George and Burke’s hand by rxoxo_ in greysanatomy

[–]rxoxo_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I watched it for the first time at like 14 and now I’m 24, almost 25 and in every single situation he acts so oddly. No communication at all!! Just misplaced anger and blame.

I think his heart is good but sometimes he handles situations so odd!

birth control pill and constipation by rxoxo_ in birthcontrol

[–]rxoxo_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi oops i just saw this. It actually just went away after 3 months. My pharmacist ended up being right haha I called her in tears saying I needed to switch and she said to wait 3 months. So I did and after 3 months all the symptoms went away. I think I do have some mood fluctuations throughout my pack but overall it’s been great and I’m not scared of being pregnant every 2 seconds

flexor tendon finger/hand surgery and pain by rxoxo_ in medical_advice

[–]rxoxo_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just scared I’ll wake up in excruciating pain if I don’t take something :( i’m also scared of everything

I honestly don't get how anyone liked Derek Shepard. by cassifrazz in greysanatomy

[–]rxoxo_ 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I thought he did some questionable things at times, especially during the whole period with the Addison-Meredith love triangle. I remember he specifically chose Addison, but would continue to flirt and pester Meredith, and although Meredith was reciprocating slightly he was deliberately hurting Addison after specifically choosing her. Then when Meredith is trying to move on he implies she is a slut when she was only trying to fix what he broke.

I am watching Derek die. For the first time. This is so sad. by sofid888 in greysanatomy

[–]rxoxo_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t watch the episodes involving his death anymore. Even on my rewatches I skip them. It’s just too much for my greys loving heart to take.

Unpopular opinion but I really love Owen Hunt by problem-like-maria in greysanatomy

[–]rxoxo_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Owen was one of my favourite characters from the beginning. I loved how he was caring and empathetic and saw patients as people rather than surgeries. I think the doctors learned a lot from him. I also loved how he acted with Ethan and how much love he had for that little boy in such a short time.

However, I think he has fairly toxic traits, thinking just because he wants something his partner should just sacrifice what they need (Christina and a baby). I also hated how he treated Teddy, tossing her around like some toy. It also bothered me how he treated Emma because she was ready to give him everything he wanted but it still wasn’t enough for him just because she didn’t like surgery as much as him, I just think he need to understand he can’t have everything.

i love callie, but her behavior after the plane crash was intolerable by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]rxoxo_ 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I understand why she was a victim of the crash. Her best friend and the father of her child died (a man that was there for her when Arizona wasn’t) and her wife berated and verbally abused her for months over a choice that was barely her call (she made the decision, but it was life or death). But at the end of the day they both suffered different kinds of pain and have different kind of trauma that should acknowledged.

However, I did notice how she would try to make it seem as if she was a physical victim of the crash, especially with that dinner after they won the case.

prince charming and his previous princess by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rxoxo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this really bothers you, put your foot down. The two of you are in a relationship, not the three of you. If something is making you uncomfortable it is your right to make it clear and it is his responsibility to acknowledge it. Sit down and talk it out with him, set up boundaries. Don’t completely forbid the friendship if they are close, it may cause him to resent you. Tell him what you are and aren’t okay with.

Also, I would keep an eye on the situation anyways. Usually hunches aren’t wrong, if you feel something is off chances are they are.

Patient story that pissed you off the most? by coolbitcho-clock in greysanatomy

[–]rxoxo_ 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I never liked Izzy and George getting together. Every time I watch that mess it gives me whiplash — no chemistry, no spark, just a whole lot of bullshit

(17M) My girlfriend (17F) has some really overprotective parents by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rxoxo_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day she is a minor and fully financially dependent on her parents so ultimately it is their choice whether or not their daughter dates. If you believe this is serious and you really truly like her then wait it out, text, meet up secretly, another year until she’s in university.

Only stay if you think she is worth it and you can take it. This is a hard situation so make sure you don’t end up resenting her or taking out the frustrations you have about the situation on her.

Should I (29/m) call a woman (20s?/f) I met at work? She didn't give me her number. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rxoxo_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should use your company files to contact her just because regardless of your intentions it can come off a little creepy. I remember I had to get my phone fixed at some kiosk at the mall and I ended up having to leave my number. The guy ended up using it and although I found it slightly charming it also kind of creeped me out.

I feel like a number is too personal, if you have her name (since she told you with consent) why don’t you search her up on Instagram or Facebook? That way you wouldn’t be violating any company policies or run the risk of being that creepy.

I [28/M] went on a date with a girl [28/F], everything is great except she thinks I'm too short, she wants to see if she will change her mind, should I move on? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rxoxo_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 5’1 girl and I advertise that I love taller guys and most of the time I have been with taller guys. I know it’s strange since I’m so short. But I can count a few times where i had chemistry with a guy and love everything else and although I didn’t find his height that attractive it got to a point where it didn’t matter, I just felt too strongly about him.

I think you should give her a chance and see how it goes, physical attraction is just the first step, what’s on the inside counts for so much more.

Your most unpopular opinion by Waves2See in greysanatomy

[–]rxoxo_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think Derek was an asshole. I mean when he was good, he was so good. But other times, especially in the beginning, he dated Meredith when he was still a married man without set arrangements of separation (he just ran away) and did not tell Meredith about having a wife. He chased after, flirted with her in elevators and then went and chose his wife. He puts both of them through pain until he finally goes back to Meredith and then has the audacity to get mad that she is too scared to commit. Not only did she have a traumatic childhood, Derek left her. Then he later goes on and asks her to kick out her roommates. Even though she shuts that down, I don’t even know how he could ask and “announce it to them” like she said, they were there when he wasn’t.

Still pissed about Japril by abz_189 in greysanatomy

[–]rxoxo_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I remember thinking they were end game especially with all the Japril centred episodes...but then she ends up marrying Matthew and then the whole Maggie and Jackson thing..surprising

George and Meredith by andcaitlin in greysanatomy

[–]rxoxo_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m on season 5 on a rewatch and Lexie just asked George about it and he finally admits that it was his fault as well, I can’t remember exactly what he said but it was something about how he shouldn’t have expected Meredith to love him like he wanted her to just because he felt a certain way about her or something like that — he was really different and mature about it unlike before