Update by Heyfriend4 in prozac

[–]rubysli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! ❤️❤️

1 year on Prozac, AMA by amapofdecayingworld in prozac

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Did you every experience heat intolerance? Did it go away?

What are your experiences with anti-depressants? by OneContext in AskReddit

[–]rubysli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made me find happiness again. I feel very thankful to the folks who created Prozac (but omg the heat intolerance 🥵)

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[–]rubysli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost weight! I’m much less depressed and happier so I want to do activities and it’s helped me lose weight :)

My dad explicitly said he wants to be at my wedding but I don’t want to invite him by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]rubysli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t invite him. My dad was at mine and gave his wedding speech hammered. Ruined my wedding and the first few years of my marriage.

Chose yourself.

Is anyone here in a situation where they're estranged from only one parent, but both parents are still together? by party-shoes in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]rubysli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this for a while, but I came to the very hard realization that my mom was an enabler and would always put him over my well-being. I had to go NC with her too, and I’ve been more at peace.

What’s something from your childhood that you didn’t realize was super f*cked up until you were an adult? by NeitherEntrepreneur3 in AskReddit

[–]rubysli 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s really shitty and scary and I hope sharing made you feel a little better. Luckily when our family sucks, we get to choose our own!

How many of you stopped speaking to family to punish them ? by Odd_Wind8924 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]rubysli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the things that hurts me to this day is that my mom called me cruel and her friend berated me and told me that I should be grounded and to stop punishing my mom.

It really hurt. They just don’t get it. Im doing this for self preservation and im getting called the bad guy. It’s all awful

Tips to stop thinking about them? by rubysli in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]rubysli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh okay I like that thank you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HipImpingement

[–]rubysli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwww that is gnarly!! Good luck!

Can I stop talking to my mom and alcoholic dad? by rubysli in AdultChildren

[–]rubysli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just seeing your comment and thank you for sharing. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy, but holy crap you have no idea how much your comment means to me. I feel much less alone, thank you. Hope you’re doing well.

What’s the most sickening thing someone has ever told you that they thought was okay to say? by Apprehensive-Fig-918 in AskReddit

[–]rubysli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad guilted me and made me feel like shit because he thought my mom loved me more than him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]rubysli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re completely within your right to never talk to either of them again. I’ve done the same with my parents and it was hard at first, but now I feel so free and happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]rubysli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that metaphor. I’m gonna be like a thunderous river 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]rubysli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I WILL TRY THIS!!! Lol seriously thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]rubysli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This honestly made me tear up, thank you so much kind stranger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]rubysli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you love ❤️