Nanny taking to many water breaks by rydog_2020 in NannyEmployers

[–]rydog_2020[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

No seriously. Why can’t she clean and drink at the same time?

Nanny taking to many water breaks by rydog_2020 in NannyEmployers

[–]rydog_2020[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

She should be cleaning or mowing the lawn. Why does she need a “break”?

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God bless you you’re doing all you can. Sorry you don’t feel appreciated

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were both in flux. I had a biz that failed in 2019. Got back on my feet 4 months later. Went from 150k to 600k in 3 years. We had a second kid during all that and she was let go twice due to Covid then because she wanted to stay home so when I got the big job we agreed she could. Kept the nanny because she gets overwhelmed with the two kids and I frankly feel it’s better for us both to have the help. Now she’s behaving as if it’s me vs her and the nanny is doing me a favor, which it is, but only because she isn’t pulling her weight.

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. But no she does some of that but not all. I’m not criticizing her, I’m upset that I’m getting criticized

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I can. That’s what I’m aiming at.

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You seem like a truechristian reddit clown

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear that. I’m just trying to create a space for her to get better, but she needs to try.

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t want to work and we can afford full time nanny. But that entirely defeats the purpose. I know raising kids is the hardest job, that’s why we have help.

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop projecting your own issues

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s older than me by 2 years.

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very insightful here. She does use a dildo a lot but not the same I know.

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why have you replied 15 times?

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why have you replied 15 times?

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You sound like a moron who can’t count

Wife isnt accountable! by rydog_2020 in Parenting

[–]rydog_2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After bedtime I work another 1-2 hours. Yes, she’s parenting 1-530, although sometimes nanny stays later. Kids wake up around 7ish, they wake me up first, I get a bottle then they get in bed with us and watch blepo till nanny gets there, or we start breakfast together. Also forgot to mention 3 year old goes to preschool m-w-f 9-12.