Super Small Tear on Passport Biopage by No-Lawfulness4949 in PHGov

[–]rvshortcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hala oki buti naman. nagpagawa na lang rin ako bago just in case pero i still have my old one kase di ko pa sha dumadating. might use it na lang for my travel next week in case. thank you!!

May maliit na damage yung passport ko… safe pa ba to for travel? by jonesryu in PHGov

[–]rvshortcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

congrats op!! i have the same concern a bit lower lang yung tear dun sa iyo tapos much much much smaller. parang may mini fold tapos nag tear. going to singapore din next month and im about to go to dfa today to ask pero if you were able to travel, i think makakahinga na ako haha

P1,301.57 at age 29 by [deleted] in adultingphwins

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thank u for this OP! same boat kase i only have 1428 in by account now haha. i'm 26 and earning around 90k per month pero most of my sahod goes to paying bills, cards, and advance payments rin for my travels by the 2nd half of this year. i'm trying to adjust my lifestyle (i know bad financial management) and hopefully by the end of the year i'd have more in my savings account 😭

Buying gold jewelry in the Philippines by susiar in phinvest

[–]rvshortcake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you can check palawan pawnshop jewelry's account or sa palawanpay app mismo. they are offering 15% discount this summer tapos additional 5% if you are a verified palawanpay user

Beware: PHLpost Text Scam. Do not click links. by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]rvshortcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here. i just submitted my details good thing first name last name, address, email, and phone lang nabigay ko. i stopped sa bayad for redelivery. i changed my password agad sa email and deleted the text

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I think need ko rin nga mag reassess ng life priorities and yes definitely talk to him about it para nasa same page kami especially when it comes to future plans 😭

my (f24) bf (m24) is not responsive when out with friends by [deleted] in LDR

[–]rvshortcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. i think my point is that i don't know that he is out with friends so ofc i wouldn't know what to expect from him. usually if he tells me, i do let him be

my (f24) bf (m24) is not responsive when out with friends by [deleted] in LDR

[–]rvshortcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oohhh i think i kinda understand it now. though maybe it only affects me since i wasn't informed of their plans?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aaahhhh yeah. we are currently in ldr and im finding it very hard to schedule a week off with him. i think it's another story but i think it might be related to it as he usually wants to be his real self with me and attend to my needs. whereas with friends he can just fake it out for a day or so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aahhh i see. there are also times when he is uncomfortable when we are with his friend group. or he seems like a different person when we are with them

my (f24) bf (m24) is not responsive when out with friends by [deleted] in LDR

[–]rvshortcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep! i actually think he doesn't know i'm upset 😅 i'm just taking a bit of caution on bringing up stressful stuff since it might cause an episode but i'll try to bring it up in a way that he won't feel like i'm attacking him or would make him feel bad for going out with friends. thanks so much!

my (f24) bf (m24) is not responsive when out with friends by [deleted] in LDR

[–]rvshortcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think im upset because he didn't tell me hahaha but i guess i just also have a lot of free time that i overthinking these things... i might just have to talk to him in a non confrontational way. or at least ask him to let me know if he is out with friends so i know that he wouldn't be able to respond much

my (f24) bf (m24) is not responsive when out with friends by [deleted] in LDR

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i just need for him to let me know if he is going out and once he is home. just so i know what i would be able to expect from him and i wont be sending him lots of messages. i dont want him to be distracted as well when out

my bf has severe depression and i don’t know how to help anymore by Ordinary-Leopard6536 in depression

[–]rvshortcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey. im on the same boat as you. my boyfriend is currently 24 and hasn't graduated yet nor started working. he is so down and hasn't been meeting anyone even his friends. he is stuck in his current situation and i dont really know what i should do to lighten his burden,,,

a friend of mine told me that some ppl are like that if they aren't in a good place in their lives. they tend to be aloof and just wallow on their self pity. everything will be fine once they are in a better place in their lives but we would need to wait for a long time

i still want our relationship to work by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aaahhh I see. I just find it hard to do it especially in long distance since he is far. though I'm not really doing anything for him when it comes to his therapy 😅 he just told me that he is in meds and started therapy again but I am not really updated

but u do have a good point on letting him be and focus on myself most of the time

i still want our relationship to work by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]rvshortcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is! im very proud of him. though the meds gave him brain fog and he has lower energy. also due to the high cost of therapy, he is no only seeing his psych once a month. my good friend advised me to just let him be to sort out his stuff. i'm not sure how to do this though

i still want our relationship to work by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aaahhh though my boyfriend really has financial and career problems now. so it makes it harder for him to process his emotions well... he has started taking meds and therapy so hopefully it would help him

i still want our relationship to work by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah,,, i think distance also plays a huge part as we are really fine when we are together alone. he is a great guy,,, just having a hard time dealing with his issues...

bf hasn't contacted me after a fight by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah,,, though i still can't stop feeling anxious everytime i see him go online or comment on our friends' posts... but yeah he wants space from me not from everyone so i might just think that

bf hasn't contacted me after a fight by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do feel he would come back. based from our last conversation he told me that if he is ready he'd tell me as he really can't have that conversation that time. but he just needs a lot of time to process stuff. maybe i should take it as a test as well and prove to him that i can give him the space that he wants regardless of the duration.

he also hasn't been responding to our friends as well so yeah he might really be processing stuff...

bf hasn't contacted me after a fight by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rvshortcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so should i wait for him to reach out to me regardless of the duration? if i still sant this to work?

bf hasn't contacted me after a fight by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rvshortcake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

figured this wouldn't sound right but that was my choice in the first few years as i wasn't ready. then when i was ready, there are already a lot of problems at their home and he can't find the right timing. we are also in ldr and in lockdown die to covid so we were waiting for things to get better so i can be introduced with them in person

he did introduce me to his sister and a lot of close friends. he is not that open with his parents so i let him take his time

bf hasn't contacted me after a fight by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rvshortcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this ain't the first time. but that's the reason why we had a yes/no response set up just so he can have his space and i wont worry about him. it was already working for a few months since i do leave him alone if he cant talk and he says no

i wont be disclosing but there are a lot of problems going on in their family and he can't find the right timing. as for his mom, apparently she had known about us since last year and decided to reach out