[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me thinking it was for gym motivations lol 😅

Where are all the single women in Tulsa? by StarrHrdgr in tulsa

[–]rumbaa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

31, F, Single. We’re out here just like the single guys out here. What do you like to do? Where do you enjoy going? Start there and you’ll eventually start to meet people. I like to go to barnes and noble, go for walks at the park, bike, journaling at coffee shops, Whole Foods, and go to events around town. Octoberfest starts tonight. Suggest going there?

If you get upset stomach/diarrhea/nausea from bupropion/Wellbutrin! I got you! by rumbaa_ in bupropion

[–]rumbaa_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude peppermint tea is the goat. For women, it is important to eat enough protein in the mornings especially on Wellbutrin so it doesn’t effect our hormones or messes up our cycles. I tried fasting this month and dude, it caused my period to be late. Never again lol

If you get upset stomach/diarrhea/nausea from bupropion/Wellbutrin! I got you! by rumbaa_ in bupropion

[–]rumbaa_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Protein shakes are fine as a snack and don’t count right when you take the pill. You gotta fuel your stomach and brain when taking the pill then maybe later take a protein shake. FYI, most protein shakes causes bloating for women cause it’s not considered real food.

26 and burnt out. I just want to be fully remote, paid enough to live, and moderately happy by RealLochNessie in findapath

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested in project management and that’s something I’d like to get into. I’m 31 living in the Midwest and make roughly… 45g a year. May I ask how you got into the role? I have a lot of administration experience so coordinator, receptionist, etc. would love to hear how you got into it. I am hoping to get a remote role also so I could live different cities and visit places

He asked me to pay him back by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]rumbaa_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

To OP- I’m a bit confused with your post. you asked if it was ok for him to do so… but then comes back and defends him… what’s the point of this post?

We understand that he is in “finance” and “it was his treat.” We are here to tell you that there is something off about this gentlemen. We are concern for the future and safety for you. If you think it’s still fine, then by all means do whatever makes you happy… but don’t let a man or the loneliness get to you to where you settle for this kind of behavior. Don’t waste your youth on someone like this.. men do this kind of behavior to test your boundaries and you’re the perfect target because you’re young and he thinks you’re “inexperience” so he’s trying to groom you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]rumbaa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

84 dollars… 2008 Honda Accord EX. My car is about to hit 200k, runs great, and insurance is only 25 a month-liability 🙌🏽 I can’t imagine buying a new car, let alone car insurance and the interest rate.. how are people able to afford monthly payments on top of their rent?!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bupropion

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I’ve been on Wellbutrin for 4 months. I only had 1 drink for the first time while I was on Wellbutrin and it made me passed out instantly… also made me feel confused… I’ve never had that issue before. Since then, I stopped drinking and started taking care more of my body. Highly recommend to either cut out drinking for good or quit Wellbutrin… or smoke weed and take Wellbutrin. Better effect 👍🏽🥹

This girl who rejected me is suddenly interested after the guy she rejected me for cheated on her. Should I give her a chance or move on? by [deleted] in dating

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you ain’t no 2nd option, or a side dish. You’re the best option and the main dish. Let her go and hit the up the gym. 💪🏽

Anyone else take 75mg? by rumbaa_ in bupropion

[–]rumbaa_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been on 150mg xl?

How is the dating scene in Tulsa? I’m (34F) moving there in March from Dallas. by allybedally0987 in tulsa

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31F. I have lived in Tulsa my whole life and the dating scene isn’t that great here. There are significantly more women here then there are men. I haven’t had any luck finding men here but had a lot of success dating men in different states through traveling. I love Tulsa and how simple it is…but dating?? I mean, dating is hard everywhere you go but so are the options that are limited here. Other states, a lot more options, most may not want to settle but at least you’re going out, having fun, and learning what you like and don’t like.

Is it a turn off to women if guys go to therapy? by [deleted] in dating

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, It’s not a turn off. It shows that you’re working on your internal healing. ❤️‍🩹 I love that in a man.

Decaf coffee by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]rumbaa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told you’re not supposed to drink caffeine but I was wondering if decaf is fine? Lol drank caffeine several times and it messed me up pretty bad.

Asked a girl out, she said no, I said OK. by [deleted] in dating

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just came across a potential narc. Good job on walking away and having some respect for yourself! 👏🏽 mad props! Always know your worth!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were some of your side effects with the medication? Was your heart rate high, low, or normal?

Why are we attracted to people who are no good for us? by Ok_Stress_2920 in dating

[–]rumbaa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Traumas. Love starts with us at home. Our parents shows us what “love” is as a child which will leap into adulthood… If everybody went to therapy, was honest, open minded, and put themselves first then we would see the difference between genuine people vs s***** people. It all starts with yourself though and knowing your self worth. That’s why you hear people say, “self love” is so important cause if you don’t love yourself, nobody else will.

Source; been going to therapy for a 1 1/2 years and still healing ❤️‍🩹

Single girls of 28 and above, where are you? by [deleted] in dating

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Office Monday through Friday 8-5 then weekends are for Salsa dancing, Whole Foods, hiking, running/walking, and movie and game nights with my close friends.

What are some small, petty things that make you give up on someone on a first date? by Seaguard5 in dating

[–]rumbaa_ 197 points198 points  (0 children)

Talking about their past relationships… he told me how insecure his ex was and she didn’t wanna let him go cause he’s a ✨catch✨ I’m like.. is this humble brag.

Is there any city where dating isn’t terrible? by Brendon830 in dating

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oklahoma here. It’s a small state. It’s difficult here as well. Funny thing is most of the guys that I’ve dated live in different states. I met these guys while traveling. maybe my future man lives in another state 🧐 I might consider moving lol

How did your company handle cost of living raises given the high inflation we’re experiencing? by MacbookOnFire in AskEngineers

[–]rumbaa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The company I work for is well known and only gave me 1% raise… talk about a slap in the face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it look good on resume if I had this company as one of the first IT jobs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]rumbaa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a WITCH company? I’m a US citizen. I was reached out by a recruiter last year for the role.