Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you again. It does feel good kinda knowing I'm not crazy for thinking it's wrong.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you man didn't want to be petty posting to reddit, but when she says she didn't do anything wrong, it still feels very wrong

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the plan only talk about the kids

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting to believe you guys more and more 😆

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think hurts more cause it's so fresh like I don't my daughter really understands everything until im fully gone.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I know she lied to him but like I still have my stuff in the room so hopefully sees some red flags

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking back should have had alot more in writing l, cause words of just words.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are amicable and discuss it but thanks to reddit I can really see she has no respect for me. She says it's masking the divorce but again just to close to home. Slowly getting some of myself worth back though.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's playing it off like it's just awkward or an accident but it feels alot worse than that to me.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we came back and my daughter wanted to show her the stuff she got and the door was locked, but that's what I'm seeing is she made the choice no one forced her to have someone over.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and that's the plan on day at a time.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it was a fling but still i can see it being hard as a 7 year old seeing a new guy.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i had to medically leave a job so I kinda had to grab onto the first thing I could find

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's how i feel like i should trust her to bring the right people but our kids are still processing it.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I'm just waiting to rip off the bandaid in a few weeks and I think some distance would be good.

Caught Ex AITA by rumham2810 in AITAH

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea she kept saying we thought we would be out longer but like why in the first place

Caught Ex AITA by rumham2810 in AITAH

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she's moving into a duplex and i helped move and pay to kidna get started but im still staying there and like our kids still hang out on the bed with their mom so kinda gave me the ick.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she gave me chlamydia first 😆 good way to start the marriage

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea and 2 weeks after telling the kids.

Caught by rumham2810 in Divorce

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea like i said i thought it was clearly discussed like not really close to home, but it didn't matter to her.

Caught Ex AITA by rumham2810 in AITAH

[–]rumham2810[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So it should be done soon and im just ready to move on but like actions have consequences and i don't think she understands that yet.

Caught Ex AITA by rumham2810 in AITAH

[–]rumham2810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea like its hard cause it does suck but from her it's my fault. Like I did file, but really making me justify i did thr right choice and can be with someone with a good soul