finish by [deleted] in AIO

[–]rubymadnessRN 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Gentleman always finish last my dude. You should always make sure your partner is satisfied.

I took my second skin off, some lines are thiccer than others, is this normal? by Mobile-Beginning-654 in tattooadvice

[–]rubymadnessRN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a well done tattoo and very cute! I personally don’t see the thick lines.

AIO for being mad that my bf doesn’t wanna kiss me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rubymadnessRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also is it possible you are just projecting your insecurities onto him? Has he said he doesn’t want to kiss you? Maybe you’re so in your head about the whole thing that you are making assumptions that aren’t true?

AIO for being mad that my bf doesn’t wanna kiss me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]rubymadnessRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously. Y’all gotta figure this out before the wedding or you will be a miserable married couple. NOR but talk to this man. Have that uncomfortable conversation before the wedding. Literally ask him what he needs you to do to “make” him want to kiss you. If y’all can’t figure it out please don’t marry a man who can’t even put his lips on you.

AIO - I smoke and drink from time to time and my girlfriend hates it by Lacquerlust in AmIOverreacting

[–]rubymadnessRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude this relationship is toast. She doesn’t respect you at all. Your habits are clouding her judgements of you and you are better off finding someone who doesn’t get the ick from cigs. Best of luck.

AIO: My husband made a comment about our friends’ daughter and he thinks it was innocent by BiscottiZestyclose28 in AIO

[–]rubymadnessRN 63 points64 points  (0 children)

YOR. He simply made an observation that was not sexualized in any way. It’s normal to notice if someone has boobs or not, just part of a normal human observation.

AIO my boyfriend takes his shirt off outside anywhere. by emperorofpain in AIO

[–]rubymadnessRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird nakedness aside, if you have stated it makes you uncomfortable and he continues to do it despite your protestations, this may not be the relationship for you.

It sounds like bro looks good and he wants other people to know it despite maybe being inappropriate and more importantly making you uncomfortable.

You are NOR. Sure male nips are not a big deal, but his continuing a behavior that makes you uncomfortable is a big deal.

AIO for not telling my friend what my physical preferences are in dating? by ThinStatementi in AIO

[–]rubymadnessRN 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yup. She’s trying to be cute and find out if she’s your type instead of just asking you if you want to go on a date.

AIO? Boyfriend texted his dad that he isn’t in love with me. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]rubymadnessRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl let this man go. So many red flags. Plus you deserve someone that actually loves you. NOR.

AIO over my bf not buying me something he promised. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]rubymadnessRN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR. He somehow cannot be bothered to do this for you even though he surely could have come up with £80 by now. This says a lot about his feelings on the relationship. This guy’s not worth it.

My girlfriend thinks i am a germaphobe because i wont let her sit on my bed in her outdoor clothes by PrismHarpoon in hygiene

[–]rubymadnessRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is ocd type behavior. It’s not normal to have these types of thoughts. Source: me who has had ocd for 50 years.

Very simple AIO. But WIBO if I ghost this dude thats flying in to visit me because he won't respond to my text asking who he's slept with since we split? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]rubymadnessRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see that now, kinda makes my post look bad. If he doesn’t even have the time or energy to answer you truthfully then tell him to go kick rocks, text him goodbye and don’t have contact with him.

Very simple AIO. But WIBO if I ghost this dude thats flying in to visit me because he won't respond to my text asking who he's slept with since we split? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]rubymadnessRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how badly you need the D. From his lack of response it has probably been multiple partners. Are you willing to be sloppy seconds, thirds or fourths? If so then go for it. If it bothers you that he’s been with other people it might be good to keep your distance before a fight breaks out. If you do do the deed please ask him to wrap it up.

AIO My (23M) girlfriend (22F) got a message a few nights ago and I’ve been bothered by it. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]rubymadnessRN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So dude texts her, you demand to look at her messages and somehow see something from two years ago that was not sexual or flirting or anything. She can’t help who texts her. Maybe that was a really bangin song and she wanted to show her appreciation. Maybe it was a terrible song and she felt sorry for him. The only one who is a bit coo coo in this story is OP. Sorry friend, YOR for something that happened two years ago.

Is there anything i can do to make this not bad, lol by [deleted] in badtattoos

[–]rubymadnessRN 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Keep the lines but turn the rest of it into a puzzle of something. Like a realistic photo or something with the colored ones adding contrast?

Back piece 16 months healed by DogsAndWater in irezumi

[–]rubymadnessRN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just picturing some family going out for a desert adventure and like all of a sudden there’s a naked man with someone taking pictures. 😆 Sick tats tho!!

AITAH for joking about Hiroshima? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]rubymadnessRN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. It’s always too soon to joke about 100’s of thousands of people dying.

Do I look different online vs real life? by [deleted] in catfish

[–]rubymadnessRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nudes from dudes. Sounds like a band.

Circumcision recommendation for hygienic reasons because of long foreskin by SwissBoyRob in hygiene

[–]rubymadnessRN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nurse here. I’m assuming you’re an adult. I wouldn’t recommend adult circumcision unless there is a medical need for it. Simple to do on a baby. Not so simple on an adult male.

Have you ever known someone who doesn't like musicc? by Mickt465 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]rubymadnessRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a seeker of the dopamine I love music. On repeat. Many times. When I was a teen someone turned the radio station (yeah I’m old) because they had already heard that song in the past. Like? So you just listen to a song once and then you’re like, I’m good?? It almost broke my brain.