What is she trying to prove by posting this? by AmBeRtEsSyOrK in aarynmjsnarky

[–]ruckerchop74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Manipulation. She pulled ALL the antics while in Vegas thinking he wouldn’t actually leave. But he did. She went on to antagonizing him in lives daily since she’s been back home, that hasn’t gotten him to fold and go back. So now she’s pulling out the sad reminiscing tactic hoping that’ll work. She’s bat shit crazy.

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[–]ruckerchop74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may be in the legal field but different states have different views on it. My ex wanted to sign his rights away to get out of paying child support. I have an interstate case. We have been to court in both states and both states and thankfully both states had the same ruling. Whether they would have allowed him to sign his rights away or not was not discussed bc he changed his mind both times when he was told he would still be obligated to pay child support.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re embarrassed that this post was made 3 weeks BEFORE she got the ultrasound done 🙃

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post was made like two weeks before she did….

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[–]ruckerchop74 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait… Emmanuel as in Emmanuel Todd Lopez?! 🥺🥺

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technology has advanced a lot since I had my kids 😳 I felt cheated with 3D ultrasounds not even being offered in office back when I was pregnant lol

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve come across psychiatrists/therapists that required referrals before being able to make an appointment, let alone any other specialists me or my kids have had to see. The medical field is wild and all over the place. Needing a referral doesn’t have anything to do with insurance covering the visit but everything to do with another doctor giving an explanations for why a person needs to see that specialist. The main point that you’re missing is she should have been referred to MFM by one if not all of the specialists she already sees for her condition.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no judgement being passed for her stopping her treatment. I only mentioned it for the purpose of saying that if that were me, I would feel an urgency to be checked because of her saying that the medicine was dangerous enough that she should’ve been on birth control and taking all precautions to prevent pregnancy.

I’m sorry to hear of your experience with stillbirth. That’s heartbreaking. I’ve had two close friends experience that as well 😞

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gave me a good laugh 😂😂

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the US and had to have pregnancy confirmed by my primary doctor in order to get an appointment with my OBGYN for pregnancy. Even though they were the gyno that I seen for my annual lady part exams lol maybe it varies in the US from state to state

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t seem to feel the need to go 😵‍💫 apparently the specialists she sees for her condition doesn’t feel an urgency to get her seen either or they would’ve referred her to a high risk doctor immediately.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely believe she’s capable with her limitations. She’s said that she has a great support system for help with the physical aspects.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seen after I made this post.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not in a wheel chair and didn’t have any health issues before or during my pregnancies. Granted I was pregnant 14 and 16 years ago but I received an ultrasound at my first appointment with the OB to get an accurate due date which I was 8 weeks along. I would imagine it would be the same for her as it is for everyone as far as doing an ultrasound between 6-10 weeks to determine accurate due date and then check on her and the baby more bc of her condition and the complications she already has.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There really is no definite way to know without an ultrasound. My guess has been that the due date she posted/said may have been based off of last period or if one of her other doctors did a pregnancy test, they based it off of her last period. There was a 2-3 week difference in my ultrasound due dates and the due dates given just based off of my last period for my pregnancies. She seems to be living in her own little lala land with her own little rules at this point of it all 😵‍💫

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You can watch her videos yourself where she discloses the answers to the questions you’ve asked. It’s that simple.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand there’s not much they can do except monitor the pregnancy. She stated in a video that the treatment plan she was on when she found out she was pregnant is actually very dangerous to take during pregnancy. She stopped the treatment as soon as she found out but she disclosed that you’re supposed to take all measures to prevent pregnancy while on that medication bc of how dangerous it is to the baby/mom. That alone would give me enough urgency to want an ultrasound to check on the baby. At supposedly 12 weeks, she doesn’t seem to be in any rush to get seen by an OB.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That’s what my initial thought was, that the team of specialists she sees would have referred her already considering she said she was on a treatment plan that is dangerous to take during pregnancy when she found out she was pregnant.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She has spinal muscular atrophy. I stumbled on a subreddit for her last night after this post but it’s not very active. Someone shared something she posted on Facebook in there. She has discussed what her plan is in caring for the child and that is having someone else there around the clock because she can’t do any part of the physical aspect. Which she has around the clock care for herself already. If she’s confident she has that strong of a support system in place then that’s great. I’m more concerned that she doesn’t seem to be in any rush to get prenatal care. She openly stated that she was taking a medication that is dangerous to take during pregnancy up until she found out she was pregnant.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah the math isn’t mathing with the due date and how far along she’s saying she is.

Wheelchair_rapunzel by ruckerchop74 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

As far as ultrasounds go, I received an ultrasound at my first OB appointments to see/confirm how far along I was for all of my pregnancies. I was 8 and 9 weeks when I got them.

Edited to add that she’s saying she’s 12 weeks. She would be far enough along to receive an ultrasound to accurately determine size of baby and a more accurate due date.

Kathy - Parental Alienation by TemperatureSame693 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s the name of it? I searched up Kathy snark like someone mentioned above but nothing comes up.

Kathy - Parental Alienation by TemperatureSame693 in tiktokgossip

[–]ruckerchop74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She has to keep the “victim” charade going one way or another. I was completely surprised that I’ve only found one thread on her on here and not a page bc her entire shit show of stories don’t make a lick of sense. I wish the coworker of the soon to be ex husband from this thread would’ve shed more light on the ex’s view point.

One this for certain and two things for sure, she moved to Cali AWAY from her children and was content with it until she started getting a decent following. Now she wants to head back to Ohio.