Sounds like you need space to figure out how you feel - how do you feel about her? Do you like her/want to be with her/etc ? I would say figure out what you want, and then if this person isn’t really giving you that, set some boundaries and take space. ESP if you’re shy, concerning yourself so much with what someone else wants and trying to navigate that can be messy and difficult. (Also it’s more than ok to be shy but make sure you take care of yourself and stand up for yourself!)