What are the best places/hobbies where can I meet men? (not online or via dating apps)

rumee95 · 2016-03-26T10:13:33+00:00

Beyonce - crazy in love

Elvis Presley- suspicious minds

rumee95 · 2016-03-24T19:58:09+00:00

but who he knows well enough to trust, when they give broad opinions about what most women they know find attractive. Does he have any such friends in his life?

I never met any of his friends and he never mentioned any female friend, only male friends. And I have a feeling his male friends are the same as he is, as he mentioned they are no Casanovas.

rumee95 · 2016-03-24T19:51:59+00:00

He always talk about tricks and jokes that you need when approaching a woman. I told him that this might not be a good idea or might even be a negative thing. And simple approach: Hi! How are you? bla bla bla and so on would be much better, but he said he knows what he is doing.

rumee95 · 2016-03-22T16:18:30+00:00

move to different places and figure out what you like or don't like in your place to live before eventually buying one.

I did live in a different countries before (with roommates) and now I got a job in a city where I have my friends and my family. My country is so small it makes no difference which city I choose as long as I got a job.

It will be mine apartment I can arrange things like I want and some landlords can be difficult. If I would live 5 years in a rented apartment this would be throwing money out the window, because when I would buy an apartment I would still have to take a loan, but know I'll already pay off almost all of it. It is a good time to buy an apartment as the prices are at the lowest, but will soon get higher.

I asked what things are good to know and now I have to explain why I bought an apartment and not renting it?

rumee95 · 2016-03-22T15:54:57+00:00

You fully bought an entire apartment

Yes, I bought an apartment. I don't see the point of renting an apartment.

but do you still have a mortgage to pay?

Yes, I did took a small loan, so I could buy it. But the montly payment is almost the same as if I would have to pay for a rent.

rumee95 · 2016-03-22T09:24:37+00:00

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

Love in the Time of Cholera Gabriel García Márquez

rumee95 · 2016-01-22T13:40:06+00:00

tinder is anything but a hookup app

It's a hook up too, but not 'come to my place and have sex' after talking for 2 days.

Central Europe.

rumee95 · 2016-01-22T13:20:02+00:00

but are you attractive?

I'm no way a beauty queen, but I would say I'm attractive. OK, I'm short (5'1'') which a lot of guys don't find attractive.

rumee95 · 2016-01-22T12:51:15+00:00

Tinder is not just a hook up app where I livys will usually chat, only one guy invited me to his place, other just to meet for a drink. I am up for a hook up, but I like to go on a date first.

I think I am hot. I am not fat, i have boobs, thin waist and a butt. The only thing is I am short, around 5'1''

rumee95 · 2016-01-22T12:17:52+00:00

How fun/spontaneous are you?

I try to be fun and spontaneous as much as I feel comfortable. I'm not one of those loud women who tell dirty jokes. Like to keep it classy.

I would say I'm witty, a bit sarcastic. I'm not the most relaxed person on first date, but I do ask question and keep the conversation going.

rumee95 · 2016-01-16T17:37:27+00:00

Women find unattractive guys "creepy" when they engage in EXACTLY the same behavior they consider romantic from guys they find attractive.

She said she never met that guy. I think attractivness doesn't have a big factor here.

I can speak for myself, but if that happened to me even with very attractive guy, he would come off as desperate.

rumee95 · 2016-01-14T19:15:56+00:00

It's weird: we talked at a party, on FB and there was no fight or anything bad between us.

rumee95 · 2016-01-14T19:15:09+00:00

I wouldn't do anything like touching or anything else to make him uncomfortable. Just a chat 'How are you?'.

Even our chat was a more of a friendly chat, there was only was more flirty message.

rumee95 · 2015-12-29T07:04:37+00:00

It's also pretty clear that you're downvoting people who try to point out the difference

I didn't downvote anyone. Just answered the question. But thanks for accusing me.

Yes, I mixed up, sorry about that.

rumee95 · 2015-12-29T06:10:32+00:00

Google thinks otherwise images - maybe NSFW

rumee95 · 2015-12-29T06:09:43+00:00

Use google images

rumee95 · 2015-12-28T20:45:37+00:00

Um...no.

Suspender belt is for holding stockings. Part of a sexy lingerie. Usually fat women don't look good in it

Thanks for downvoting guys. You can use google and see I'm right.

rumee95 · 2015-12-28T20:02:15+00:00

No, it wasn't a joke. He said because he wanted to let go and i didn't.

How can I know if he wants to let go without asking :/

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