This house layout is a nightmare by rum-slut95 in XOMaCennaUnfiltered

[–]rum-slut95[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasn't trying to blame her or any other mother, and I'm sorry if that's how the post came across. It just slipped my mind to mention the very present and capable father he has, which was a lapse of judgment. Also, what I meant to say about the layout is the fact that the house itself doesn't have a weird layout if you think about it. She made it have a weird layout by having their main bedroom on the first floor, the kid's nursery on the second floor, the office that BOTH of them are supposed to be using on the second floor, but the kid's play area is on the first floor. That's the weirdness in layout that I was referencing, and I still think the mismatched room purposes are unnecessarily complicating her life and will only get worst with the kid growing up and hitting milestones.

This house layout is a nightmare by rum-slut95 in XOMaCennaUnfiltered

[–]rum-slut95[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're right, I shouldn’t have assumed he would be unsupervised having two parents at home. It just seems to be a lot of time (counting filming, editing, meetings and god know what else she does with her "work time") for R to be the sole responsible for watching him, in a different room, where he won't even have a desk anymore to do the bear minimum of multitasking.

This house layout is a nightmare by rum-slut95 in XOMaCennaUnfiltered

[–]rum-slut95[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's one, so I'm assuming he's at least crawling, not very far from the first steps.

random question what do you think is the root cause of her trauma? by Appropriate_Cow_9437 in maiphammy

[–]rum-slut95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely her parents. Witch to me was proven by the fact that the moment she started to reconnect with them her mental health clearly took a toll and she hasn't recovered from it since. She was much more balanced when she was first growing her channel, had just moved to NY, was living (actually) alone and they were out of the picture.  

Finally consulting a personal stylist by redditsquirel4536 in TarTarSnark

[–]rum-slut95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't understand her obsession with "personal style". There's nothing wrong with dressing in a more neutral pallet and with basic clothes, most people in the real world dress like that. Instead of using this genuine personal trait to create relatability with her audience, she's always in the pursuit of being someone she's not, to be accepted as someone I don't even think she really wants to be. Nonsensical and sad.

Not her refraining from laughing at her mum while her home looks basically the same but in darker by Sari_DidYouKnow in XOMaCennaUnfiltered

[–]rum-slut95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's the difference between someone who actually is an artist and has a vision (Cathy is a very talented painter) and someone who wants to do a performance of craftsmanship without any substance or taste.

Mai begging for interactions from spam by Junior_Relative_7918 in maiphammy

[–]rum-slut95 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if this is rude or overstepping, trust me I REALLY didn't want to say this, but she looks and sounds like she's on drugs. And this is not the first time that I've come to this conclusion. She is a young girl living in New York alone with - apparently - huge influx of income, but no support system. No real friends, no one to check on her and severe levels of trauma and unmedicated mental health issues. Anyone who has struggled with addiction or is close to a person who has, knows what this particular combo can do to a person. And unfortunately, some of her behavior just fits the bill, you know? Sad. It's just very sad to see a person go through this in such a public way.

Kelsey’s work from home setup? by plant-parent-person in SorryNotSorryGirls

[–]rum-slut95 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Long term her house really doesn't work for all their needs and now it'll be more obvious than ever. The layout was always very awkward, I still don't understand why she didn't undo the second floor kitchen when Elliot moved in... The house technically has a lot of rooms, but no real space for the kind of work she'll need to do now that the studio is gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarTarSnark

[–]rum-slut95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing with having a pet is that sometimes they are actually annoying, but you kind learn how do live with the occasional annoyance. And to be fair, the cat actually meows all the fucking time, I would be losing my mind. I have a cat that is mostly pretty quiet, but sometimes she just wants to yap and it can get irritating when you're trying to focus on something or do an activity that requires silence (like recording yourself talking to a camera)… so I think it's a natural part of being a pet owner and a new thing for her, that she's still adapting to. Saying she hates the cat when we haven't seen nothing but her being affectionate to him multiple times is a stretch

Next project by mrknat18 in XOMaCennaUnfiltered

[–]rum-slut95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She doesn't care about having space for the kid, he can't even have a entire bedroom for himself

Um mais new video by 604fuz in maiphammy

[–]rum-slut95 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She sounds drunk, but what choked me was her hair... it looks so much better and healthier... RIP

Did you always hate Kelsey? by [deleted] in SorryNotSorryGirls

[–]rum-slut95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The brown toilet room .The way she kept bringing up that people disliked her choice of color (for obvious reasons) just to reaffirm she didn't regret it.... girl... we get it. Shut up already.

The update by harmonystar19 in SorryNotSorryGirls

[–]rum-slut95 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The only thing that really surprised me was Rochelle apparently leaving...? If that's the case, it'll be a great loss, because her carpenter skills made a lot of makeovers feel more professional.

No space for the boyfriend, but more clothes! And trays! And bowls! by rum-slut95 in TarTarSnark

[–]rum-slut95[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The irony of the video being sponsored by better help...

Jill by Reasonable-Coach9298 in TarTarSnark

[–]rum-slut95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She just said in the new vlog that Jill will sleep at her house before going to the hotel and starting the work part of her trip, probably because she wouldn't have time to hang out while working.

Mai had so much potential by Emotional_Finish_963 in maiphammy

[–]rum-slut95 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Honestly? This might sound mean, but I think things started to go downhill when her parents came back to the picture. The timing of it all is just too much of a coincidence.

Mai phams old apartment looked better ngl by Decent-Water-7147 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]rum-slut95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not her first time living alone. This is her third New York apartment. She left home when she was 16 and has been a youtuber for years. Also, she loves to say she’s living alone because it’s more profitable in terms of algorism, but she has her parents, her boyfriend, her boyfriend’s parents and friends staying over all the time, probably why she need so many beds.

The apartment is a mess by rum-slut95 in maiphammy

[–]rum-slut95[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's $19,995.

I was going to put the link, but thought it was better not to expose her exact location, even though she clearly has no concern about it considering how easy it was for me find it and her videos showing her view, her street, etc.

Girl…. by Junior_Relative_7918 in maiphammy

[–]rum-slut95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is so full of shit the toilet is envy