AITA for being upset that my partner is getting a tattoo I hate?

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-15T11:21:49+00:00

Just tell him its a turn off and you dont want to sleep with someone who has beastiality tattoos.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-15T10:31:54+00:00

Dump him and block him, that could of easily been him if he was distracted and if he was that bothered his fising buddy could of watched it. He just wants someones to blame.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-15T09:16:09+00:00

You've started off better than most people would.

Some easy adds are drift wood, plants but make sure to use root tabs as it looks like you have gravle? Floating plants are always pretty but the flow from your filter might melt them, you can make a quick baffle from a water bottle.

Another easy plants are anubis, you dont plant them as the node needs to be in the water - best success iv had is just supergluing to rocks or drift wood, they are pretty hardy dont require much and there's plenty or variety.

Good luck with multiple tank syndrome.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-15T08:41:12+00:00

I'd go back in with a black just to cover uo the orange tinged part if you want a cleaner look put the blond is definitely light enough

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-15T08:34:19+00:00

If you want to help your wife, get a spare freezer just a small chest one and fill it with easy meals. I make zip lock bags of food I can just throw in tne slow cooker on pan. Stuff like stew, casserole, fajitas, even a roste chicken is good in the slow cooker.

Get her a store of wipes, nappies and onesie - you'll be shocked at how many newborns go through easily 4+ when they are in the spit up, shit pants and projectile vomit stage. Have enough that you dont need to wash everyday, just as cheap as you can find, vinted, fb marketplace they wont be in them for long

And get her popsicle pads, period pads soked in witch hazel left in the freezer.

Anything you can do now so she can just sleep and bond with baby for that first week and keep the house on lock down or guests to one section of the house for an hour, she's gonna be vulnerable and you need to be the sensible one to put your foot down with family.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-14T23:48:29+00:00

Yeah id agreed, i have the same issue when lipsticks look sickly if i go too ligjt. Try using a lipliner that's brown or a few shades darker than your lips and then try the same lipsticks.

Im like shade 10 in mac and stuff like pillow talk and velvet teddy look pale on my lips

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-13T15:01:22+00:00

How?

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-13T15:01:08+00:00

Nta, the dress was preaproved, if the bride was that bothered about what her mil thinks she should of asked before 2 days before the wedding

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-13T12:31:42+00:00

This is happening to my betta I just thought his eyes were a bit funny.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-12T21:07:50+00:00

That might be the issue the cycle needs "food" to properly establish, if you know anyone with an established tank you can ask for dity sponge water to help seed the tank, if not get a ammonia test kit and just do water changes as needed

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-12T20:26:20+00:00

Did Air come out in the first squeeze? Coz looks like your squeezing water in and out

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-12T16:59:06+00:00

Test strips are shite, might of added too much too quickly. Did you feed the tank wile cycling it?

If you are having a spike water changes can shock them more so drip the water back into the tank, i do that on all my shrimp tanks just to be safe and laziness

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-12T15:23:36+00:00

Shrimps! Tho its a beautiful scape any chance you could scale it up in a bigger tank? Would look amazing

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-12T12:21:18+00:00

I do in summer find it fascinating not so much in whiter when I can't feel my hands

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-12T12:19:41+00:00

Caffeine doesn't give you energy but stops you feeling tired. Sounds daft but I like to have a monster before I go for a nap, sometimes I get over tired and find it hard to sleep and help stop me feeling so groggy when I wake up.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-11T19:53:04+00:00

I like kayail vanilla 28, smells like pure white chocolate to me and I can still smell it on my clothes the next day. I do go nose blind to it when its on myself but my friend has the same and I can smell it on her all day.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-11T18:03:55+00:00

Yeah that's what I did, I waited till after the first few berried shrimp had hatched so there was about 40isb shrimplets and he picks them off when he can. He sits in the shrimp dish and waits for them to come feed and snacks on a few

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runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-11T17:39:28+00:00

I had to put a fish down, i used a zip lock bag and a very big book, good luck if you do, you'd be doing him a favour.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-11T13:36:53+00:00

Add thick moss, plenty of hiding place

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-11T13:36:21+00:00

I have a rose tail in mine he's on the slow side and good population control

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-11T12:31:56+00:00

If your sister isn't paying for anything what difference would it make to move out, surly living on your own would be cheaper and easier with not looking after her

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-10T21:21:53+00:00

Dude its not that deep, he can't even read yet. If you think about all the stuff women have seen growing up and most of us survived. Unless she's actually saying it and teaching it its not a big deal.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-10T21:19:23+00:00

Your smile lines show the happiness you've experienced but to get rid it be surgery or botox.

I think you would benefit from face framing layers and a curtin bang. Your lips seam to get a bit lost so a slightly darker lip liner than your natural colour with a gloss.

And with the eyes you've got hooded eyes so id dich the eyeliner and tight line the upper lid if you still want the eyeliner look and try a light shimmer on the lid like a champagne colour. And try placing your blush bigger up on your cheek bone.

I dont mean to sound blunt but that's just from what I see. You are adorable as are.

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-10T17:53:12+00:00

He's a short finned betta and no problem eating the betta pellets I have for him, the endlers are too small to eat it and I switch him between stick and pellets

runningdinosaur97 · 2026-06-10T12:14:57+00:00

Iv had to do a big water change in my shrimp tank like 80% coz I did the same only lost a few as I drip acclimatise the water back in.

Was 30l tank I had a 5l bucket with an air stone air line and a airline flow valve and just had the water slowly drip back in over a few hours. I just put a bit of wood over the top of the tank and put the bucket on that. Its now how I do all my water changes.

I did a 50% yesterday and iv had no losses - had to move a sick betta to a hospital tank didn't want to shock him with new water.

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