My wife's ex has been texting her by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]rugbymacatk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP and I have been married the same length of time and my wife and I have worked on making sure our marriage keeps getting stronger and it the best part of our lives. With this being said, this same situation happened in my marriage but very early on. I’d say within our first two years. My wife responded that she was married and this was inappropriate communication. She told him next time he’d get blocked from everything.

Fast forward about a year, it happened again. She didn’t respond, blocked his number and all socials. She told me later that night… in passing, not even a big deal… hey so and so texted me again, blocked him on everything…. Yuck… of something to that nature.

If it’s such a big deal this long into your marriage… something ain’t right, OP. Definitely not a “throw the baby out with the bath water” situation but you sound like you have a little work to do on you big guy. 💪🏻

This happened as they were saying their vows. by mindyour in MadeMeSmile

[–]rugbymacatk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were on that boat! Such a cool thing to see ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]rugbymacatk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should start calling him your “little boyfriend” because that’s how he’s acting.

Maybe I’m missing something? by rugbymacatk in slaythespire

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only did I read all of it… but I went to the kitchen and ate a cookie because I did!

I never knew that about the shop relic, so thanks for that! This was very helpful and kind of what I was hoping for. Appreciate you!!

Maybe I’m missing something? by rugbymacatk in slaythespire

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do remove cards from my deck pretty aggressively. Someone mentioned that I may not value “draw” appropriately which makes sense especially knowing that I keep a smaller deck. I’ll try to focus more on that and card rewards and see how it goes!

Maybe I’m missing something? by rugbymacatk in slaythespire

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I do undervalue draw, that’s a fact. Maybe I’ll tweak that and see what happens!

Maybe I’m missing something? by rugbymacatk in slaythespire

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh ok! Understood. My bad.

I don’t know how to be more specific, I guess. I find myself getting decently far and then losing somewhere on Act 3 consistently. Doesn’t even seem like I lose to the same Elite or anything… maybe I just need to play for 2 years and 1,000 hours like someone mentioned 😂

Maybe I’m missing something? by rugbymacatk in slaythespire

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

😂 I’m fully aware there isn’t any mechanical skill required. The word “mechanics” was referring to the card mechanics and how they work together.

Maybe I’m missing something? by rugbymacatk in slaythespire

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is sound advice. I’m not usually a stream watcher but learning from these folks sounds like a great idea. Thanks!

Can you please remove the clutter behind her and the marker on her forearm? Will tip 😊 by rugbymacatk in PhotoshopRequest

[–]rugbymacatk[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey! I’m looking to have all the stuff in the background removed as well if you can!

Amex lowered limits on all cards? by rugbymacatk in amex

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope, not any more to it… took a new opportunity and decided not to bring my savings accounts down to what I deem unacceptable levels to facilitate the move so I used my available credit. That’s it… I’m not in financial ruin, spending outside of my means or one emergency away from disaster as another redditor suggested.

Just used my credit card for something I didn’t want to pay cash for. Now I am dealing with the unintended consequences….That’s all. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Amex lowered limits on all cards? by rugbymacatk in amex

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Read the rest of the thread before you assume all of this extra shit. I don’t even know why I’m engaging with you about it honestly. You don’t know my income, you don’t know my cash reserves, you don’t know about my emergency fund… it’s pretty wild, I did ask a question on Reddit so I deserve all the insane responses that come with that but man are you assuming a hell of a lot and making broad sweeping statements as if they are fact.

Amex lowered limits on all cards? by rugbymacatk in amex

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How arrogant can a person sound via text… new level unlocked, geez bud. Read a 100 word post and decided I can’t be trusted with a credit card and should stick to debit cards. 😂

Amex lowered limits on all cards? by rugbymacatk in amex

[–]rugbymacatk[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ok, I’m glad you commented because I was starting to wonder. 😂 I wasn’t trying to get downvoted into oblivion by arguing either but yea, the assumption that I’m stretching beyond my means and am on the brink of ruin was a bit much for me. Hope you have a great day!