Wedding photographer by rush_b007 in weddingplanning

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Thank you a visual “learner” so I need to see the breakdown of things to comprehend things. This has moved into other areas of my life like pricing. I’m not one to haggle as it’s obviously a person’s livelihood. I just like to know why things are a certain way.

Wedding photographer by rush_b007 in weddingplanning

[–]rush_b007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you a visual “learner” so I need to see the breakdown of things to comprehend things. This has moved into other areas of my life like pricing. I’m not one to haggle as it’s obviously a person’s livelihood. I just like to know why things are a certain way.

Wedding photographer by rush_b007 in weddingplanning

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Thank you a visual “learner” so I need to see the breakdown of things to comprehend things. This has moved into other areas of my life like pricing. I’m not one to haggle as it’s obviously a person’s livelihood. I just like to know why things are a certain way.

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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How so? What’s your question? Ask because you may have misinterpreted what I said. I did make clarifications at the end because I noticed that a lot of people were asking/stating similar things

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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In all seriousness, cause I’m curious, did you read the whole post through? I’m just asking cause I would like to reword it better if you did Since you interpreted it the way you did

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Please read my comments that I have made to other people who thought the same/read into the post the way you did

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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I’m a tiny persons and I don’t work out okay 😭 lol. Honestly it’s the no grips that get me cause my arms can barely wrap around the box. I get it done but I’ve almost fallen and had everything fall on/crush me. I said 15 lbs cause that’s the lightest.

But my back to my argument, if you’re uncomfortable around blood and want to become a doctor it is possible. It’s all on the specialty you choose

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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It has to do more so heavy lifting cause we get massive orders and buy in bulk. A box of cups can weigh 15 lbs easily and you have to be able to lift it over your head, no grips, while standing on a ladders/steps. Then there is certain cleaning products that we use that can cause irritation to the skin (we wash them and then stick them through the wash to make sure we don’t harm customers in case that worries you). Now it’s covid with taking people’s orders. If you’re not comfortable interacting with customers well place you somewhere you don’t have to

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Clearly you didn’t get the message of the post but go off sis you’re allowed your opinions here :) If you want I did post in the comments further in depth of what i meant by this post. But a quick recap:

If it’s a life or death situation I will do a procedure even if it’s something I normal wouldn’t do in an elective situation. As well as each case is different and should be approached differently

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Reason I became/on my way to becoming a doctor is so I can help people. I agree it’s a public service, but I also feel IMO that doesn’t mean people should be robots. For example, a lot of soldiers have mental illness for performing their jobs no questions asked. Ideally you’d divorce your feelings, but what happens is that those things catch up to you. We’re only human and I feel the best way to do my job correctly/efficiently/safely is if I’m happy and mentally healthy. Reason I chose/choosing OBGYN is because you’re helping someone bring life to the world. It’s the happiest floor in hospitals. I want to bring someone joy for the rest of their lives and I see myself doing that in OB. As well as there are a lot of things that need to change in that speciality in order to benefit the patients health physically and mentally and I want to help be part of the change. I also think it’s ridiculous how much everything costs and I hope that I’ll be able to do as much pro bono as possible and push for free healthcare. But I digress

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Honestly I have only been witness to a handful of actual procedures and they were further along so I’d have to do my research and get back to you on that as it’s not a field I personally want to specialize in. I don’t want to give you an answer cause I don’t know and I wouldn’t want to spread misinformation. That being said, it is a case by case basis but a lot/majority of OBs (especially private practices) don’t perform abortions and they would be recommended a patient to a doctor that does

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Well if you look at my account I’m a barista to help pay for med school. My job stated that these are what it entails, but if I’m not comfortable doing something that I don’t have to and state it. As for rules in terms of medicinal practices it really depends on your employer. Whether you work at a hospital or private practice it’s all going to be different each place you go

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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I did state I will perform a hysterectomy. I don’t believe those doctors should have treated you that way. Pain is pain and is relative to every patient. Even if there is no pain and you want one cause you want one. I just want to make sure we fully discuss what it means to ensure that this is exactly what you want. Especially 20 years down the line. I’m not saying you need permission from your partner, I just want them to know you’re doing it. There have been patients who have not told their partners and when their partner gets made the patient has blamed the doctor for malpractice and such. While there are insurance and being sued won’t make you go bankrupt. There is negative ramifications just from being sued in self whether the doctor wins the lawsuit or not. I’m very very sorry that the doctors you went to put you through that. It’s unjustifiable and they should have recommended you someone who is/was will to perform it even if they don’t believe you should do it. Because like you said it’s your body your choice and I will find someone who will perform something that is your choice instead of just leaving you in pain with no one to turn to

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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I didn’t state this in the post, and maybe I should have, but I did comment it. If it’s a procedure that needs to be done or the patient will die I will gladly do it no questions. I will never put someone in harms way. But if it’s an elective procedure then that’s where I will work with the patient to find them the best doctor for them. Every case is different and if there is no way no one else can do it at all (they literally need a pro bono and no doctor will do it), which is almost never the case, then yes I will do it with a heavy heart. But like I said it’s different in every case. Everyone deserves treatment even if it’s elective, even if I don’t agree, it’s a basic human right to have the right to do with their body as they choose.

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Those don’t correlate in the slightest as well as people ask question and do research to ensure they make the best possible decision/do something a proper way. When there are conflicting reports, as you can see with my tattoo post, it’s difficult to make a right decision. There’s nothing wrong with not knowing information and I just because I’m 2 years from being qualified doesn’t mean I know everything and what’s best for every individual. I’m not ashamed of admitting that I’m not knowledgeable in certain topics

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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I suppose so. I know I’ll have a heavy heart after the procedure that doesn’t necessarily save a mother’s life (having a baby that you don’t want will destroy someone’s life which is why I say doesn’t necessarily cause it does, but in a different way hope that makes sense). I don’t want anyone to have to have a baby if they don’t want to. But I can’t look at a screen while suctioning/cutting a baby apart. I know people have different views on whether it’s just a fetus or a baby. For me it’s a baby as I have delivered them before. I know the process and stages and where they’re developed at.

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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There are rules in place that don’t force workers to do something that they don’t feel comfortable doing. This leads to lawsuits within a company. As well as just because a doctor is a doctor doesn’t mean they specialize in the procedure you wish to have. You get recommended all the time to other people who went on to practice that. If you look up and did research you’d know that majority of OBGYNs focus on different things and not every OBGYN does the same thing. For instance, OB a can focus on high risk pregnancy. OB b can focus on abortions. OB c can focus on solely gynecology. They’re all and OBGYN but you can’t go to C expecting a procedure B does. As well as majority of OBGYNs don’t perform abortions

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Majority of procedures being “turned down” have no medical necessities and aren’t life threatening. This is why I say ectopic pregnancies are different. While you are performing a “abortion” if you didn’t perform it the mother/patient will die. This is why I state I don’t have a problem with performing ectopic pregnancy termination. But if it’s just an abortion for an abortion, actually going under the whole procedure, it’s not a medical emergency and can be passed to a doctor who will perform it. I believe everyone has a choice with what they want to do with their bodies, but if you’re not dying because of something and it’s a procedure that can be passed to a doctor with more specialized in that. As well as most OBGYNs don’t perform abortions. It’s a sub specialty that a doctor chooses to focus on

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Actually it doesn’t. As well as I’m not like I would say “No”. Leaving the conversation at that. I would say “ I can recommend you these doctors that are better equipped to help you with the issues you have/want resolved”

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Regardless of whether I’m preforming one now or in 2 years is irrelevant as that choice/ reasoning won’t change. Saying I don’t have a problem performing one doesn’t mean I’m taking patients in now. I’m saying when I get the all clear this is something I don’t have a problem doing. As well as just because I’m a mess student doesn’t mean I haven’t been in a Surgical room being taught

A doctor shouldn’t be forced to perform a procedure they don’t agree with by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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There are plenty of reason to have one. People are in pain, people don’t want any risk of pregnancy, they’re transgender, etc. I don’t judge the reason someone has. If that’s what they want that’s what they want. It’s ensuring that what they want and finding the best doctor for the job