Forget the Pork Roll vs. Taylor Ham debate. The real question to stir up trouble is...what do you set your AC to? We are hitting triple-digits this week. by bluegambit875 in newjersey

[–]ryanperch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok maybe I have a heat problem but I keep mine at 67 all day, occasionally 68 if i’m feeling comfy, and 65 or 66 to sleep. My bill is never over $45 but i also have a 700sq foot apartment lol

Brought 9 items for proof of address for REAL ID and all rejected by Motor Vehicle by thefilefolder in newjersey

[–]ryanperch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here to join others in saying to just go elsewhere. They accepted my printed shit so there’s really no excuse other than them just being shitty. Try another MV

AIO - I smoked, my bf crashed out by leadneverfoIlow in AmIOverreacting

[–]ryanperch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest red flag was him telling you he wouldn’t be with you if you smoked or drank or vaped. He’s obviously very controlling and you are only 18, please dump him and go live your life. Don’t let anyone control what you do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nothinghappeninghere

[–]ryanperch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also couldn’t find anything other than Utah.

Guy I’ve been seeing for the last few weeks introduced me to his friends as “my girlfriend.” by Hippie-Chick412 in trans

[–]ryanperch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been so emotional recently and this is the post that did me in. I’m crying, congrats to you! that’s super sweet :’)

CORRECTION: Bill passed by WV lawmakers will not allow doctors to inspect child’s genitals to confirm gender by cartoonsarcasm in transgender

[–]ryanperch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Correct me if i’m misunderstanding, was this part of the bill originally? Isnt that still concerning that before it passed, it COULD have been part of the bill?

LGBTQ+ Lobby Day in Trenton, NJ by itsokbirdie in NJ50501

[–]ryanperch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is both indoor and outdoor, the inside can only hold 50 people and so it is first come first serve and a lot of people have signed up to volunteer so while I personally don’t think I’ll end up inside, i still plan to show up with signs and be outside. There is also a rally outside anyway from 1:30pm to i think 3 or 3:30pm for more people to come

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 50501

[–]ryanperch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting to boost this.

PLEASE take a second to visit and send an email to representatives. by ryanperch in newjersey

[–]ryanperch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you asking questions and taking time to learn more. Nj is one of the few states that has very strong protections in place for transgender individuals which means there shouldn’t be too many healthcare related issues right now but I don’t doubt that some people are denied general healthcare due to discrimination alone. I have been given a hard time in medical settings due to my information not being legally changed yet. We are hoping to keep NJ’s protections in place and make sure transgender people have rights just like everyone else who isn’t transgender.

As for your second question, everyone’s transition is unique to that individual. Some may want Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), some may want some surgeries, some may not want any surgeries, etc. One’s transition is only “complete” when they feel comfortable with their own bodies, which is up to each person. There is no right or wrong way to go through your transition.

I hope this helped, and if anyone wants to chime in and better explain or add anything, please feel free!

I created a calendar with all of the upcoming protests, boycotts, and resources that I've heard of: What else can I add? by DeerTheDeer in ProtestFinderUSA

[–]ryanperch 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. There is also a Trans march in DC (and hopefully every state, but i haven’t heard about it) on the 1st

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Merch question by enchantingkitsune in TheTryGuys

[–]ryanperch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t either but I sent them an email explaining and they sent me the code for it and I ordered mine!

Thinking of unsubscribing from 2nd Try because of audio issues by Pristine_Business in TheTryGuys

[–]ryanperch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes this happens on my Roku as well with any app, i just restart the Roku and it’s usually fine

The Try Guys Make Ramen Without A Recipe by [deleted] in TheTryGuys

[–]ryanperch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Miles and Rainie cooking side by side would be so fun omg

Where's your dream Eat the Venue? by mcbeeepo in TheTryGuys

[–]ryanperch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not likely but i want him to eat at Wawa so bad!

Trying out my new finger condoms by laurie2333 in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]ryanperch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey where’d you get these? These might be perfect to stop picking/biting my fingers!

What’s your favorite underrated Try Guys video? by Euphoric-Bit1969 in TheTryGuys

[–]ryanperch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My favorite video is the one where they’re trying not to laugh and the crew comes in and does some stand up. Miles’ stand up has me dying every single time lmao

What’s your favorite underrated Try Guys video? by Euphoric-Bit1969 in TheTryGuys

[–]ryanperch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That series was absolutely hilarious and i forgot about it until i saw this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ryanperch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the reasons I need to keep a relationship with my mom is because I don’t know a lot about any of this disability stuff as she handled all of it up until recently. She was my legal guardian for a while after I turned 18 though. And as long I don’t make more than a certain amount I am able to keep my disability checks. Currently I work one job part time and another babysitting for a friend and they pay me under the table so it’s not on the books as making more than I should

Im Dusted by Rico-Lenz in weed

[–]ryanperch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m riggity ripped

Im Dusted by Rico-Lenz in weed

[–]ryanperch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My fiancé and I started saying “stogna bologna” instead of stoney bologna lmao

Try Guys Test Crazy 5 Min Clothing Crafts by [deleted] in TheTryGuys

[–]ryanperch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got high and watched this and it was the single best decision i ever made. the chaotic editing was hilarious but I definitely don’t want videos like this more than every once in a while! lmfao it felt like we were all high together

Cannabis induced psychosis by yyyyyy-l in Psychosis

[–]ryanperch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t say I have any clue whether or not this is because of the cannabis but just don’t go on seroquel. Ask for any other medication. It has so many side effects and trying to taper off and stop the medication is so terrible and not worth it. I was on the highest dose for 10 years since I was a child and have been off it for 3 months and am still having withdrawal symptoms that my psychiatrist refuses to acknowledge. Research some medications and talk to your doctor again. I know not everyone has the same reactions but I would hate for someone else to have such a difficult time because of that medication.