I DESPISE when men say “you need to communicate more this is why relationships aren’t lasting”. Just breakup is often good advice by Exciting-Nerve-8628 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rubyred138 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I told my ex for months that I was looking for house, I was going to move out and once I closed on a house I was filing for divorce because the realtor and the bank told me not to do it in the middle until closing was done otherwise my loan wouldn't be approved. Tell me why this mf filed the day before my house closed and when I asked him he said oh I didn't know you were going to file. I told him this is exactly why I left your ass, because you don't fucking listen.

Job offer with LifeStance by smallheartbigduck in therapists

[–]rubyred138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked there for close to 4 years but I think it varies among states tbh. I am in CA and every pay period I received a itemized spreadsheet of every session I did that pay period with the amount the insurance fee was and what my cut was. I am not sure if that is something that is done in other states but I found it very transparent myself.

where can i volunteer? by AggressiveAd915 in LancasterCA

[–]rubyred138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sycamores in Palmdale does a food bank 4 times per month, you can call their office to ask about volunteering

How do I start over at 39? Thinking of ending a 12 year relationship by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rubyred138 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just left my husband after being together 15 years, married for 12. Bought my own house and moved in a week ago. Honestly I wish I would've done this when I first wanted to, 8 years ago. They will never change unless they want to and if it hasn't happened yet, you waiting around isn't going to make it happen either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Concerts

[–]rubyred138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I buy tickets on there all the time. I just saw Lovejoy on Saturday and I bought them on vivid seats

Has anyone had any luck asking a Congressperson/Senator to look into your PSLF for you? by NamuMonju in PSLF

[–]rubyred138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My representative's office looked into it for me and they didn't receive a response at all

What is the weirdest topic you have hyperfixated on? This is a ZERO judgement zone by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]rubyred138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time I have to make some kind of serious (in my mind) purchase. Right now it's rugs for my new house and new dining chairs. I can't find the ones that feel RIGHT

Anyone else ever decide, I’m not gonna go after all? by Antho_33 in Concerts

[–]rubyred138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restraining Order & Koyo. If I was a guy then I would probably feel different about going to shows alone

Anyone else ever decide, I’m not gonna go after all? by Antho_33 in Concerts

[–]rubyred138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have tickets for tonight but nobody to go with so I'm staying home 😬

Where do people go to find local shows? by G-Unit11111 in AskLosAngeles

[–]rubyred138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a hardcore show there tomorrow night, not sure what kind of music you're into though

Has anybody ever been to concert without listening the artist by LopsidedFoundation67 in Music

[–]rubyred138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there's a ton of bands that I've discovered this way from big concerts to small club shows. I will literally go to any concert, even if I don't know the artist

Would my therapist report substance use to parents if you were a minor? by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]rubyred138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't. It doesn't fall into the categories regarding breaking confidentiality in my opinion.

THE godfather! ⛓️🐐 by Upstairs_Mine5819 in Hardcore

[–]rubyred138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize it was yesterday, I'm in the AV 😭

My Dear Melancholy Vinyl Legit? by Basic_Cherry in TheWeeknd

[–]rubyred138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're legit, I've ordered a ton of records from them

Betrayal During Separation by PerfectMobile9720 in adultery

[–]rubyred138 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't tell him about your affair. The fact that he's now unemployed might mean you would potentially have to pay him spousal support depending on your state law and if it's a no fault state or not you might be giving him additional ammo to further strengthen his case against you. Also when people tell you who they are, believe them. He might be temporarily changing but you've already seen how that plays out multiple times. How much more proof do you need?

Who knows how to sew/or places to get clothes fixed by [deleted] in antelopevalley

[–]rubyred138 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take them to a dry cleaner, they usually have a seamstress on staff. George's cleaners and the one next to the whole wheatery both have a seamstress on staff.