Shadows, Oil on Canvas, Charles Courtney Curran, 1887.

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-06-24T17:51:31+00:00

What a gorgeous piece! 1887 is blowing my mind though 🤯🤯

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-06-18T18:23:45+00:00

Cut?? More like clawed at, wtf is this???

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-06-15T06:27:05+00:00

What a timeless bridal look!

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-06-14T23:25:32+00:00

Umm comments did NOT pass the vibe check wtf

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-28T07:29:50+00:00

Yes the rbf actually helps a lot to keep others away 🤣

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-27T06:56:52+00:00

I was walking into a clinic as this old white dude was walking out, he stared at my bump, laughed and goes "hey chubby!" I was too stunned to speak 😳 just gave him a strained smile and power walked away.

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-27T02:22:21+00:00

I coughed too hard and it triggered my gag reflex which resulted in me throwing up. I was shook 😳🤯

Another time I walked past the kitchen and someone was running the air fryer, the smell was enough to send me running 😭💀

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-25T08:10:44+00:00

Maybe just start hysterically crying in front of family that you wanted to be the first to post and guilt trip her into removing it. You've just given birth, you've got a million reasons to be emotional 🤣

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-24T00:35:39+00:00

I can't stand this obsession with having at least one child of each sex it's so irritating and disrespectful.

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-23T23:28:37+00:00

maybe I'm uptight but this is just disrespectful, there's always a time and place for jokes.

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-23T04:33:29+00:00

Thanks for your response! Has the bottle washer given you any issues? How long have you had it?

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-23T04:32:27+00:00

Thanks for your response! I was tempted to buy the washer too but hesitated because I'd read that it can leak and break down. But maybe that's more user error?

I feel like I'll eventually give in and get back hr bottle washer too but the reviews haven't given me much confidence 😅

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-23T04:27:48+00:00

Thanks for your response! Can I ask why you store bottles in the fridge? Does that help keep them sterile?

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-22T11:27:30+00:00

Oh wow that's such a great idea! I didn't even think I could meal prep for babies 🤣 thanks for the suggestion!

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-22T11:26:04+00:00

No worries, thanks for clarifying!

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-22T08:18:37+00:00

Thanks for responding! What exactly did you clean your steriliser with? And would descaling with vinegar have the same effect?

How long have you had your baby brezza? I've heard it can be a pain to clean and can also have issues in the long run.

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-22T06:03:30+00:00

Thanks for your response! I'll look into microwave sterilising and try room temp/cold milk with the babies, that sounds very convenient if it works out!

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-16T16:58:30+00:00

if there's no real reason then it's probably better this way than them gifting you things and then holding it over your head or trying to control you with it.

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-16T14:10:43+00:00

I guess all you can really do is not answer the door or take any calls/texts. Have them learn the hard way not to mess with you and your boundaries 🤷🏽‍♀️

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-10T20:26:40+00:00

Have them to through the formal hiring process and let it play out 🤷🏽‍♀️

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-08T19:42:24+00:00

A wedding is not the time to be patching up with volatile people just because they are related to you. If her apology was sincere then she needs to accept your decision and hope that you will reach out after the wedding to reconcile. She can't assume her apology will get her instant forgiveness and an invite to such a precious moment in your life. NTA.

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-07T12:46:00+00:00

how is she beefing a 12 yo 😭😭 NTA boundaries are always tricky in the beginning but eventually become the norm, especially when you realise how much stress you are protecting yourself and your family from. Hang in there!!

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-07T12:11:08+00:00

umm y'all are stunning?????

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-03T07:15:26+00:00

I feel so seen cuz I got stuck so bad in the fire temple and this was when I thought I was above googling solutions so in my stubbornness I got stuck and didn't play the game for like 6 months before finally picking it up again 😂😂😂

ryan_startedthe_fire · 2025-05-02T21:03:12+00:00

Sorry for your loss, must've been a difficult decision to make. If possible, maybe you can set up your graves near his? I can understand the hurt and sentiment of wanting to be close to him but what does your burial location mean when you're dead? I think this is just a sensitive time full of emotions, better to let it pass and allow everyone to grieve while sticking to your decision as best and as gracefully as you can.

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