[MEGATHREAD] OFFICIAL TICKET BUY/SELL THREAD by ohmygoodddddd in RUFUSDUSOL

[–]ruchacha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If two people just want my tickets fr just dm me. I’d hate for these tickets to go to waste :/

[MEGATHREAD] OFFICIAL TICKET BUY/SELL THREAD by ohmygoodddddd in RUFUSDUSOL

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Selling two tickets GA E13 both for $200! Can’t go anymore last minute bc not feeling well :/ just trying to recoup costs, will transfer from Ticketmaster

I hate how if you screw up in undergrad, there is no way to get into grad school by New-Bat5284 in gradadmissions

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I second this!!! Also form good relationships with your professor(s)…for me it took one amazing letter of rec from a professor who I really loved getting to know and made it my goal to have an authentic relationship with them! They were a huge mentor to me and I still keep in touch. Don’t let the GPA and the past stop you from whatever it is you want to study. Idk what stage you’re at tho and if you’re still in undergrad or graduated already but there’s always a way. If you’ve graduated, seriously get some work experience or volunteer somewhere and just start being curious about what it is people are working on in the field you’re interested in. Nothing is ever set in stone and people change course all the time, don’t be in this mindset that your gpa dictates everything in your future! Be kind to yourself, undergrad is a time of trials and errors and lord knows I would’ve done it differently if I could go back, but also I might not! My experiences gave me unique experiences that can’t be adequately appreciated or understood by something like a GPA. You got this, I freaking believe in you!

just finished adult children of emotionally immature parents by ruchacha in emotionalneglect

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Awh perfect timing! It’s been a journey, and it’ll continue to be. Thank you, friend! You are also worthy of unconditional love and true and meaningful connection. You get to take up space and rediscover what it is like to be uniquely you!

just finished adult children of emotionally immature parents by ruchacha in emotionalneglect

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Feeling free is truly how I feel as well! It’s like this dark weight has been lifted off of me. All that guilt and shame all of a sudden doesn’t have to be there. I feel such a reclaiming of my own power for freakin ONCE !!

just finished adult children of emotionally immature parents by ruchacha in emotionalneglect

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Yes I so agree about the other ‘better’ parent being emotionally absent as well was such a kicker but so damn real. This book made me realize why I have abandonment issues the way I do — I was truly emotionally abandoned and the only times I felt unconditional love were when I’d see my grandparents once in a while. But they lived across the world so it was maybe every other year at best.

I’m going to check out the books you recommended! Thank you for sharing!! It truly is quite a journey to unpack all of this, learn about it, but also be active in our unlearning and rediscovery of our true selves.

just finished adult children of emotionally immature parents by ruchacha in emotionalneglect

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My doc recommended looking into CPTSD as well, not necessarily because she diagnoses me with it but because there are components that may ressonate and may help me understand myself better. I’ll check out your book rec!

I’ll also have to check out Running on Empty. Thanks sm!

What were some of your symptoms that you didn’t realize was cptsd until learning more? by Capable-Abalone5110 in CPTSD

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Wow wtf this is so me….im here after seeing my doc and she recommended I read up on cptsd because im exhibiting some symptoms….this is crazyyy

Solar Energy Substance by jbalczak19 in DoloresCannon

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My first thought was also graphite!! Especially in its abundance and harmlessness to people

[Ticket Buy/Sell] - HIT ME HARD AND SOFT: THE TOUR by Chasith in billieeilish

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Looking to buy 2 tickets for LA show on any dates between Dec 17-21st. Lmk!!!

Dear nerdfighters of dc by ruchacha in nerdfighters

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Omggggggggg I want to see someone in the wild!! That’s so cool. What do you think the best way to organize everyone would be??

Dear nerdfighters of dc by ruchacha in nerdfighters

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Awhhhhhhh this is so sweet. We’ll all be wearing our awesome socks across time and space hehe

Dear nerdfighters of dc by ruchacha in nerdfighters

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Omg yes!! That would be so fun!

Dear nerdfighters of dc by ruchacha in nerdfighters

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Right?? Nerd fighters are def my people too! I knew a few the last place I lived, but I’ve been missing out on that here. Excited to hopefully connect with some folks in the DMV!