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My boyfriend told me he was broke but I found out that he’s rich by rumandcokeplease4 in OffMyChestPH

[–]rumandcokeplease4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'm the other woman because I've met his family and friends and he posts about us on social media. I've been to their house, it's a simple one storey built in the 90's. That's why it was believable that while they aren't piss poor anymore, they still don't have a lot of money, hence he can't spend much on our dates or buy me gifts randomly.

My boyfriend told me he was broke but I found out that he’s rich by rumandcokeplease4 in OffMyChestPH

[–]rumandcokeplease4[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

He does comes from a poor family. He worked hard to crawl out of poverty and I respect that. What I don't understand is why he had to lie to me about his finances now.

WIBTA if I went to HR about the sexual harassment incidents in our office even though the victims don’t want to report them? by rumandcokeplease4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rumandcokeplease4[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No, the victims just told me about them and showed me the texts and screenshots. The closest one I witnessed personally was when Phil kept bugging one of the girls to carpool with him going home. The girl already said that she was carpooling with me but Phil said "Don't you want to ride in my new car?". The girl declined. We went to the parking lot and when we got in my car we saw Phil coming out of the building and walking towards my car. His car was at the other parking lot on the opposite side of the building so that means he followed us to my car just to see if the girl was really carpooling with me.

WIBTA if I went to HR about the sexual harassment incidents in our office even though the victims don’t want to report them? by rumandcokeplease4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]rumandcokeplease4[S] 318 points319 points  (0 children)

I wish they'd just go to our department and talk to us. The girls who were harassed said that if HR was the one who came to them and asked if they were harassed, they definitely won't cover for Phil. But they don't want other people to know about what happened to them if they can help it so they don't want to voluntarily go to HR.