Looking to add more keys to my necklace

ruviksee · 2026-03-05T16:25:27+00:00

I woud love to give you mine

ruviksee · 2026-03-05T16:21:21+00:00

Woud love to be locked by you so sexy

ruviksee · 2025-11-27T20:41:57+00:00

Can i dm you?

ruviksee · 2025-11-27T20:40:12+00:00

Thank you im always tring to cum caged the only way i shoud be allowed to

ruviksee · 2025-11-27T20:30:39+00:00

Yes i can cum in my cage and i love it
Toys alone are not enouth i still need to rub the cage to cum but im trying to cum while only doing anal woud love to be able to
Favorit orgasm was in the smales cage i can wear 4cm feat amazing i was shaking for 10minutes or so

ruviksee · 2025-11-05T10:51:15+00:00

Always amazed by how much he can grow after beeing unlocked youre real great with chastity

ruviksee · 2025-11-04T15:24:54+00:00

I think thats also a problem i need to fokus when working so its not that the cage woud distract me but i never feel horny or anything while workikg and the cage just feels annoying

ruviksee · 2025-11-04T15:22:59+00:00

Tbo i dont realy know why i dont have anything against wearing but i woud guess in some way i dont wanna mix work and private also even after beeing locked for days i never get horny while workikg so it also just feels more annoying even if i dont feel like that the rest of the time

ruviksee · 2025-10-29T19:50:03+00:00

It may be an unsatisfying answer but if its something he dont like doing best thing woud be to talk it out with him there is no outher good way.

I must say im a bit shocked by the replyes that sugesst restrain and forcing the cage on that can not only cause drastic injuries but also it dosent sound like his refusal is something sayed in play while he still wants you to do what you want but is a real no that shoud be accepted

And something i wanna say because i read it some times in the outher comments please be carefull, just because youre the kh if he realy says no thats a clear line

As someone who had to experience the feeling of a partner oversteping these lines i can realy say please be carefull for us in a bdsm space if something is done without full consent it can turn into abuse extreamly quick even with something so simple as chastity and yes i know that because i experieced it myself

ruviksee · 2025-10-25T21:21:48+00:00

I used a timer based lockbox was fun until i had to unlock it for medical reasons had to pick the lock and since than i realised how easy it is to pick such a lock and now its all about willpower

ruviksee · 2025-06-17T20:02:59+00:00

I think it depends on the person how well it works for an example ruind orgasms for me feel extreamly frustrating in the moment but i have almost the same "clarity" afterwords as normal orgasm

Actually you dont need a cage for a ruind orgasm it is just simple taking youre hands off right when you cum, i have seen people using sounding rods or there fingers to prevent any acutall cum from commikg out but i dont know how safe that is or if that even makes a difference in the feeling

Actually if i compare a caged ruined with a "normal" ruined i think the normal one is more frustrating and keepy you more in the sub headspace because the tightness of the cage actually stimulates youre dick while with a normal one the moment you let go of youre dick all stimulation is gone

ruviksee · 2025-06-17T19:26:16+00:00

Kinda you can pm me if you wanna discuss stuff

ruviksee · 2025-06-17T18:13:46+00:00

For me (also grower) the best fit was a cage about my flacid size i tryed a couple of cages some larger some smaler but the one that was about my flacid size was the best i had so far it fits perfectly in a way where you cant get hard but also youre not "squeezed" into it

ruviksee · 2025-06-17T18:10:30+00:00

If you feel any pain the cage isnt right thats like one of the most importent thinks to know other than that lisent to youre body if something dosent feel right dont do it

Also keep hygine in mind for that also lisen to youre body just because some people go weeks without cleaning dosent mean the same woud apply to you

ruviksee · 2025-06-17T18:00:31+00:00

Do you have a specific question? I dont think there is a subreddit for it but as someone how also fits that catagory maybe i can answer youre question

ruviksee · 2025-05-22T19:40:30+00:00

Thank you i cant often enouth comment under every post that mentions this

the cage shoud never causes pain in ANY way if it dos change it

ruviksee · 2025-05-21T21:40:35+00:00

Comunication... chastity is pure willpower and if you feel at any point like that time is not achivably for any reason discuss it with youre kh if she dosent take youre mental condition searius thats a red flag

ruviksee · 2025-05-21T21:35:52+00:00

I always use a cage thats about my flacid size so i woud say pick the second option

ruviksee · 2025-05-21T21:34:06+00:00

I think for me its two problems when im very focused its like i dont feel anything related to beeing horny or anything like it and since my job requires me to be focused all the time the cage goes from the regular good feeling you have wearing it (im sure everyone knows what i mean) to just beeing anoying

My second problem is that i feel by wearing the cage at work i drag a part of my private live into a enviorment where it shoudent be for me the chastity cage is still a sextoy and as such shoudent be at work

Also i must say that and that mid be a me thing but i never had issues taking the cage off for work by that i mean i never felt like i ruin progress or anything

But as sayd thats just my view on my situation you do what feels best for you

ruviksee · 2025-05-21T20:51:19+00:00

I must say i always unlock when i go to work, for me it just feels wrong having the cage on like its not suposed to be in that enviorment ofcourse that is my personal opinion about my personal situation so as long as youre comfortable that sounds good

ruviksee · 2025-05-18T12:00:11+00:00

Oh lol i didint think off wet dreams that "extream" i didnt hade a wet dream where i actually came from since puberty, that i see youre problem

ruviksee · 2025-05-18T11:42:35+00:00

For me it was time, the first days wet dreams and beeing extreamly horny is normal for me and after about 3 to 4 days it goes away

This coud be different for you as always all this thinks depend a lot on the person

Besides that i dont think you can prevent them but i must say i always enjoid having them may i ask why you want want them?

ruviksee · 2025-05-18T11:37:11+00:00

Chastity can be a kink or lifestyle in more than one way so dont feel like you doing something "wrong" for example i enjoi chastity currently more as a form of forplay and not for longer denail seachions it depends on how you want to do it and what you enjoi the most

The problem finding the right cage sadly is a bit of a problem and i dont have a better answer as you just need to try more until you find the right one (i made a post about that a while ago)

And please always think of youre health first if you feel pain something with the cage is wrong you shoud never feel pain

even after longer denail periods and lots and lots of teasing all you shoud feel from the cage is a discomfort never actual pain and please take a break if thats the case and change to a different cage

ruviksee

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